Recent study finds that 60% of men under 30 are single due to social media and the internet

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I think you guys are missing his point. He wasn't trying to approach that woman and he wasn't concerned about her rejection. It was the rudeness that offended him. It also speaks to her ego.

He went on to talk about the bear versus man in the woods trend because it's an example of how many young women raised on modern feminism are low key misandrist and have other off-putting qualities, that young men don't want to deal with.
Yeah but he could have said “fukk you bytch” and brought her down a notch. She could have been drunk, high, trying to neg him or have her own self esteem issues. It doesn’t matter, just tell her “fukk you bytch” and keep on moving.

He could also just ignore her and take solace she doesn’t matter. She is just some bytch in the bar, and wish the universe rewards her with something horrible.

You can’t let random strangers acts haunt your mind. Not for something that petty.
 

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Physical attraction is too wide ranging to believe that. I’m not speaking down to yoj but it’s one of those things you have to just turn off in your head. You might not meet a woman who makes it overtly apparent in the near term but that doesn’t mean women aren’t attracted to you.
I don't believe this based on my life experience. At least not for myself.

I grew up in a small town and I was always a big tall kid.

Women like short skinny dudes growing up (It's hilarious that I see so much shyt about height on here because growing up women didn't give a fukk about height.)

The guys that got women were always short and skinny.

The exact opposite of what I was.
 

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I don't believe this based on my life experience. At least not for myself.

I grew up in a small town and I was always a big tall kid.

Women like short skinny dudes growing up (It's hilarious that I see so much shyt about height on here because growing up women didn't give a fukk about height.)

The guys that got women were always short and skinny.

The exact opposite of what I was.
So you are going to base how the entire world works on your limited experience in an admittedly small town?

I’m pulling for you brother but things like this show how much in your head you are.

I say all of this as someone who wouldn’t categorize themselves as “ideally” attractive but women have and do find me attractive.
 

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So you are going to base how the entire world works on your limited experience in an admittedly small town?
I'm basing it on my 35 years of real experience

Here is an example of what I'm talking about that happened in real life, not the Internet.

I've been in settings where I had to speak to women for a task, at school not to hit on them and they've refused to speak to me.

My first day of college we have orientation and the instructor asks us to greet the person to our left and our right.

I had a corner seat and there was only someone to my right. The woman to my right refused to turn around and say hello to me.

Had women laugh in my face.

Tell me I'm ugly.

Stop talking to me once I sent them a picture of my face.

I had a retail job which taught me a lot about sales and talking to people.

We're having a meeting and our boss ask how I am as a worker.

My female co-worker says
"Oh he's so great with the customers. He knows how to talk to them and make them comfortable and buy more items. It's obvious it's not how he looks so he's a good talker"

Like damn you ain't have to add that at the end :dahell:

I was the guy that if a group of girls walked by, to tease one of them they would say "look there's your boyfriend" because of how ugly I am.

Dudes in HS would always say some girl liked me but I knew that was impossible because I was ugly and never took the bait :mjgrin:

Turns out the girls were put up to it to try and embarrass me but a young nikka was too smart :mjgrin:
Yea I've been around women and they get the choosing and leave me assed out, I mean it sucks but I feel like they weren't really being disrespectful so I don't need to highlight that as if they were wrong.

Been with the crew and the females only talk to who they like and ignore everyone else.

There was this chick at a party giving everybody a lap dance. So somebody says

"Yo give my man Dariana a lapdance"

She sobered up real quick :mjlol:

My thing is if she ain't disrespectful that's not a big deal.

These women are highlighting that as if these men owe them something for not talking to them.

Women don't owe men shyt and men don't owe women shyt.
 

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I'm basing it on my 35 years of real experience

Here is an example of what I'm talking about that happened in real life, not the Internet.
I got 48 years of experience……..

I’m not going to invalidate your experience but if your stance is that no woman will ever find you attractive then you written the chapter and decided it for yourself instead of women you meet in the future deciding otherwise.
 

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I got 48 years of experience……..

I’m not going to invalidate your experience but if your stance is that no woman will ever find you attractive then you written the chapter and decided it for yourself instead of women you meet in the future deciding otherwise.
Women decided that chapter for me.

I gave examples of me trying to interact with women for school and they refused to talk to me.

I wasn't hitting on them.

I simply existed and tried to say hi at an orientation that we were asked to do.

And this was college, not junior high.

Women have treated me like a monster for existing, not for being some fat creepy weirdo that tried to hit on them.

How is a person supposed to feel about themselves being treating like less than human by women for not even doing anything?
 

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Women decided that chapter for me.

I gave examples of me trying to interact with women for school and they refused to talk to me.

I wasn't hitting on them.

I simply existed and tried to say hi at an orientation that we were asked to do.

And this was college, not junior high.

Women have treated me like a monster for existing, not for being some fat creepy weirdo that tried to hit on them.

How is a person supposed to feel about themselves being treating like less than human by women for not even doing anything?
Well that’s two different conversations…..

Like I said, I won’t invalidate what you’ve gone through. shyt sucks and you are entitled to have scars from it.

I won’t back down in my belief that human attraction is to wide ranging to say no woman will ever find you attractive.
 

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I won’t back down in my belief that human attraction is to wide ranging to say no woman will ever find you attractive.
I'm telling you from life experience, no female with find a 35 year old male with no relationship experience attractive.

Females do not want to waste their time with a man that old with no relationship experience which means again, no woman would find me attractive once they truly know who I am.
 

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I'm telling you from life experience, no female with find a 35 year old male with no relationship experience attractive.

Females do not want to waste their time with a man that old with no relationship experience which means again, no woman would find me attractive once they truly know who I am.
And vice versa. There's a lot of women in this same boat right now too.
 

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I'm telling you from life experience, no female with find a 35 year old male with no relationship experience attractive.

Females do not want to waste their time with a man that old with no relationship experience which means again, no woman would find me attractive once they truly know who I am.
I got married two weeks ago and it’s not like I had a ton of relationships before I met my wife. Met her when I was 43.

Life is what is you make it…….
 

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And vice versa. There's a lot of women in this same boat right now too.
No they're aren't.

There are not a lot of 35 year old women who's self esteem was destroyed since elementary school so much so that they decided to see a male prostitute to boost their self esteem and no longer see themselves as desirable to the opposite sex.
 

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I got married two weeks ago and it’s not like I had a ton of relationships before I met my wife. Met her when I was 43.

Life is what is you make it…….
What age did you realize women were sexually attracted to you?

Did you meet her at 43 with no relationship experience at all?

The fact that you had relationships at all proves you don't know what I'm talking about.
 

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No they're aren't.

There are not a lot of 35 year old women who's self esteem was destroyed since elementary school so much so that they decided to see a male prostitute to boost their self esteem and no longer see themselves as desirable to the opposite sex.
Nah son men AND women in the generation are both delayed to dating as young adults. Lacking relationship experience etc. It's happening more frequently than the past
 

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You quoted me and say women are in the same boat as me because they are not.

We are not in the same boat at all.
In this era both men and women are struggling with dating and having dating experience etc. You just not hip. It's mostly men but also more women than ever before. They have femcels like never before.
 
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