Recent study finds that 60% of men under 30 are single due to social media and the internet

[Wargames]

@Shadow King I am gonna them daps back but you’ll never get p*ssy.



I’m chatting with multiple Latinas cause I am in a Latina mood. Meanwhile your whole style is p*ssy repellant.

 

[Shadow King]

@Shadow King I won't gonna them daps back but I deserve it.



I’m chatting with multiple Latinx trannies cause I am in a Latinx mood. I know my whole style is p*ssy repellant. I'm just on tryna dismiss what's really going on in the world to stay in the closet.

 

[Braman]

Be careful consuming the indoctrination. Media is female pandering.

Bc @ them gaslighting with the depressed pic

Meanwhile for women, this would be promoted positively as empowerment

 

[Belize King]

This. Cold approaching was a tried and true method (at least in the black community) that was very socially acceptable, and kats could kick game for hours about tricks and tactics that would now be considered weird IF the dude using them isn't attractive.

THEN, them níggas could seamlessly transition to dating apps back when they were in their infancy and weren't flooded with bots and hookers. Women now have options that are in another state.

AND they had the early versions of social media platforms like MySpace where your profile was enough to snag women.

AND they were using said social media before clout chasing, high-key escort ads, and self-advertisment were rampant.

That's not even getting into the financial positives of finding women back then. A dude working on the line at Hyundai could afford a decent house and a decent car with his bills paid, and still have money for fun DOLO pre-recession. That was enough to bag high-quality women.

And, no, I don't want to hear about the one nígga, who is an outlier, because he's a bum with a career woman. That shít isn't normal...

Damn…

You making us OGs feel bad.

Looks like that game done changed.

 

[Scaaar]

Quick side note I got to shout this fakkit @Shadow King for negging every comment I make. Clearly he gets no p*ssy so he is mad at the world.

Just cause your mom was easy doesn’t mean you got to be mad at the fact nobody could teach you no game wack nikka.

Yeah I just peeped that he did that to me too. No actual participation in the convo just throwing out angry negs

 

[Shadow King]

Yeah I just peeped that he did that to me too. No actual participation in the convo just throwing out angry negs

I have comments in here from when the thread was originally started.

You and another dismissive niqqa have the most posts in here for the sole purpose of simply being tired of a particular side of the convo and telling cats to hush. I'm not wasting energy on 15+ original posts with cats like you.

 

[DaHNIC82]

You call it coping but there is a mental clarity you get when you stop pursuing the approval and favor of others and simply live for yourself. I only spend money on things I want because I want them not because I think it will gain me someone else's approval.

A lot of the things I used to buy I stopped buying. I don't waste my money on things like Jordan's anymore. Most of what I wear are solid color tees, jeans, and plain nondescript shoes. I stopped caring about name brand stuff.

I go to the gym and workout not because I want a nice body to impress someone else but because it's for me and my health. I've been way more successful at that.

I take money I used to waste on meaningless crap and invest it instead.

I've never been happier in life than when I abandoned chasing women. Life is no longer about getting the approval and acceptance of others. It's just about whatever I want. Sure I may be what others consider a giant manchild living a responsibility free life but I like it that way.

I don't have any of the financial concern many of my peers do. No wife, girl, or kids to worry about just me to be concerned about and take care of.

You can do all that and still date women. The dating world is what you make it. The first and best thing you can do is never take these women or whatever they say seriously.

 

[Shadow King]

You can do all that and still date women.

Women bring complication and expenditure of resources (money tangibly, time and energy intangibly)...so not really.

All experiences are give and take.

 

[DaHNIC82]

Women bring complication and expenditure of resources (money tangibly, time and energy intangibly)...so not really.

All experiences are give and take.

Depends champ. You have to have a system at play. If she becomes a liability. You ax her. You seek cooperation, standards, and respect as a man. She refuses any of that. Charge

 

[Shadow King]

Depends champ. You have to have a system at play. If she becomes a liability. You ax her. You seek cooperation, standards, and respect as a man. She refuses any of that. Charge

Don't disagree, but it's also much simpler to not engage from the rip. Breh is in his 50s, he'll be aight by not being pressed.

 

[Wild self]

The moment the manosphere went from PUA to MGTOW it lost the plot….

Early PUA is still great material. It teaches men self improvement, the power of saying "no" to entitled women, the importance of physical hobbies and mastery of harder skills, and the overall CLARITY of men and women nature wise.

 

[Mandarin Duck]

Just have to say…of all the men that I’ve noted posting in here, you seem to be the one with the most potential to turn it around. And it’s interesting and not lost on me that you also appear to be the only one that 1) shows a good level of introspection 2) tries to see things from the woman’s perspective and 3) actually does seems accepting of your situation, and not just saying things out of pride. Of course I’m only going on your few posts in here. You may be otherwise quite discontented and resentful and I’ve just not seen it.

Not that it matters or that it’s anything you’d act on, but if you do change your mind and decide to get back out there and date/try to find a wife, I think you’d have a good shot if you find yourself a therapist and commit to working through your self esteem issues. And not to find someone, but just to improve your own well being. Then you can put yourself out there in places where similarly inexperienced women are more likely to be and you’ll probably have much more success.

I understand the struggles of incels.

I'm also a painfully self aware person.

I don't go around blaming people for my situation, but I also think I'm too far gone and like @High Art has mentioned, the amount of effort I'd have to put in just doesn't seem worth it.

Rejection hurts and at 35 I tend to be less tolerant to putting myself in situations that are uncomfortable.

The few dates I did go on ended up making me feel worse about myself because they didn't go anywhere. That feeling of "see there is something wrong with you" is what I felt the most.

I'm not going to lie and say I'm content being alone either. I've just accepted I'll be alone.

 

[Mandarin Duck]

Those kind of women may not reject you in person if you spoke to them. You might say something funny, or have a vibe with them. But breh, if those are your league, and they are rejecting you,



What was your message?

“Hi”

??

I'm not sure where this idea that regular incel men are regularly pursuing IG models came from.

Them struggling with women came from real life experiences first.

The irony is that people who assume that much be watching too much red pill content.

That was my point of posting what I did.

That's simply not true.

A major problem with these conversations is nobody listens to these men. Which is why they choose to go into echo chambers of self loathing and defeatist attitudes.

And I'm saying more than hi. I look at their profile and try to say something about them specifically

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

I'm not sure where this idea that regular incel men are regularly pursuing IG models came from.

Them struggling with women came from real life experiences first.

The irony is that people who assume that much be watching too much red pill content.

That was my point of posting what I did.

That's simply not true.

A major problem with these conversations is nobody listens to these men. Which is why they choose to go into echo chambers of self loathing and defeatist attitudes.

And I'm saying more than hi. I look at their profile and try to say something about them specifically

You have to get off the apps.

 

[Mandarin Duck]

You have to get off the apps.

I'm not on them anymore.

It destroyed my self esteem even more.

I just made sure to save my experiences and post them anytime someone claims that incels are only pursuing IG models.