Recent study finds that 60% of men under 30 are single due to social media and the internet

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

We bring this fact and they reject it constantly because it goes against the narrative. You see the examples of the women that they pick to prove their point. All they do is chase down the IG chick who are about the bag and clearly say it loud and proud. Those are the chicks they chase down and try to make an honest woman out of lol. On top of it they want that woman to just love and respect them off the strength of them being a man and not actually want them for their money because then she's a gold digger. How does that make sense. These dudes dating requirements are just as twisted as the women they bash everyday. Two sides of the same coin

I’d like to see some examples of the women who reject them, and what kind of women they find acceptable to date.

 

[HabitualChiller]

if you are 40+ years old you have no business commenting on what men are dealing with when it comes to dating
ya'll nikkas had it extremely easy lol

This. Cold approaching was a tried and true method (at least in the black community) that was very socially acceptable, and kats could kick game for hours about tricks and tactics that would now be considered weird IF the dude using them isn't attractive.

THEN, them níggas could seamlessly transition to dating apps back when they were in their infancy and weren't flooded with bots and hookers. Women now have options that are in another state.

AND they had the early versions of social media platforms like MySpace where your profile was enough to snag women.

AND they were using said social media before clout chasing, high-key escort ads, and self-advertisment were rampant.

That's not even getting into the financial positives of finding women back then. A dude working on the line at Hyundai could afford a decent house and a decent car with his bills paid, and still have money for fun DOLO pre-recession. That was enough to bag high-quality women.

And, no, I don't want to hear about the one nígga, who is an outlier, because he's a bum with a career woman. That shít isn't normal...

 

[Roid Jones]

Are you seeing this thread, filled with defeatist, entitled rhetoric and these are the men that demand black women should fall in line for them

 

[Roid Jones]

That's how a majority of all men learned the game. You gotta actively participate in it and take your bumps and bruises. But that's how you know what type of woman you truly want and how to approach and treat her when you encounter her.

Yep, a lot of men simply don't want to go through the fire, I don't know who told them acquiring skill would be easy

 

[Curufinwe]

Get out and meet real people.
And going oversea will change nothin? You still need to be sociable and talk to people.

 

[The ADD]

I'm an introvert.

I speak when spoken too.

I'm from a small farming town with very few black people.


Grew up seeing guys easily get women and you always have that thought of "So what's wrong with me?"

I could probably meet women at my job, but I'm not interested.

1. My self esteem
2. The idea of things going south and me being unemployed.

I work for the state of CA and it happens a lot.

I went on a few dates last year but it's pretty easy to tell I have no dating experience so it never goes anywhere.

At 35 can't blame a woman for not wanting to deal with that.

 

[Scaaar]

Regular people ain't got the money for that nonsense

Yeah they do. They do 100 $5 20-leg parlays a month. They spend all their money on vices and other stuff. That's the first place they need to get some discipline. If they stopped doing that for 1-2 months they'll notice a few extra dollars in their account

 

[PartyHeart]

I'm an introvert.

I speak when spoken too.

I'm from a small farming town with very few black people.


Grew up seeing guys easily get women and you always have that thought of "So what's wrong with me?"

I could probably meet women at my job, but I'm not interested.

1. My self esteem
2. The idea of things going south and me being unemployed.

I work for the state of CA and it happens a lot.

I went on a few dates last year but it's pretty easy to tell I have no dating experience so it never goes anywhere.

At 35 can't blame a woman for not wanting to deal with that.

Just have to say…of all the men that I’ve noted posting in here, you seem to be the one with the most potential to turn it around. And it’s interesting and not lost on me that you also appear to be the only one that 1) shows a good level of introspection 2) tries to see things from the woman’s perspective and 3) actually does seems accepting of your situation, and not just saying things out of pride. Of course I’m only going on your few posts in here. You may be otherwise quite discontented and resentful and I’ve just not seen it.

Not that it matters or that it’s anything you’d act on, but if you do change your mind and decide to get back out there and date/try to find a wife, I think you’d have a good shot if you find yourself a therapist and commit to working through your self esteem issues. And not to find someone, but just to improve your own well being. Then you can put yourself out there in places where similarly inexperienced women are more likely to be and you’ll probably have much more success.

 

[Wargames]

I'm an introvert.

I speak when spoken too.

I'm from a small farming town with very few black people.


Grew up seeing guys easily get women and you always have that thought of "So what's wrong with me?"

I could probably meet women at my job, but I'm not interested.

1. My self esteem
2. The idea of things going south and me being unemployed.

I work for the state of CA and it happens a lot.

I went on a few dates last year but it's pretty easy to tell I have no dating experience so it never goes anywhere.

At 35 can't blame a woman for not wanting to deal with that.

Ok, yeah, yeah

So part of it might be the dating pool, but even at 35 you can get better with women. Everything you feel like was a sign “you don’t have dating experience” do your best to not do those. Like we all have self defeating tendencies or bad experiences. It’s ok to feel a sort of way about them, but they are learning experiences. Really sit back in it and think, why did certain things happen, did something trigger those things, and can I improve on or just avoid these things.

Also, I do recommend just getting female friends to have women to talk to get use to talking to them. There people, maybe a little smarter when it comes to relationships cause but even if you fukk up there is always another woman you can talk to later and try again.

 

[Roid Jones]

Get out and meet real people.
And going oversea will change nothin? You still need to be sociable and talk to people.

I've always wondered why people think going to a new location will instantly transform them into a new person, if you're lame in America you're, still lame in Bolivia, the trait's don't magically disappear

 

[Mandarin Duck]

I’d like to see some examples of the women who reject them, and what kind of women they find acceptable to date.

This idea that lonely men only want IG models is not true.

Here's an example of the group of women I personally sent a message to and wouldn't reply to me on a dating site.

Spoiler

These are the type of women rejecting us. Not Instagram models

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

This idea that lonely men only want IG models is not true.

Here's an example of the group of women I personally sent a message to and wouldn't reply to me on a dating site.


These are the type of women rejecting us. Not Instagram models

Those kind of women may not reject you in person if you spoke to them. You might say something funny, or have a vibe with them. But breh, if those are your league, and they are rejecting you,



What was your message?

“Hi”

??

 

[Wargames]

Quick side note I got to shout this fakkit @Shadow King for negging every comment I make. Clearly he gets no p*ssy so he is mad at the world.

Just cause your mom was easy doesn’t mean you got to be mad at the fact nobody could teach you no game wack nikka.

 

[Shadow King]

Quick side note I got to shout this genius @Shadow King for negging every comment I make. Clearly he knows I'm a bìtch ass niqqa who 40 and worried about neg daps so I'm actually the one out here beating my dìck ashy

 

[Wild self]

Facts.

Zoomers struggle because they're the first generation where the women CLEARLY outperform the men in almost every metric, especially education. Gen Z women have become more liberal because of an expanded worldview....while all the manosphere/UFC/Joe Rogan shyt that was aimed at younger Millenial men, actually reached the Gen Z men. Millenials were already grown when that shyt started popping while Z was exposed since they were kids and teens.

Rather than leveling up, they want the women brought down to them.

Most of the problem comes from underdeveloped social skills. Too much screen time, soft parenting (mom AND dad) and a nihilistic attitude towards everything. Say what you want about Boomers but they instilled fire in their 80s/Reagan Baby offspring. Gen X coddled their kids too much and allowed rebellion instead of discipline. The girls are fine but the boys.....

Yeah, older Gen Y breh here.

My parents pushed me hard academically and wanted me to start working part time as soon as possible. Had my first job (off the books) at 13.5 years old, before graduating middle school. Worked that whole summer and stacked over $17k before stepping in the 9th grade. That lazy slouch shyt wasnt an option in my parents household the moment I entered 7th grade.