100% agree.
My parents knew I was capable of getting A's, so that was the expectation. If I showed up with 87, 88 or 89, they'd be like
. Nothing serious, but usually that meant I was playing too much Tekken 3, Madden and Metal Gear. Soon as I turned off the games Mon to Thursday.....that 87 would go back up to a 95.
I wouldn't want to pressure my kids as bad as some Indian parents. Saw too many brown homies trying to be software engineers when they had more talent for sales or marketing. However, in our community...a little "Tiger Parenting" is needed. Same way we see all the dads of pro athletes working with their kids jumpshot or footwork, we need that diligence applied to Calculus, Physics etc.