Rap Sh!t star Aida Osman was coerced out of coochie by "Wild N Out" star, she was only 22 yrs old!

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the fact that people are advocating for lying and antisocial behavior just to shift blame here

"your boss asks for coffee well lie to him and say you are out or tell him no".
can yall just not live for bytches and blunts tho?! :snoop: like.... you got all day for that shyt, leave it out of the workplace.
 

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Luke Cage even showed yall what time it was when getting coffee


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I can understand that but at some point, you need to fukking grow up. Both men and women

If she’s 22 and just now realizing men spit game then it’s going to be a lot of growing pains

My main thing is, at what age should a woman be considered an adult? Apparently it’s no longer 18, now it’s not 22.. is it 30?


Never#TheChildOfMan:wow:
It's funny because almost all men have the experience of a woman who was ready and willing to have sex or be intimate but is waiting for you to "try something". So it kind of leads to this mindset that the man has to be aggressive and persistent, which creates blurry lines like this.

That said I actually agree with the sex ed teacher in your scenario, and I didn't view it this way until reading that so I'll stash that into my personal knowledge base


I dont agree with the teacher based on actual life experience. But i agree based on what Ive seen women say on line amongst each other. So who knows which version is the real version. But I tend to trust the real time version of events more than the retelling.or maybe two things can be true. Ive had women say "no" in the midst of making out,or in the midst of unfastening of buttons. As they continue to remove YOUR clothing,unfasten your buckle. Ive continued to kiss a womans neck after she says no,she reciprocates the foreplay. How is that rape if my dikk isnt even in yet:gucci:? Thats what that teacher is trying to imply.


Thats called arrousal, so arrousing you into sex isnt fairgame? In that case ive had women rape me too. I said no because I had a girl,they grabbed my dikk and I immediately caved in,but I did say no:hubie:


Truthfully i didnt mean the no when I said it. But at least i could tell my girl i said no if I get caught. And it makes my conscience feel a bit better "i tried to stop it:mjcry:"


But the teacher is right,its not something you want a woman to have in her back pocket. So just call it quits for the night
 

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I dont agree with the teacher based on actual life experience. But i agree based on what Ive seen women say on line amongst each other. So who knows which version is the real version. But I tend to trust the real time version of events more than the retelling.or maybe two things can be true. Ive had women say "no" in the midst of making out,or in the midst of unfastening of buttons. As they continue to remove YOUR clothing,unfasten your buckle. Ive continued to kiss a womans neck after she says no,she reciprocates the foreplay. How is that rape if my dikk isnt even in yet:gucci:? Thats what that teacher is trying to imply.


Thats called arrousal, so arrousing you into sex isnt fairgame? In that case ive had women rape me too. I said no because I had a girl,they grabbed my dikk and I immediately caved in,but I did say no:hubie:


Truthfully i didnt mean the no when I said it. But at least i could tell my girl i said no if I get caught. And it makes my conscience feel a bit better "i tried to stop it:mjcry:"


But the teacher is right,its not something you want a woman to have in her back pocket. So just call it quits for the night
Definitely truth to this also.

In fact some women aren't even comfortable enough with themselves to ever say yes and don't ever initiate. They see it as the man's job to read the situation and read their minds.

Still, as we get scarier and scarier stories, I think we should be teaching no means no and being safer than sorry and making sure we get more yesses because these women are actively out here villainizing us and we need to be on our shyt.
 

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Never#TheChildOfMan:wow:



I dont agree with the teacher based on actual life experience. But i agree based on what Ive seen women say on line amongst each other. So who knows which version is the real version. But I tend to trust the real time version of events more than the retelling.or maybe two things can be true. Ive had women say "no" in the midst of making out,or in the midst of unfastening of buttons. As they continue to remove YOUR clothing,unfasten your buckle. Ive continued to kiss a womans neck after she says no,she reciprocates the foreplay. How is that rape if my dikk isnt even in yet:gucci:? Thats what that teacher is trying to imply.


Thats called arrousal, so arrousing you into sex isnt fairgame? In that case ive had women rape me too. I said no because I had a girl,they grabbed my dikk and I immediately caved in,but I did say no:hubie:


Truthfully i didnt mean the no when I said it. But at least i could tell my girl i said no if I get caught. And it makes my conscience feel a bit better "i tried to stop it:mjcry:"


But the teacher is right,its not something you want a woman to have in her back pocket. So just call it quits for the night

Well, if you said no and she grabbed your dikk then that is sexual assault. She got lucky because you’re a straight man who like p*ssy from attractive women.

because if she said no and you grabbed her by the p*ssy the. you going to jail, rightfully so.
 

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Wow.

Ummm..

I hope this message reaches all parts of the globe and lives on into the distant future

Dudes are basically ALWAYS working an angle to try and fukc.

Young men are ESPECIALLY horny and motivated to find sex partners.

If his dikc works, he likes women, and you're cute:

He's trying to fukc. Act accordingly. As in: if you DON'T like him like that do not entertain any type of friendship.

This will perhaps have you miss out on one or two truly honest male friends. But it will steer you clear of billions of dudes pretending to be friendly.

Do women NOT know this?
They know. They often just choose naivety because the effort of responsibility and discernment seems like too much to bear for them.
 

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What y’all don’t get is some ppl throw their daughters out into the world with no street smarts. The TRUTH is young women need to be taught to expect the worst out of men, which is what prevents stupid situations like someone “following you to your room for sugar”.


Example: I remember when I was in college and sometimes a guy would offer to walk me (or other girls, etc) to my dorm after a party on campus. I would think it was because the guy was being a gentleman, and I really appreciated that, because of course you shouldn’t be walking alone at night, regardless of how safe your campus is. Until the Ni66a tried to get in my damn dorm room! :wtf: There was no discussion of coming in my room, “hanging out”, etc. Literally “Oh, I’ll walk you across campus to make sure you’re ok”. Or if I had bags and someone offered to take my groceries, etc to my dorm. Then stand at my door like I'm supposed to invite him in :childplease:. These dudes weren’t being gentlemen for the sake of being a gentleman- it was just a guise to get to my door. You would say “duh, why did think someone would want to carry your bags or walk you home from a party?!” but most ppl aren’t expecting or assuming the worst of others.


The way most dudes are, young women literally have to just ASSUME that a guy isn’t being genuine, because most times they aren’t when you’re 18, 19, 22, etc. <— That is what ppl are SUPPOSED to teach their daughters.



Those are the stupid games dudes play with young girls who they know don’t know any better.

Now I grew up with a bunch of men who made it clear that I didn’t owe anyone shyt, so when a dude tried to get in my dorm or act like I “owed them” for their kind deed I’d make it clear that wasn’t happening and to get the fukk out of my face.

HOWEVER, what happens with the young ladies who are easily intimidated? The young ladies who aren’t as strong-willed and adamant? The young ladies who don’t want people to think they are a “b!tch”? What happens when they make the mistake of letting someone stronger than them in their room/home?






AND I’M NOT TRYING TO MAKE THIS A JOKE. But this is the shyt dudes be on! That’s why they even joked about it on the show, because it’s scumbag shyt that works on naive young women or dumb older women

The standard walk a chick to the dorm is the oldest trick in the book it was so common they had Dwayne Wayne out at the girls dorm "helping girls" put their stuff in the room.
 

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What y’all don’t get is some ppl throw their daughters out into the world with no street smarts. The TRUTH is young women need to be taught to expect the worst out of men, which is what prevents stupid situations like someone “following you to your room for sugar”.


Example: I remember when I was in college and sometimes a guy would offer to walk me (or other girls, etc) to my dorm after a party on campus. I would think it was because the guy was being a gentleman, and I really appreciated that, because of course you shouldn’t be walking alone at night, regardless of how safe your campus is. Until the Ni66a tried to get in my damn dorm room! :wtf: There was no discussion of coming in my room, “hanging out”, etc. Literally “Oh, I’ll walk you across campus to make sure you’re ok”. Or if I had bags and someone offered to take my groceries, etc to my dorm. Then stand at my door like I'm supposed to invite him in :childplease:. These dudes weren’t being gentlemen for the sake of being a gentleman- it was just a guise to get to my door. You would say “duh, why did think someone would want to carry your bags or walk you home from a party?!” but most ppl aren’t expecting or assuming the worst of others.


The way most dudes are, young women literally have to just ASSUME that a guy isn’t being genuine, because most times they aren’t when you’re 18, 19, 22, etc. <— That is what ppl are SUPPOSED to teach their daughters.



Those are the stupid games dudes play with young girls who they know don’t know any better.

Now I grew up with a bunch of men who made it clear that I didn’t owe anyone shyt, so when a dude tried to get in my dorm or act like I “owed them” for their kind deed I’d make it clear that wasn’t happening and to get the fukk out of my face.

HOWEVER, what happens with the young ladies who are easily intimidated? The young ladies who aren’t as strong-willed and adamant? The young ladies who don’t want people to think they are a “b!tch”? What happens when they make the mistake of letting someone stronger than them in their room/home?






AND I’M NOT TRYING TO MAKE THIS A JOKE. But this is the shyt dudes be on! That’s why they even joked about it on the show, because it’s scumbag shyt that works on naive young women or dumb older women



I agree with this also. That young girls need to be taught to be stern and direct. Yes their are violent men who might attack you or rape you in response. But most men arent violent or rapist,but alot of men lack awareness. Body language doesnt really lie,but some men lack awareness and some willfully ignore it. Alot of women do play games and send mixed signals,which is a horrible recipe for men who lack awareness.


I like the good old fashioned telling a man there wont be any sex out the gate. Not that a man wont still try. But alot of men will get defensive that you even said that. So now they will look silly if they try to have sex. Plus if they do try,when you give your stern no it shouldnt come as a shock.


And there are some women who just dont have it in them to be stern,be mean,or hurt someones feelings. This is the small fraction of women where i say it falls on the men. You bear some responsibility to read the body language and demeanor. I dont see how its possible to not notice a woman is uncomfortable if she truly feels she is being raped. But apparently alot of men out here lack awareness of any kind. Or they are pretending to be clueless just like alot of these women are. Id say its a mixed bag,there are alot of women who are clueless,and cant be direct. And there are men who lack awareness.But im telling you now,being a man who lacks awareness will not get you the same sympathy#WeCanAllBeCosby #TightenUp
 
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