What y’all don’t get is some ppl throw their daughters out into the world with no street smarts. The TRUTH is young women need to be taught to expect the worst out of men, which is what prevents stupid situations like someone “following you to your room for sugar”.
Example: I remember when I was in college and sometimes a guy would offer to walk me (or other girls, etc) to my dorm after a party on campus. I would think it was because the guy was being a gentleman, and I
really appreciated that, because of course you shouldn’t be walking alone at night, regardless of how safe your campus is. Until the Ni66a tried to get in my damn dorm room!
There was no discussion of coming in my room, “hanging out”, etc. Literally “Oh, I’ll walk you across campus to make sure you’re ok”. Or if I had bags and someone offered to take my groceries, etc to my dorm. Then stand at my door like I'm supposed to invite him in
. These dudes weren’t being gentlemen for the sake of being a gentleman- it was just a guise to get to my door. You would say “duh, why did think someone would want to carry your bags or walk you home from a party?!” but most ppl aren’t expecting or assuming the worst of others.
The way most dudes are, young women literally have to just ASSUME that a guy isn’t being genuine, because most times they aren’t when you’re 18, 19, 22, etc. <— That is what ppl are SUPPOSED to teach their daughters.
Those are the stupid games dudes play with young girls who they know don’t know any better.
Now I grew up with a bunch of men who made it clear that I didn’t owe anyone shyt, so when a dude tried to get in my dorm or act like I “owed them” for their kind deed I’d make it clear that wasn’t happening and to get the fukk out of my face.
HOWEVER, what happens with the young ladies who are easily intimidated? The young ladies who aren’t as strong-willed and adamant? The young ladies who don’t want people to think they are a “b!tch”? What happens when they make the mistake of letting someone stronger than them in their room/home?
AND I’M NOT TRYING TO MAKE THIS A JOKE. But this is the shyt dudes be on! That’s why they even joked about it on the show, because it’s scumbag shyt that works on naive young women or dumb older women