Let's be real, whites control the narrative because they mastered the us vs them schema
Isn't the only way but it's a big part of it. Europeans took the Americas by exploiting divisions between Native Americans (that and disease). Europeans took Africa by exploiting the divisions between Africans. Europeans took India by exploiting the divisions between Indians. And you can see it happening in real time on these threads even now - constant agendas to exploit division for gain and people fall right into it.