Facts. It's your life she needs to show some cooperation and play her part too. Don't uproot your schedule for anybody.
For instance I hit the gym at 5 am 4 days a week. If a chick wants to be up past 9 pm texting she'll get a response on the morning. If she wanna go on a date after 6 pm she'll have to wait for the weekend. If I offer times for a date and she doesn't offer any counter plans? Bushes.
Yall need to realize a lot of these chicks are concerned with being exposed too. Just like there's dudes lying bout having bands and shyt these women lie to about their lifestyle and what they actually want. Gotta judge by actions not words can't be afraid to cut ties.
They like buses miss one next 15 one coming. And sometimes you need to hop on multiple busses to get to your destination. If the bus you bout to hop on smell like dog shyt and got crazy crackheads on it you gonna get on it or be patient and wait for the next one?
Mindset yall. Mindset.
Yeah the issue is lotta dudes negotiate with terrorists not realizing you already lost and it is a dude doing little to nothing who has or had the same chicks sprung.
This is not to say you should he am a$$hole or evil but women essentially seek benevolent dictators lol. You set the program and you can't he afrid to cut your losses. There is nothing wrong with a chick putting you on to new shyt but that is VERY different than I'm doing shyt I hate and off base because I want to impress a chick. If a chick can't put the effort to organize the stuff that is out the norm for you then it isn't worth your time (because her putting forth that effort is showing she wants to spend time with you and show you her world).
If I have to initiate and plan everything we only doing shyt I wanna do, on my time, and when I feel like entertaining someone else because I can do it alone of needed.