Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Nah, fall / winter is the best. Tell them to pull up to the condo and it’s a wrap lol
I feel you lol

but summer has soooo much more finesse in Toronto imo

-picnics
-walks+ice cream
-hangout at nice ice cream shop
-farmers markets
-city BIA food festivals
-outdoor concerts (sometimes indie/underground artists do em out here. Alchemist also had a show downtown last summer)
-jerk fest
-Afrofest

This city is boring tuh rossclot 8 months of the year, but summer time? Them hoes are out:banderas:
 

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am I looking too much into it if she wants to meet up at 6 on a Saturday for a first date? she does also live a few cities away and has to take the train down. I didn't expect to smash on first date anyway. I might just be tripping.
 

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am I looking too much into it if she wants to meet up at 6 on a Saturday for a first date? she does also live a few cities away and has to take the train down. I didn't expect to smash on first date anyway. I might just be tripping.
It means nothing. Depends on the girl. Now if it was 9 or 10 pm I'd agree with you more. But I just had a first date a 6:30 the prior weekend. I could tell she was gonna wait for at least 1 or 2 more dates just of demeanor even tho by the end of the date she very clearly wanted to fukk me. It's first date. Stop thinking about fukking and think about getting to know her and letting her get to know you
 

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am I looking too much into it if she wants to meet up at 6 on a Saturday for a first date? she does also live a few cities away and has to take the train down. I didn't expect to smash on first date anyway. I might just be tripping.
What's the issue tho? That sounds like music to my ears coming off the all nighters I been pulling lately.. I rather get it in early and still be in gym in morning :mjcry:
 

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It means nothing. Depends on the girl. Now if it was 9 or 10 pm I'd agree with you more. But I just had a first date a 6:30 the prior weekend. I could tell she was gonna wait for at least 1 or 2 more dates just of demeanor even tho by the end of the date she very clearly wanted to fukk me. It's first date. Stop thinking about fukking and think about getting to know her and letting her get to know you
Breh fumbling out the gate. Just go on the date and get to know her. I'm telling you that chick can feel when you're giving off that energy and it immediately creeps them out.
 

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Breh fumbling out the gate. Just go on the date and get to know her. I'm telling you that chick can feel when you're giving off that energy and it immediately creeps them out.
It means nothing. Depends on the girl. Now if it was 9 or 10 pm I'd agree with you more. But I just had a first date a 6:30 the prior weekend. I could tell she was gonna wait for at least 1 or 2 more dates just of demeanor even tho by the end of the date she very clearly wanted to fukk me. It's first date. Stop thinking about fukking and think about getting to know her and letting her get to know you

Enjoy the process.
 
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“Bring back male yearning in 2025”

:mjlol:

The thing is… the men back then had something to “yearn” for from the 60s-90s. Now with social media / hoe empowerment renaissance there is nothing to yearn for.

Also a girl saying this is telling on herself.
Ive had a couple different women say something similar to me...they want men chasing and putting them on pedestals...
Not my style.
 
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I genuinely think one of, if not the biggest reason dating has become so fukked up today is because women have either dated/fukked, been exposed or have access to the top 2-3% of men.

Therefore it becomes very challenging for a woman to go from any of that to the remaining 97-98% of men.

And that’s not the fault of the 97-98%….
Yeah but all they got is smashed by those guys...or cheated on.
They don't belong in those circles.

But it's hard to tell women that. They have a vagina so they're entitled to the world.

:yeshrug:
 

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Ive had a couple different women say something similar to me...they want men chasing and putting them on pedestals...
Not my style.

you know they suffering right now when they all repeat the same stupid shyt. lol let this muthafuka burn. Dudes gotta go hard and enter a state of peace so they can be in cruise control. you do not want to be in the cycle of playing these stupid games.
 

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It means nothing. Depends on the girl. Now if it was 9 or 10 pm I'd agree with you more. But I just had a first date a 6:30 the prior weekend. I could tell she was gonna wait for at least 1 or 2 more dates just of demeanor even tho by the end of the date she very clearly wanted to fukk me. It's first date. Stop thinking about fukking and think about getting to know her and letting her get to know you

Brehs got to go through life like it's a privilege to also let her fukk you. It's not just a one way street.
 

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“Bring back male yearning in 2025”

:mjlol:

The thing is… the men back then had something to “yearn” for from the 60s-90s. Now with social media / hoe empowerment renaissance there is nothing to yearn for.

Also a girl saying this is telling on herself.

Ive had a couple different women say something similar to me...they want men chasing and putting them on pedestals...
Not my style.

"I want a man who is mildly obsessed with me"
Replies back late, ghosts

"I want to go on dates not have a penpal"
Messages you a lot then plans out date, never responds to confirm plans

"I value emotional intelligence"
Whines and gets upset when they don't get their way

Yeah...:unimpressed:
Nah stop playing games meet up for a date if she don't try to meet the same week...bushes.
You threatening my peace with dumb ass games? Bushes
Oh youre upset Im busy with my hobbies and work and can't text you all day? Bushes
 

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Dudes gotta stop letting chicks be on that main character syndrom shyt lol. Chicks acting like men looking for a wife to get on they program yet you the one footing the bill. You better be a kept man where she funding your life style if thats what you letting fly
:russ::russ: :scust:
Facts. It's your life she needs to show some cooperation and play her part too. Don't uproot your schedule for anybody.
For instance I hit the gym at 5 am 4 days a week. If a chick wants to be up past 9 pm texting she'll get a response on the morning. If she wanna go on a date after 6 pm she'll have to wait for the weekend. If I offer times for a date and she doesn't offer any counter plans? Bushes.

Yall need to realize a lot of these chicks are concerned with being exposed too. Just like there's dudes lying bout having bands and shyt these women lie to about their lifestyle and what they actually want. Gotta judge by actions not words can't be afraid to cut ties.

They like buses miss one next 15 one coming. And sometimes you need to hop on multiple busses to get to your destination. If the bus you bout to hop on smell like dog shyt and got crazy crackheads on it you gonna get on it or be patient and wait for the next one?
Mindset yall. Mindset.
 
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