Lol women are nuts....some will straight up unmatch if you make them wait for a reply
WTF
Lol I just had that happen. Some of them will unmatch if you don't respond in the same day.
Aight story time from this past weekend:
It all started on a chill Friday night. I'm winding down, ready to hit the hay early 'cause I got responsibilities—gym in the morning, errands on deck, and a date later in the evening. Adulting at its finest.
Around 10 PM, my phone buzzes. It’s a 24-year-old I’d messaged earlier in the week finally replying. I ask her what she’s up to, and she hits me with, “Hanging with my BFF who’s in town—we’re drinking.” Classic. Apparently, they were supposed to go out, but ended up staying in and getting too drunk to function.
I toss back a casual reply, asking what they sippin on not too pressed. I mean, I'm about to knock out. Gotta preserve the gains and the grind.
Then—plot twist—another girl messages me at like 10:30 PM, right as I’m drifting off. Her timing? Impeccably awful. I tell her straight up, “Your timing is trash, I was literally falling asleep lol” She laughs it off, says she’s usually asleep too on Fridays but her friend’s in town or whatever and they getting tacos and shyt. Honestly, I tuned out after that. Bedtime was calling.
Somewhere between dreamland and dawn, the first girl replies again—something along the lines of “Haha we’re so drunk, this is wild!! Margaritas are my favorite drink!!!”
Cute. But it’s 5 AM when I wake up (unwillingly, might I add), see the message, and just... wasn't in the mood. Not trying to match drunk energy when I haven’t even had breakfast yet.
So I shelf it. I figure I’ll respond later. I’ve got a full day ahead—preworkout in the veins, errands getting checked off, the whole morning I have that "I'm him” feeling. Except lunchtime rolls around, and I eat something I’m allergic to like a genius. Pop a Benadryl and boom—out cold.
I wake up just in time to get ready for my date at 7. It’s chill. Nothing to complain about, good vibes, decent convo. I get home around 8:40, open Hinge with intentions to finally respond to Miss Drunk Text, and—she unmatched me. Lol, what? I was literally fighting for my life against allergies
Meanwhile, the second girl—the one with the horrible timing—we’d made plans to hang on Sunday. We’d been texting through Saturday too, vibes were flowing. I last hit her up around 3, but I was busy from then until about 8:50 with my benadryl nap and my date. Come back, text her back ask when she’s free tomorrow... radio silence. Ghosted. Keep in mind this ain't even on the app. I got this chick's actually number texting so now suddenly the read receipts aren't showing up. I'm like okay...
Next day? Still nothing. I unmatched. That one kinda sucked—she was cool, we were clicking. But hey, life moves
The silver lining? The girl I actually went on the date with is still around. She’s hitting me with good morning texts, showing consistency. So yeah, we’ll see where that goes.
not having the fear of getting a woman pregnant and having her keep it on you when you know she aint gonna ne wifey got to be GOAT if we keeping it a buck
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