This in all honesty is a function of the app itself. Sure you meet legit busy people and homebodies but of course the weirdos will be there too. Some of the women are so focused on themselves you'll see it. "I like ____" "I go to for vacation ____" "I need ____" notice the focus is 100% on her at all times. Crazy part is why even respond if you don't plan on getting to know the other person? The answer is self centeredness, validation, or using you to fill their loneliness. No self respecting man wants a woman like that.
Not everybody can or should be in a relationship whether dating, just fukking, or whatever. And by closing up and acting jaded due to previous behavior by men who only sought sex they are incentivizing new men to care less.
Once people learned the winner is who cares the least it was game over and that ain't a win for somebody who wants something "real" like they claim they do.
You'll start hearing "the energy isn't there" "You act like you don't care to talk"
I really don't we've been talking for like a week and you're bout as interesting as a paper bag but you got big titties I'm tryna see em so imma hear you out for now

but I have no problem bushing you if you become a headache or I see you not reciprocating.
Once we leave our ego and feelings out of it shyt is easier and becomes autopilot. Sometimes it's you sometimes it's not either way
That's why it's important to know and remember who you are cuz chicks will try and gaslight the fukk outta you into thinking you're the problem or have you questioning yourself.
If you haven't already I'd implore every breh in here to take inventory of your personal characteristics and then ask a few people close to you what personal characteristics they'd assign to you. See how the match to what you wrote for yourself. You might find out shyt about you that you never realized. There's two self's the internal self(how we see ourselves) and the external self (how others see us) when there's a clash between these two things and you have no idea why it causes suffering. A strong sense of self means you have a strong identity about who you really are and how others perceive you. Master this and basically you can feel comfortable anywhere and in any situation.