all in same message.
I had asked her motive for hitting me then
I mentioned how she said she didn’t wanna do romantics but she’s hitting me about doing something stated my intentions.
She told me her motive was to hang out and that something came up she definitely wanted to get together and that we could set up for another day.
As I’m playing it in my head she either just don’t wanna fukk or she cruise controlling into it idk mane. She assures me she fukks with me I don’t ask for none of that lol
chill out. she said she wanna kick it so hit her up in the future and invite her over. if she wanna go out then do something cheap and very close to your spot
ultimately, whenever she do come over
its up to YOU to get her in the mood to fukk. all that premeditating, long talking shyt gonna do is dry her up
i literally say this a day after smashing a girl who deliberately came over wearing a one piece to disable my ability to finger her/remove clothing in the case that we were about to smash. because of the vibe I set, she was comfortable, too horny and we fukked anyway
dont over play your hand. play it cool and get her to the crib. thats the hard part. in the mean time keep your options open