Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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The one shorty I posted up about before I cut the shyt after I tried to get some time in and was met with the “I close/im busy” shyt.

Say she not into anything romantic right now(is that fukking or just chilling? All of the above?)
So I say cool I’m moving on through but we good we cool I’m not tripping no hard feelings whatever. It’s mutual.


I didn’t think just hanging out was romantic and had not established trying to fukk even though we had been handsy with one another. Anyway though

two days go by.
next time
I see her I say hey and she speak back. I keep walking…she gone “oh ok bye”

I draw back mistakingly whats up, really tryna keep my feet moving.

We talk a lil bit small talk bs and go on.


I see her again the next day and I don’t speak lmao she start raging out turning red and looking at me like why aren’t you talking to me.

Comes and stands directly in front of me just eyeing me.



Two more days pass and she’s hitting me up asking to meet for some ice cream and hang out.

I ain’t jump out my body but we set up a time, not really wanting to do it, ima be late to it too and just as I’m just finishing my shower she text me saying something came up.


just back and forth on some shyt I just told her I’m trying to kick it and make her cum when she need help with it.

She responds saying she wanted to hang out and that we can set up for a different day.

I just left it at that. What a wash
you jumped out the window with this one
 

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you jumped out the window with this one
Lmaoooo when I’m done trying I stop caring what I say and anything that I had to say I get it off my chest. I could’ve went all the way red on her lol I just put it out there.

Told her with respect to her boundaries of course but yes I want to fukk and be friends with benefits for now. I didn’t get your number to be phone tagging
 

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Lmaoooo when I’m done trying I stop caring what I say and anything that I had to say I get it off my chest. I could’ve went all the way red on her lol I just put it out there.

Told her with respect to her boundaries of course but yes I want to fukk and be friends with benefits for now. I didn’t get your number to be phone tagging
Ah okay. Different approaches for different folks.

I used to do that but then reflected and didn’t like how I sounded reading back the messages/replaying the conversation in my mind so I stop.
 

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The one shorty I posted up about before I cut the shyt after I tried to get some time in and was met with the “I close/im busy” shyt.

Say she not into anything romantic right now(is that fukking or just chilling? All of the above?)
So I say cool I’m moving on through but we good we cool I’m not tripping no hard feelings whatever. It’s mutual.


I didn’t think just hanging out was romantic and had not established trying to fukk even though we had been handsy with one another. Anyway though

two days go by.
next time
I see her I say hey and she speak back. I keep walking…she gone “oh ok bye”

I draw back mistakingly whats up, really tryna keep my feet moving.

We talk a lil bit small talk bs and go on.


I see her again the next day and I don’t speak lmao she start raging out turning red and looking at me like why aren’t you talking to me.

Comes and stands directly in front of me just eyeing me.



Two more days pass and she’s hitting me up asking to meet for some ice cream and hang out.

I ain’t jump out my body but we set up a time, not really wanting to do it, ima be late to it too and just as I’m just finishing my shower she text me saying something came up.


just back and forth on some shyt I just told her I’m trying to kick it and make her cum when she need help with it.

She responds saying she wanted to hang out and that we can set up for a different day.

I just left it at that. What a wash
salute for being direct when it got to a point where it was necessary
sometimes you have to throw that hailmary

if it pans out cool, enjoy it while you have it. in the meantime keep your options open
simple as that
 

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Ah okay. Different approaches for different folks.

I used to do that but then reflected and didn’t like how I sounded reading back the messages/replaying the conversation in my mind so I stop.
I like having fun bruh. I do my best to not say things that won’t play back well.

How I handle one situation is not how I might handle another as well.

Different missions require different tactics.
 

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Lmaoooo when I’m done trying I stop caring what I say and anything that I had to say I get it off my chest. I could’ve went all the way red on her lol I just put it out there.

Told her with respect to her boundaries of course but yes I want to fukk and be friends with benefits for now. I didn’t get your number to be phone tagging
What was her response?
 

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What was her response?
all in same message.

I had asked her motive for hitting me then
I mentioned how she said she didn’t wanna do romantics but she’s hitting me about doing something stated my intentions.


She told me her motive was to hang out and that something came up she definitely wanted to get together and that we could set up for another day.



As I’m playing it in my head she either just don’t wanna fukk or she cruise controlling into it idk mane. She assures me she fukks with me I don’t ask for none of that lol
 

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all in same message.

I had asked her motive for hitting me then
I mentioned how she said she didn’t wanna do romantics but she’s hitting me about doing something stated my intentions.


She told me her motive was to hang out and that something came up she definitely wanted to get together and that we could set up for another day.



As I’m playing it in my head she either just don’t wanna fukk or she cruise controlling into it idk mane. She assures me she fukks with me I don’t ask for none of that lol
chill out. she said she wanna kick it so hit her up in the future and invite her over. if she wanna go out then do something cheap and very close to your spot

ultimately, whenever she do come over its up to YOU to get her in the mood to fukk. all that premeditating, long talking shyt gonna do is dry her up

i literally say this a day after smashing a girl who deliberately came over wearing a one piece to disable my ability to finger her/remove clothing in the case that we were about to smash. because of the vibe I set, she was comfortable, too horny and we fukked anyway

dont over play your hand. play it cool and get her to the crib. thats the hard part. in the mean time keep your options open
 

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chill out. she said she wanna kick it so hit her up in the future and invite her over. if she wanna go out then do something cheap and very close to your spot

ultimately, whenever she do come over its up to YOU to get her in the mood to fukk. all that premeditating, long talking shyt gonna do is dry her up

i literally say this a day after smashing a girl who deliberately came over wearing a one piece to disable my ability to finger her/remove clothing in the case that we were about to smash. because of the vibe I set, she was comfortable, too horny and we fukked anyway

dont over play your hand. play it cool and get her to the crib. thats the hard part. in the mean time keep your options open
already
 

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chill out. she said she wanna kick it so hit her up in the future and invite her over. if she wanna go out then do something cheap and very close to your spot

ultimately, whenever she do come over its up to YOU to get her in the mood to fukk. all that premeditating, long talking shyt gonna do is dry her up

i literally say this a day after smashing a girl who deliberately came over wearing a one piece to disable my ability to finger her/remove clothing in the case that we were about to smash. because of the vibe I set, she was comfortable, too horny and we fukked anyway


dont over play your hand. play it cool and get her to the crib. thats the hard part. in the mean time keep your options open
:leon:
 

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chill out. she said she wanna kick it so hit her up in the future and invite her over. if she wanna go out then do something cheap and very close to your spot

ultimately, whenever she do come over its up to YOU to get her in the mood to fukk. all that premeditating, long talking shyt gonna do is dry her up

i literally say this a day after smashing a girl who deliberately came over wearing a one piece to disable my ability to finger her/remove clothing in the case that we were about to smash. because of the vibe I set, she was comfortable, too horny and we fukked anyway

dont over play your hand. play it cool and get her to the crib. thats the hard part. in the mean time keep your options open
Yeah bittches wanna be sluts but dont want to feel like a slut. So main thing is just take it easy and if yall are linking keep it to low effort shyt so if you dont smash you aint tripping
 
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