Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Need date ideas. I’m in NYC. We did coffee a couple of weeks ago. And we were at a friend’s pool party for the 4th.

I was thinking a picnic in the park. But she lives on the upper west side and I’m in Bed Stuy.
Sounds like have her come over time…..
 

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yep...

everything about women is how they FEEL in the moment.....

yup today they love you, tomorrow you're a great guy but...

today they hate their ex, tomorrow i'm sorry but me and jimmy are going to try and work it out again
 

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Can we get a backstory for this :pachaha:
I mean.....Aint much backstory. Like I said, A lot of these chicks retarded as hell these days :francis:


Physically bad ass single mom stripper who got somebody to help her get an apartment a few months ago. She was a dumbass and chose some super expensive shyt. Thought she was on top of the world and the party would never end.


She 99% likely did some dumb shyt to run him off and took him for granted. Then she wrecked her car a few weeks ago and now has to Uber everywhere which is eating her ass up even more while she owes $2300 in rent. So yeah......She's fuccked :manny:
 

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any unmarried brehs with no kids in here still talk to they folks about starting a family?
Literally my pops just asked me this yesterday, I told him I got him in 20 years..maybe


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A message from @Manolo

Guys have to learn to think beyond that primal attraction we feel when we see a bad one and analyze/categorize her type to know who you’re dealing with.

Women analyze us like a NFL playbook before they do or say anything. Women look at us and say “he’s fine but ________” all the time.

If you ever hear women critique men, it could be celebs or regular guys, it’s more detailed analysis than basics physical shyt. They use physical/personality cues to decipher the TYPE of man you are and if that TYPE is what she’s looking for at that time.

You said she has a BBL and multiple hustles. That means she’s a bird and deals with fast money nikkas only.

That type isn’t trying to go to Top Golf with some random nikka she just met. She’s looking for nikkas to drop a bag and basically compensate her for her time. You have to be able to READ that from a woman’s appearance, personality and indirect communication

The fact that she was able to even reach you after dubbing you the first time, plus however you came off to her prior to that, had her classify you as a trick/simp/easy lick. So she tried to lick you. It’s that simple

STOP chasing BBL/IG bytches if you’re not ready to trick or drop a bag because that’s ALL they understand. Bagging those types with simple genuine dates like Top Golf and coffee is not possible. There’s no magic word to say that’s going to grant you access to their box. Either pay the fee or save your time and don’t entertain them
 

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Fukk I finally met my match :francis:

Shorty so damn thick & fine. Tried to fall back and just be cool. But she been giving choosing signals on the low. Was minding my business when she pulled up on me working. Had to sit down cause I low key was getting “excited” :snoop:

I have to be careful.
 

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back on hinge in Toronto and man….

I see some of the SAME DAMN EXACT HOES from like 2020 on it :why::why:

Cuz that was the last time i was on it….

Some hoes even be on multiple apps too. Seen a few on a muslim app acting all pious and shyt tryna bait a sucker into cuffing them and then on hinge…she “free spirited”…

I’m reminded once again why i shouldn’t be on these apps…
 

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That's a accurate break down in a lot of ways about IG/club/bottle girls, of course there are always exceptions, depending on when and where and how you connected, but there is a lot of sense in that.

There's one who lightly declined when hit her up to meet me in LA at Motherwolf last summer (which is one of the more exclusive spots in the city) she's hot, but this was more to just to share the experience, to me, it's even like doing someone a favor, that you would even get an invite

however, if I had a table at the local San Diego spot, probably would have gotten a yes, ironically later, she was talking about it, as her girlfriend and her guy went to that spot, and I was like "I invited you and you passed!"

sometimes people don't share your value system, and just aren't where you are in life, and trying to put them up, doesn't even work, because it's not what they want, or where they feel comfortable.
 
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