
this just made me think of an amazing red flag i came across like 2 years ago
was messing with a woman who went to therapy consistenly

nothing wrong with that inherently
then she told me she hadn't told the therapist anything about me (we been coolin for months)........

okay. not my business
then told me she had to replace her old therapist because she felt like she was judging her.....
she let me in on some details about her past and it's pretty clear what happened, therapist hit the

prolly didn't agree with some stuff she was doing, prolly was leading her towards being accountable for some stuff, and she couldn't cope with the idea that the therapist was secrectly judging her, ran away from the situation.
so she got a new therapist and only tells her half the truth

man i ended that situation so quick, she manipulated the situation so the therapist is only telling her stuff she wants to hear
ion even know what to call that, but avoid it brehs. I wouldn't be surprised if the VAST majority of people in general who go to therapist do this.
but you're just doing yourself and the therapist a disservice and wasting both yalls time