Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Yeah but how do I do this tactfully :patrice:

None of that shyt matters if they want more than sex...

If she ain't got other nikkas in the pipeline that are at your level and higher, she is gonna push for as much time as possible...

Sex=time away from other women...

You gonna have to put that bytch on a James Bond schedule

Which means there will be times where you either have another bytch having on standby or making your dikk wait a Lil while longer

Once she feels you ain't got shyt to do, your in trouble my boy lol
 
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Pull out but when you see that phat monkey and them cheeks clappin back on ya joint

All logic goes out the window :wow:
Dam ya was cooking in here, This is actually scientifically backed.. I wish I kept better notes but remember reading the logical part of brain shutting down in intimate settings when its about to go down.. I hit the :ohhh: like everybody got a plan until its about to go down, girls will rip off the condom and after hit you with the why you let me do that :lolbron:Dudes be like nah not me but once they in moment dive right in.. :mjgrin:then when they get that text :mjcry:
 

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:russ: this just made me think of an amazing red flag i came across like 2 years ago

was messing with a woman who went to therapy consistenly :ehh: nothing wrong with that inherently

then she told me she hadn't told the therapist anything about me (we been coolin for months)........ :patrice: okay. not my business

then told me she had to replace her old therapist because she felt like she was judging her..... :gucci:

she let me in on some details about her past and it's pretty clear what happened, therapist hit the :picard: prolly didn't agree with some stuff she was doing, prolly was leading her towards being accountable for some stuff, and she couldn't cope with the idea that the therapist was secrectly judging her, ran away from the situation.

so she got a new therapist and only tells her half the truth :russ: man i ended that situation so quick, she manipulated the situation so the therapist is only telling her stuff she wants to hear



ion even know what to call that, but avoid it brehs. I wouldn't be surprised if the VAST majority of people in general who go to therapist do this.


but you're just doing yourself and the therapist a disservice and wasting both yalls time
Tryna remember if I told the story on here about my family member who started as a social worker, worked tirelessly to get her own therapist practice, passes, opens office, excited as hell.. I call her one day to see if she in office and she say no and thinking of shutting it down.. Knowing what she did to get there, Im like huh.. She tells me its not what she expected and its just too much.. Since she relatively young black women, when she posted online and got connected with different lead sources she naturally drew women like her to her practice.

She start saying they wouldnt do the homework, they wanted or needed friends and would try to hang out with her, they wanted her to cosign their nonsense and she wouldnt, tried to take advantage of her, try to turn it to gossip, etc. She was soo disappointed and I was shocked but wishing I could record a podcast because hearing this type of stuff expressed in that manner would of been viral. She was like she didnt need the stress and was cool.
 

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The "third rail" of dating is some shyt I just made up

but somewhere not in a committed relationship, or ONLY hooking up at 3:45 AM, or ONLY going on like formal dinner dates

that's where I think societally we have the least acceptance for, like it's 100% normal to go traditional, and everyone accepts some form of deviance, drunken one night stands, whatever, but anything else is really not considered very acceptable.

which is probably (in part) why it's the most difficult, kind of believe that this would be the MOST trafficked sphere of dating were it more socially acceptable

because you can hyper label and categorize, but we are all following a very old playbook regarding monogamy, and what is socially sanctioned and what is not.
 
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Never put p*ssy on a pedestal and always have you at least 2-3 other women in rotation.

If you aren’t married or engaged date all of them until you not only find one that likes you and she’s also reciprocating the same energy you trying to put into her back into you.

A lot of y’all meet a woman y’all kinda like and want to get stuck on just her. Fukk that broad, date them all.

Don’t go trying to be up under her all the time either, carve out maybe 1-2 days a week and say you’re busy on the other days even if you’re not. Women tend to respect your time more when they know it’s limited.

Don’t break the bank trying to impress her either stick to cheap dates in the beginning. Don’t take her azz to no expensive steak house in the beginning. Take her to go get wings or a burger or something cheap for the first few dates. If she’s putting in effort then she might graduate to getting a steak, surf and turf, or some lobster tails or some ish.

Happy hunting fellas.
 
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