Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I don’t work out cuz I wouldn’t have time to be consistent in the gym with the amount of free time I have:mjcry:, I walk around though. No grocery store cuz they feed us and we don’t get food allowance so I don’t buy extra. I go to the mall in SF, last time I fuxked up cold approaching. And I mostly just take pics of the city and explore around SF on my day off. I have a better balance in civilian life:yeshrug:

Bolded should suffice. You take pics of the city with a real or phone camera?
A real camera in your hand would make it easy as hell to flirt.
 

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so your schedule doesn't afford you 30 min to 1 hour 3 times a week minimum to lift weights?
ppl be making excuses fam.

there was a time i was working 60-80 hours a week. and i would still make time to go to the gym during my lunch break or at midnight after work. :manny:

my gyms were 2 mins from work and 5 mins from home though. its harder if youre not in a major city
 

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Bolded should suffice. You take pics of the city with a real or phone camera?
A real camera in your hand would make it easy as hell to flirt.
Yeah I take film pictures. I already had 2 women come up to me because of it. Idk I feel like a scumbag if I use that to get women. I just like taking pics:yeshrug:1 thing about me being in the IG generation is that all these girls think they’re models:russ:
 

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so your schedule doesn't afford you 30 min to 1 hour 3 times a week minimum to lift weights?
Some nights, yes. But some nights as soon as I come back to the hotel I’m doing homework til a little bit past my sleep time. If imma be slaving it out I’d rather get my full 8 of sleep,then do a half assed dumbbell workout in the hotel gym:yeshrug:. Call it what ya want:yeshrug:once I get back to civilian life I’ll be back on my 3x a week full body lifting and whatnot:wow:
 

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Some nights, yes. But some nights as soon as I come back to the hotel I’m doing homework til a little bit past my sleep time. If imma be slaving it out I’d rather get my full 8 of sleep,then do a half assed dumbbell workout in the hotel gym:yeshrug:. Call it what ya want:yeshrug:once I get back to civilian life I’ll be back on my 3x a week full body lifting and whatnot:wow:
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For me, it was about removing a couple pics and adding others. Simple... but she knows what women are obviously looking for off of first glance. My actual profile is pretty bare. A few details about me here and there. Then I go through all the likes and start filtering who I actually want to get to know.

From there, I start conversations with the women I choose to.

:manny:
Yep that’s basically it. She told me remove some pictures and to add some pics I wasn’t even thinking of. Told me to modify some details in my profile and I’ve been attracting all the type of women I want ever since.
 

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They will try to convince you that you shouldn't be going for younger women because you are an older man. Find someone your own age etc...

This comes from women who are already over the hill, so it's in their best interest to tell you that so you choose them instead of the younger model.

Plus 30 Babble.
Meanwhile when they were younger they were with older men :russ:
 

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Yeah I take film pictures. I already had 2 women come up to me because of it. Idk I feel like a scumbag if I use that to get women. I just like taking pics:yeshrug:1 thing about me being in the IG generation is that all these girls think they’re models:russ:
i dont mean to use it in that way...on some "hey wanna be a model ?" bang bros type ish

lol how old are you fam?

i just mean you can use it as an ice breaker. you can get real charming/clever/humourous using the camera as a prop. and it would be natural because you'd simply be doing something you are passionate about and then just happening to meet a woman while oing it. A girl will see you in your element, passionate and find it attractive. think outside the box my dude. come on

ive noticed some dudes on this forum and even in real life be talking themselves outta stuff...thinking of every reason not to talk to a girl while forgetting the main reason to do so (having nothing to lose). Stop thinking about it. Just do it
 

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i dont mean to use it in that way...on some "hey wanna be a model ?" bang bros type ish

lol how old are you fam?

i just mean you can use it as an ice breaker. you can get real charming/clever/humourous using the camera as a prop. and it would be natural because you'd simply be doing something you are passionate about and then just happening to meet a woman while oing it. A girl will see you in your element, passionate and find it attractive. think outside the box my dude. come on

ive noticed some dudes on this forum and even in real life be talking themselves outta stuff...thinking of every reason not to talk to a girl while forgetting the main reason to do so (having nothing to lose). Stop thinking about it. Just do it
I’m 21 and yeah most of em just ask if I do it as a profession. I already got 2#s off it and I’m supposed to meet one on my day off. I already have my photo ig up and running.
 

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For brehs that get nervous around chicks or in general:

Invest in magnesium. Why?! Magnesium is essential because it calms the nerves. Anxiety itself is a result of a magnesium deficiency.

Magnesium Threonate is highly absorbable ()

Health is your wealth brehs. Invest in you. The women will too.
 

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They will try to convince you that you shouldn't be going for younger women because you are an older man. Find someone your own age etc...

This comes from women who are already over the hill, so it's in their best interest to tell you that so you choose them instead of the younger model.

Plus 30 Babble.

One thing I do less of is take most women's opinions seriously on relationships and sexual dynamics in general. I was just reading a bushed thread on some broad who claimed just because a dude she didn't even know walked past her without acknowledging her that he doesn't like black women.

Reminds me when Idris Elba married his wife and some of the women in the FB group I was a part of were saying little slick things like how she looks like she can be his daughter etc then it was how she's "kinda not black" whatever the hell that means.

Washed up women just hate when you have your shyt together and pair up with a younger, prettier version of themselves because its a reminder of how they wasted their own opportunities when they still had it. Nine times out of ten its the same ones who weren't giving you the time of day 15 years ago.

But let them date a younger man which is much rarer and they'd all be bigging up cougars.
 

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A shyt test is basically a flippant remark that tests your frame...aka your stoic/resplendent demeanor, women do this out of catty behavior amongst themselves, or in general to "test" answers of their mates to see if they give the "right" one. Do keep in mind that shyt tests are unisex, men are more obvious with theirs, but its the same thing, male or female.

These examples might sound familiar;

"I bet you're a player"
"I only date x kind of guy"
"You're not my type"
"You say that to all the girls"
"I don't believe you, prove it to me"

Those are relegated to women, as men will try to break your frame by making fun of you, or probing/looking for holes in a story you tell. For either however, I like to be aloof. No clear response, just self amusing attitudes and behavior from me. I'm not there to entertain anyone but myself....and therefore I'll answer what I feel like responding to. For women, my go-to is always; "Be different, ask a question that'd surprise us both", for men; "ignorance is bliss bro, the less we know about each other, the better".

I'm either deemed an a$$hole or the "cool" guy (same difference really) mainly because I'm not trying to impress anyone, and I'm not thirsty. I make fun of everyone, and or give great advice, you can only hate that but so long till you wanna join the crew.
Good looks Og, I’m picking up game I needed.
I just google searched it to see what would come up, and this white boy talking bout it https://thepowermoves.com/shyt-tests/
 

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For brehs that get nervous around chicks or in general:

Invest in magnesium. Why?! Magnesium is essential because it calms the nerves. Anxiety itself is a result of a magnesium deficiency.

Magnesium Threonate is highly absorbable

Health is your wealth brehs. Invest in you. The women will too.

You're not wrong, however, anxiety is a byproduct of a magnesium deficiency, so ingesting say; dark chocolate or Avocados, will not do anything for natural anxiety caused by nerves. If you're looking for on the spot relief anxiety, go with black and green teas, both have plenty of nicotine that will help you calm down...as well eggplants. I love snacking on fried eggplant chips I make from home. And of course if you're a smoker...smoke.
 

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Yeah I take film pictures. I already had 2 women come up to me because of it. Idk I feel like a scumbag if I use that to get women. I just like taking pics:yeshrug:1 thing about me being in the IG generation is that all these girls think they’re models:russ:

All fair in clipping birds. Also it adds to my adage of playing to their vanity. The old school one that kinda still works; is saying you're a medical assistant to a plastic surgeon in your general area. Not only will they end up sending you pics of their ass and t*ts, but they'll assume you've seen it all, and are more likely to open up to you. The modeling/photog one is a classic I still use till this day. When it comes to just straight up sex with some rando, lie, lie, lie....because they're lying with every breath they take.
 
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