Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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use that time to build or learn something. Only time no sex is an issue is you sitting there not being productive.

Facts.

I haven't touched anything since last year September and I barely noticed.

Had a girl asking me just last night if I was busy with other women because I'm not willing to see her right now.
They think the world revolves around them sometimes. If your not seeing them you must be seeing someone else.

Been too on getting my own ventures popping. I know I got it on standby when I am ready to return to the game.
 

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this. After 35 alot of women have accepted their fate and finalized their transformation as being bitter but that 27-34 range alot of women grasping for air to try to shame men into selecting them lol.
Ehhhhh there is a also a group 35-38 that realize nothing they we’re doing worked and they start over and are easier to deal with.

Same with the 27-34, I was surprised at those chicks being willing to reach out to dudes 40 plus
 

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Ehhhhh there is a also a group 35-38 that realize nothing they we’re doing worked and they start over and are easier to deal with.

Same with the 27-34, I was surprised at those chicks being willing to reach out to dudes 40 plus

The point is 27-34 are doing anything to get tied up which even equals taking on older men, but those are in a minority. The post 35 comment literally aligns to my statement as those women have accepted their fate (thus they dont trip about being a side chick/FWB)
 

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Facts.

I haven't touched anything since last year September and I barely noticed.

Had a girl asking me just last night if I was busy with other women because I'm not willing to see her right now.
They think the world revolves around them sometimes. If your not seeing them you must be seeing someone else.

Been too on getting my own ventures popping. I know I got it on standby when I am ready to return to the game.
us men have done a bad job and have allowed our world to revolve around them. Look at how dudes look disgusted in themselves for not having sex, yet often times have zero marketable skills, no savings, own no assets, etc. We out here moving wrong hence the reason for this thread.
 

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The point is 27-34 are doing anything to get tied up which even equals taking on older men, but those are in a minority. The post 35 comment literally aligns to my statement as those women have accepted their fate (thus they dont trip about being a side chick/FWB)
I don’t totally agree. I think big picture brehs can win. Be aware of what could happen but don’t assume they are one way or the other. That’s my perspective anyway.
 

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I don’t totally agree. I think big picture brehs can win. Be aware of what could happen but don’t assume they are one way or the other. That’s my perspective anyway.

this isn't about what brehs can or cant do, my points are calling out the field and what brehs will come across. It's on the man to handle that field how he sees fit.
 

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this isn't about what brehs can or cant do, my points are calling out the field and what brehs will come across. It's on the man to handle that field how he sees fit.
Just a comment from me breh. Some brehs can/will read all this in accumulation and think they can’t thrive. Saul Goode
 

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I guess I have no other choice since Uncle Sam taking up all my free time:mjcry:might spend the day in the city on my next day off:wow:
do you not workout? go to the grocery store? go for walks to let off steam? go to the mall? etc.
what i'm saying is you meet girls everywhere. unless you live in a hole theres no reason you cant...and if you do, change your lifestyle
 

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NYC black coffee tough guys aka the Stoozy Boys
So can y’all Ogs breakdown a sh!t test for me?


A shyt test is basically a flippant remark that tests your frame...aka your stoic/resplendent demeanor, women do this out of catty behavior amongst themselves, or in general to "test" answers of their mates to see if they give the "right" one. Do keep in mind that shyt tests are unisex, men are more obvious with theirs, but its the same thing, male or female.

These examples might sound familiar;

"I bet you're a player"
"I only date x kind of guy"
"You're not my type"
"You say that to all the girls"
"I don't believe you, prove it to me"

Those are relegated to women, as men will try to break your frame by making fun of you, or probing/looking for holes in a story you tell. For either however, I like to be aloof. No clear response, just self amusing attitudes and behavior from me. I'm not there to entertain anyone but myself....and therefore I'll answer what I feel like responding to. For women, my go-to is always; "Be different, ask a question that'd surprise us both", for men; "ignorance is bliss bro, the less we know about each other, the better".

I'm either deemed an a$$hole or the "cool" guy (same difference really) mainly because I'm not trying to impress anyone, and I'm not thirsty. I make fun of everyone, and or give great advice, you can only hate that but so long till you wanna join the crew.
 

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do you not workout? go to the grocery store? go for walks to let off steam? go to the mall? etc.
what i'm saying is you meet girls everywhere. unless you live in a hole theres no reason you cant...and if you do, change your lifestyle
I don’t work out cuz I wouldn’t have time to be consistent in the gym with the amount of free time I have:mjcry:, I walk around though. No grocery store cuz they feed us and we don’t get food allowance so I don’t buy extra. I go to the mall in SF, last time I fuxked up cold approaching. And I mostly just take pics of the city and explore around SF on my day off. I have a better balance in civilian life:yeshrug:
 

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I don’t work out cuz I wouldn’t have time to be consistent in the gym with the amount of free time I have:mjcry:, I walk around though. No grocery store cuz they feed us and we don’t get food allowance so I don’t buy extra. I go to the mall in SF, last time I fuxked up cold approaching. And I mostly just take pics of the city and explore around SF on my day off. I have a better balance in civilian life:yeshrug:

so you are busy 24 hours a day :usure:
 

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so you are busy 24 hours a day :usure:
I’m on for 12, homework/school(I go full time:mjcry:),eat, sleep. That’s why my day off is the only day I have to myself:mjcry:

edit:I should reiterate I’m on military time not civilian time where I pick and choose my flexibility. National Guard shyt:mjcry:i break from the monotony at the bars on whatever Friday/Saturday night I’m done with all my schoolwork.
 
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I’m on for 12, homework/school(I go full time:mjcry:),eat, sleep. That’s why my day off is the only day I have to myself:mjcry:

edit:I should reiterate I’m on military time not civilian time where I pick and choose my flexibility. National Guard shyt:mjcry:i break from the monotony at the bars on whatever Friday/Saturday night I’m done with all my schoolwork.

so your schedule doesn't afford you 30 min to 1 hour 3 times a week minimum to lift weights?
 
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