Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[VertigoKnight]

I definitely understand that but the fickleness and overall fleeting nature of women and relationships still shakes me up. It doesn’t get to me the way it did in my 20s. Now that I understand it, I recognize it and it doesn’t shake me up emotionally the way it used to.

Yeah when you deal with enough of them and see how it is. It can shake you to the core.

I'm sorta happy though. I've already done the whole marriage thing and now know how to mostly approach these situations for my own peace of mind. Now when a chick I thought I was vibing with just straight up vanishes I don't sweat it.

You younger cats if you've tuned in have all this knowledge on deck to sidestep a lot of bullshyt. But you also have to deal with a lot of chicks who've grown up in the social media age who are just plain not relationship material.

 

[Serious]

Chicks in their 30s. They feel pressured to get married and have kids before it's too late.




Yeah I get it too.

One thing I've realized is that women in their 30s are jaded to a certain degree from past experiences and you have to pay for the sins of past men.





I used to think like this but it's like am I not deserving of love because I'm not a completely finished product?

I'm not rich yet but I do some great things career wise.

I literally was on NBA League Pass commentating a game. I'm trying to figure it out like everyone else.

Had this chick legit tell me this.

She said you’re paying what some other guy did. I’m like deuces.


shyt has me looking at 24-27 year old women like

 

[Leao2005]

So can y’all Ogs breakdown a sh!t test for me?

 

[The ADD]

Escorts. Women turn 21 everyday. No one care if you got penthouse money. Only brokeboys get the stigma

 

[DapMeUp!]

Had this chick legit tell me this.

She said you’re paying what some other guy did. I’m like deuces.

 

[Serious]

hence my point of being the best version of yourself possible. We often deal with nonsense because we think this is all we can get. Lotta brehs don't know their worth. You ever heard of the 'breh who don't know he looks good' or (pause) the 'breh who doesn't realize he has a big D'. Women bank on trying to get saved by men who do not know their worth so those men can be their slaves. The men who know their worth don't have to jump through hoops with women (because when they sense nonsense they bounce).

I forgot I could dimes like nothing because I took a break from dating then the pandemic hit. Was getting so so hit on my profiles online, which seemed off because in real life I used to murder it at bars and clubs. Got a few pointers on my profile and how to conduct myself and man the quality of women(look wise) has been

Gaging Personality is still a struggle. A woman just can’t have everything

 

[Apollo Creed]

So can y’all Ogs breakdown a sh!t test for me?

Keep it simple.

1.dont do anything you dont want to do
2.if someone requires you to do something for them to do something else then abort mission

 

[Leao2005]

Keep it simple.

1.dont do anything you dont want to do
2.if someone requires you to do something for them to do something else then abort mission

Give me a good example of one a joint may hit me with

 

[Apollo Creed]

Give me a good example of one a joint may hit me with

it can be many different things breh.

Slow responses to text (unless she works at a construction site, everyone is close to their phone 24 hrs a day lol), using the 'if you really care about me then you'd xyz", etc.

 

[Uno Venova]

Ig legit the best the place to pick up women. I have a ghost account, but there’s a lot of regular women who are easily accessible.

How do you find them breh? They all in ur city?

 

[<<TheStandard>>]

Yeah when you deal with enough of them and see how it is. It can shake you to the core.

I'm sorta happy though. I've already done the whole marriage thing and now know how to mostly approach these situations for my own peace of mind. Now when a chick I thought I was vibing with just straight up vanishes I don't sweat it.

You younger cats if you've tuned in have all this knowledge on deck to sidestep a lot of bullshyt. But you also have to deal with a lot of chicks who've grown up in the social media age who are just plain not relationship material.

Experience is the best teacher. After dealing with women and their fickle nature and emotional nature for so long you realize it's just about enjoying the moments with no expectations. Things can shift or go sour at any moment and you gotta be prepared for things to end just as quickly as they started.

 

[Leao2005]

it can be many different things breh.

Slow responses to text (unless she works at a construction site, everyone is close to their phone 24 hrs a day lol), using the 'if you really care about me then you'd xyz", etc.

Dang. Before things end through text this joint hit me with the “you don’t like me”. I guess that’s a sh!t test right?

 

[Apollo Creed]

Dang. Before things end through text this joint hit me with the “you don’t like me”. I guess that’s a sh!t test right?

i would have stopped responded just to be an ass

 

[Ahadi]

I'm pretty convinced that women can't love men the way we want to be loved. We want a woman who's going to stick with us through thick and thin, through the good times and bad.......but dating I've come to realize women want a finished product but at the point we become a finished product every woman wants us. At some point it's like what makes you so special?

For as much women complain about equality whenever they're dating someone who they think they're doing better than, they resent the man for not being on their "perceived" level.

This makes a good conversation. If a woman was to be with us through the good & bad, we would be more loyal to the woman. Where as on the flip side, the woman may feel vulnerable and worried about getting traded in for a younger model.

 

[InGodWeTrust]

Where you get your rings?

Amazon. Gold tungsten. Choose your width. Keep returning the rings at Kohl’s and keep getting 25% discount until/unless you know your size