Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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That's the game.

If I get to where I plan to be in the next 3-4 years without being tied down, I honestly don't know if I ever see myself settling down :pachaha:

shyt I got 2 years until 30 lol. If I don’t find something by then. I’ll be in the same boat.
 

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Experience is the best teacher. After dealing with women and their fickle nature and emotional nature for so long you realize it's just about enjoying the moments with no expectations. Things can shift or go sour at any moment and you gotta be prepared for things to end just as quickly as they started.


Bitter incel talk :troll:

and yeah I remember I’d be in a wreck when a woman would break up with me or my day would feel ruined if I texted and never got a reply etc

as I got older it’s meh there’s so many women out there no need to waste your time there are so many women out there
 

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I'm pretty convinced that women can't love men the way we want to be loved. We want a woman who's going to stick with us through thick and thin, through the good times and bad.......but dating I've come to realize women want a finished product but at the point we become a finished product every woman wants us. At some point it's like what makes you so special?

For as much women complain about equality whenever they're dating someone who they think they're doing better than, they resent the man for not being on their "perceived" level.
Can definitely sympathize with this

Cause as the finished product you have gone through so much that what you demand and expect from women, they are unable to provide. You find yourself fckn these girls and then asking... “what is this girl really doing for me or adding to my life?” And more times the answer is not much. In fact, they are likely to restrict you from doing certain things rather than adding or enabling you to do them.

I’m 29 now. If this girl I’m dating don’t work out I’ll probably be a bachelor for a while and just focus on my entrepreneurial ventures
 

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Bitter incel talk :troll:

and yeah I remember I’d be in a wreck when a woman would break up with me or my day would feel ruined if I texted and never got a reply etc

as I got older it’s meh there’s so many women out there no need to waste your time there are so many women out there


That's exactly where I am now.
 

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Chicks in their 30s. They feel pressured to get married and have kids before it's too late.




Yeah I get it too.

One thing I've realized is that women in their 30s are jaded to a certain degree from past experiences and you have to pay for the sins of past men.





I used to think like this but it's like am I not deserving of love because I'm not a completely finished product?

I'm not rich yet but I do some great things career wise.

I literally was on NBA League Pass commentating a game. I'm trying to figure it out like everyone else.


You were wrong about the sixers
Right about the under at least
 

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An example of laying down the foundation and putting an end to “shyt test”. Could of done less yelling, but dude knows his worth.

The comments: “He’s toxic! He’s toxicity” “he’s a narcissist”

:mjlol:

Homie is a g

I’ve been there myself...shyt even the other day i had so something with my gf who said jokes about fat ppl rub her the wrong way. Long story hahah
 

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Can definitely sympathize with this

Cause as the finished product you have gone through so much that what you demand and expect from women, they are unable to provide. You find yourself fckn these girls and then asking... “what is this girl really doing for me or adding to my life?” And more times the answer is not much. In fact, they are likely to restrict you from doing certain things rather than adding or enabling you to do them.

I’m 29 now. If this girl I’m dating don’t work out I’ll probably be a bachelor for a while and just focus on my entrepreneurial ventures

why would you not put your business ventures first? Only thing you dont put business over is family
 

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Can definitely sympathize with this

Cause as the finished product you have gone through so much that what you demand and expect from women, they are unable to provide. You find yourself fckn these girls and then asking... “what is this girl really doing for me or adding to my life?” And more times the answer is not much. In fact, they are likely to restrict you from doing certain things rather than adding or enabling you to do them.

I’m 29 now. If this girl I’m dating don’t work out I’ll probably be a bachelor for a while and just focus on my entrepreneurial ventures

:lolbron:It's funny to see so many of us on the same page....men get jaded too :wow:
 

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Lol dude checking out at 30

Brehs could eat more than decently well into there 40’s with minimal headache. I might even find a good one :manny:

Yeah this is true.

I'm 31 next month but I barely look mid 20s :bryan: So I will be eating for a while plus I'm in the best shape I ever been in.
Old roster already asking when we can link up but I'm trying to get some new blood in.

Thing is I was very happy living this single life up until my last long term situation.
She made me now want more of a connection like I had with her with someone else now, it's totally thrown me off cause before I met her I never even gave it thought like that. I was just out here doing thing on some:manny: If it happens it happens vibe.
 

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Yeah this is true.

I'm 31 next month but I barely look mid 20s :bryan: So I will be eating for a while plus I'm in the best shape I ever been in.
Old roster already asking when we can link up but I'm trying to get some new blood in.

Thing is I was very happy living this single life up until my last long term situation.
She made me now want more of a connection like I had with her with someone else now, it's totally thrown me off cause before I met her I never even gave it thought like that. I was just out here doing thing on some:manny: If it happens it happens vibe.
Man I’m early 40s and was chilling not stressing dating at all. A made run on Hinge was doing decent and link with a a good one and it’s good. Brehs just gotta relax on some of the gloom and doom. Definitely be smart, definitely don’t waste your time, definitely make your life as best as possible for yourself. That said don’t get in the mind set of saying it’s over after this point.
 
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