Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Breh he apparently is fine with a platonic thing cuz shes "cool" wasting breath


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Yep, just told me she got a main dude but still DTF.....

Maaaaaaan I ain't bout to get involved in this shyt again brehs :bryan:
 

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I need some advice ASAP

A few days ago slid in this females inbox

Got the number/snap

Set up a date for meetup/date for this Saturday


Now she lives about 50 minutes away so we agreed on a half way spot to link at

My thing though is the conversation been kinda dry + when I try to steer it sexual it don’t really go there like it does when I navigate it with most females


I was gonna cancel on her tomorrow (like these females do us) but she’s kind thick so I do kindve wanna go


Here’s the big point



HOW DO I ESTABLISH THIS IS A MEETUP AND NO IM NOT ABOUT TO PAY FOR YOUR MEAL BUT WE CAN ENJOY EACH OTHERS COMPANY AND SEE WHERE IT GOES..

Like first off she’s far...

Second off it’s gonna be difficult to fukk unless we get a room

Three I don’t wanna pay for this bytches meal and what never see her again .. fukk that


(Btw I have a main chick (not gf) I fukk n go on dates with so maybe that’s why I’m so ehhh on this)
 

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I need some advice ASAP

A few days ago slid in this females inbox

Got the number/snap

Set up a date for meetup/date for this Saturday


Now she lives about 50 minutes away so we agreed on a half way spot to link at

My thing though is the conversation been kinda dry + when I try to steer it sexual it don’t really go there like it does when I navigate it with most females


I was gonna cancel on her tomorrow (like these females do us) but she’s kind thick so I do kindve wanna go


Here’s the big point



HOW DO I ESTABLISH THIS IS A MEETUP AND NO IM NOT ABOUT TO PAY FOR YOUR MEAL BUT WE CAN ENJOY EACH OTHERS COMPANY AND SEE WHERE IT GOES..

Like first off she’s far...

Second off it’s gonna be difficult to fukk unless we get a room

Three I don’t wanna pay for this bytches meal and what never see her again .. fukk that


(Btw I have a main chick (not gf) I fukk n go on dates with so maybe that’s why I’m so ehhh on this)
This was my first thought reading this, should've got her to drive out & then took her for drinks...
 

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I need some advice ASAP

A few days ago slid in this females inbox

Got the number/snap

Set up a date for meetup/date for this Saturday


Now she lives about 50 minutes away so we agreed on a half way spot to link at

My thing though is the conversation been kinda dry + when I try to steer it sexual it don’t really go there like it does when I navigate it with most females


I was gonna cancel on her tomorrow (like these females do us) but she’s kind thick so I do kindve wanna go


Here’s the big point



HOW DO I ESTABLISH THIS IS A MEETUP AND NO IM NOT ABOUT TO PAY FOR YOUR MEAL BUT WE CAN ENJOY EACH OTHERS COMPANY AND SEE WHERE IT GOES..

Like first off she’s far...

Second off it’s gonna be difficult to fukk unless we get a room

Three I don’t wanna pay for this bytches meal and what never see her again .. fukk that


(Btw I have a main chick (not gf) I fukk n go on dates with so maybe that’s why I’m so ehhh on this)

Yeah man idk..i've banged a decent amount of chicks who live that far from me, and I just drove to their area. I don't want people all up in my shyt and that middle ground is a no sex zone
 

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On my OkCupid profile, I mentioned something about a picnic in the park. This chick hits me up saying we should do that.

I say it's too cold. She says next weekend it seems like the weather will be better.

Who the hell wants to go on a picnic in December in NYC? What the hell?!
 

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NYC black coffee tough guys aka the Stoozy Boys
I need some advice ASAP

A few days ago slid in this females inbox

Got the number/snap

Set up a date for meetup/date for this Saturday


Now she lives about 50 minutes away so we agreed on a half way spot to link at

My thing though is the conversation been kinda dry + when I try to steer it sexual it don’t really go there like it does when I navigate it with most females


I was gonna cancel on her tomorrow (like these females do us) but she’s kind thick so I do kindve wanna go


Here’s the big point



HOW DO I ESTABLISH THIS IS A MEETUP AND NO IM NOT ABOUT TO PAY FOR YOUR MEAL BUT WE CAN ENJOY EACH OTHERS COMPANY AND SEE WHERE IT GOES..

Like first off she’s far...

Second off it’s gonna be difficult to fukk unless we get a room

Three I don’t wanna pay for this bytches meal and what never see her again .. fukk that


(Btw I have a main chick (not gf) I fukk n go on dates with so maybe that’s why I’m so ehhh on this)


Always start with coffee...it insinuates that you're gonna either hit a location or go for a walk (depending on the weather). Also its something you can walk away from if its not going your way...given the travel (at best 20 mins by car?) I can assume you're gonna walk around so make it coffee. Given what you've mentioned about her, it seems like you're not gonna fukk, at all, she seems prudish or at the least not gonna be DTF any time soon, so don't worry about getting a room. If she doesn't drink coffee (one of those dopey bytches) tea is way cheaper, and still implies the "I'm not paying for you to eat" motif.

Again, if the weather is good - Coffee/Tea + Park, and see what you can do there. If its freezing and or just cold, a coffee shop like Starbucks is perfect, be sure to get their first and order your drink first, when she gets in, tell her to grab a coffee and join you.... this is a power play, it shows that you're on time, comfortable , relaxed, and that she's coming out of her pocket. Keeps you in control.
 

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On my OkCupid profile, I mentioned something about a picnic in the park. This chick hits me up saying we should do that.

I say it's too cold. She says next weekend it seems like the weather will be better.

Who the hell wants to go on a picnic in December in NYC? What the hell?!

I did it, brought week old donuts I bought that no one wanted in my house, vodka I had for years in the freezer, and some old sandwhiches I asked for from the guy I know at 7-11 (Got 6 sammies). Found a secluded spot in Central, and got head after. All for the price of one coffee(the coffee was for me)...don't pay for anything brehs. Dunkin Donuts, and 7-11 are literally throwing away food by the end of the night, ask nicely and boom. The liquor was a gift, but I figured getting her fukked up would be easier, it honestly wasn't needed, she was DTF once I introduced the picnic idea in winter, it was a week ago.

These birds don't feel the cold...and if they do, they quickly warm to what they perceive is some dude wasting money on them. Also next Friday its gonna be 51....there you go big fella. You got all the tips, you simply need to execute.


P.P. Get familiar with your local Deli's, and 7-11, the food policy is the same, at the end of the night they're throwing away fresh food, as far as I'm concerned, these birds should be treated as such, and I'm not spending any kind of money on a stranger.
 

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On my OkCupid profile, I mentioned something about a picnic in the park. This chick hits me up saying we should do that.

I say it's too cold. She says next weekend it seems like the weather will be better.

Who the hell wants to go on a picnic in December in NYC? What the hell?!
man she trying to chill, don't overthink it. "I thought about it and it's probably gonna be too cold for a picnic lol" insert smile emoji. Then ask her if she wants to go to __ instead
 

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just getting home brehs
saw the ugandan chick again she invited me over to her place, i had to cancel the second date :ehh:.
Was fed african food, we talked and when i was about to leave then she kissed me and one thing led to another :shaq:

i never noticed yesterday because of her jacket but she's built like a tank
 

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Got a date with a Nigerian chick, she invited me for lunch at hers then cinema & drinks. She already showed me her titties on facetime:shaq:

Damn chick from yesterday just invited me over after work but I have another date with another chick

What to do brehs

You can go to hers after your date
 
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