Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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While brehs should stay at a healthy shape you don't need 6pack abs to get chicks.

I'm a chubby dude who has chicks choosing


-Also brehs need to realize that alot of chicks will be more insecure than you ever will be.

While always remain humble, level up and give off an image that makes chicks think that you're better than them.
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For example you might be worried about your gut,meanwhile you're smart, funny, have many interests,talents and chicks out here who don't have much going on besides looks.
 
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Also it's good to have a plan and being realistic when dealing with women...

Meaning where is your head at, money at?

Yea some brehs can be bums and still get bytches but don't worry about that. Those are dudes who are confident regardless.

I think some brehs see dudes who don't have much going for them but they get p*ssy and then brehs get kinda bitter and discouraged.

Focus on what will make you feel better about yourself before the broads.
 
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O Fenômeno said:
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Man

Brehs on here shyt on AMS but maybe you need to watch.

This broad was seeing how much she could walk all over you...dis you say something about her beinf late?



She talking about another man she simping over on the date?

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She told me she was going to be late.
 
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Also by planning I meant..



-Going to dates
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Know what you like to do or spots to goto..I was always insecure because I didn't know of places to bring a date.
Get out there and experience stuff that way you'll have no problem taking the lead and be like
"Nah I got an idea, let's go here:jawalrus:"

: If you drink find out some nice lounges,bars...find out which has a good menu of drinks, what type of vibe each spot has

Whatever you're into..if you're into comics find out the dope spots...don't be afraid of revealing your interests...women like when you're able to talk about something interesting and with passion.

:Also don't be afraid to open them up to new things

-Taking broads back to smash



So while I enjoy females, I gotta be realistic and focus on other shyt.

Dealing with em when you have a plan is so much easier..

For instance when I was living in a shelter getting numbers and talking to broads was no problem but I would always be thinking in the back of my mind

"How is this gonna work when I have a curfew and can't take em back to smash?:patrice: "

And I believe I was giving off weird energy...in fact I know I was because I wasn't aggressive in pursuit because I had no established plan.

It's like how can you really be on your A game when in the back of your mind you're wondering

"Damn where am I gonna fukk this bish at?:patrice: "

"Do she live with her parents?:patrice: "
 
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valet said:
Well let me give background. We became cool at my job. Despute being totally opposites on just about everything. Talked all the time at work. Once she quit, we kept in touch through texting but it wasnt the same. But when i make suggestions to facetime or hang out it never happen. Once she said we would go to lunch but cancelled. I asked the next week and she said she had a meeting. I gave up and didnt talk to her for a month. Then out of the blue she hit me up. But this time she seemed way more intentional and wanted to talk more frequently. To the point now we dont go 2 days without texting. Which led to this point where we finally hung out. So I'm not trying to date, hit etc. Just wanted to hang out.
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Well based on the explanation you have provided us, I see there is more to this story.

I guess you got what you wanted then, because you "wanted to hang out".

Don't you think you are giving her mixed signals by paying for the first date? Why not go for coffee like she suggested?

Also I hope you realize you are the second choice.
 
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O Fenômeno said:
Also it's good to have a plan and being realistic when dealing with women...

Meaning where is your head at, money at?

Yea some brehs can be bums and still get bytches but don't worry about that. Those are dudes who are confident regardless.

I think some brehs see dudes who don't have much going for them but they get p*ssy and then brehs get kinda bitter and discouraged.

Focus on what will make you feel better about yourself before the broads.
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One of my flaws I get bitter when a chick chooses a bum dude over me. My ego can't handle it. I know its something I have to work on.
 
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semicko82 said:
One of my flaws I get bitter when a chick chooses a bum dude over me. My ego can't handle it. I know its something I have to work on.
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Maybe its not

I know for a fact I don't put in a lot of work like other nikkas do when it comes to blowing up a chick phone, facetiming, and all that shyt. :yeshrug:
 
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