Dreamzeedream
Banned
If its ment to happen then it will
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Why not just have her come over to catch up?Update. Sunday she text me to see what was up with me. I asked her about a wedding that I thought happening next year but it happened this summer. Then she hit me with "We really need to catch up". I said "hint, hint, hint, hint". She then said her free days and I told her Wednesday at 5. I'm thinking maybe, it will actually happen this time but I'm cautious. Then tonight she text me "I know we're suppose to meet tommorrow for dinner but I'm broke. Maybe we meet for coffee. Or the week after." I told her I could pay for it and then she could pay next time. She then said she only make jiggas she date pay.
I then told her it ain't about the food. I just wanna catch u. Then she said, you're right. I'll let you pay and next time I got you.
So we'll see what happens tommorrow. I'm prepared for whatever.
ChiefKenji
Lord Cuts
Flake on her and post on your snap that you went out to eat at a diff restaurant.Update. Sunday she text me to see what was up with me. I asked her about a wedding that I thought happening next year but it happened this summer. Then she hit me with "We really need to catch up". I said "hint, hint, hint, hint". She then said her free days and I told her Wednesday at 5. I'm thinking maybe, it will actually happen this time but I'm cautious. Then tonight she text me "I know we're suppose to meet tommorrow for dinner but I'm broke. Maybe we meet for coffee. Or the week after." I told her I could pay for it and then she could pay next time. She then said she only make jiggas she date pay.
I then told her it ain't about the food. I just wanna catch u. Then she said, you're right. I'll let you pay and next time I got you.
So we'll see what happens tommorrow. I'm prepared for whatever.
She just trynna see if you still beta.
Lol what. That's a sus occupation no offense.
If you were in the military see if they will pay for school to learn a skill or trade.
File for unemployment asap.
its like the only thing I like to do outside of play videogames, and make music and neither of those pay so. I honestly am ready to just say fukk it though and go get some bullshyt federal job and sell my soul for profits.
VertigoKnight
Veteran
Update. Sunday she text me to see what was up with me. I asked her about a wedding that I thought happening next year but it happened this summer. Then she hit me with "We really need to catch up". I said "hint, hint, hint, hint". She then said her free days and I told her Wednesday at 5. I'm thinking maybe, it will actually happen this time but I'm cautious. Then tonight she text me "I know we're suppose to meet tommorrow for dinner but I'm broke. Maybe we meet for coffee. Or the week after." I told her I could pay for it and then she could pay next time. She then said she only make jiggas she date pay.
I then told her it ain't about the food. I just wanna catch u. Then she said, you're right. I'll let you pay and next time I got you.
So we'll see what happens tommorrow. I'm prepared for whatever.
Others have said it already but bruh throw this chick to the bushes ASAP. The absolute audacity of this woman is amazing.
The twisted thing is she knows she has you sprung and can pop up every few months to tease you then ghost again.
For your own pride tell her you're cancelling the dinner and go ghost.
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Update. Sunday she text me to see what was up with me. I asked her about a wedding that I thought happening next year but it happened this summer. Then she hit me with "We really need to catch up". I said "hint, hint, hint, hint". She then said her free days and I told her Wednesday at 5. I'm thinking maybe, it will actually happen this time but I'm cautious. Then tonight she text me "I know we're suppose to meet tommorrow for dinner but I'm broke. Maybe we meet for coffee. Or the week after." I told her I could pay for it and then she could pay next time. She then said she only make jiggas she date pay.
I then told her it ain't about the food. I just wanna catch u. Then she said, you're right. I'll let you pay and next time I got you.
So we'll see what happens tommorrow. I'm prepared for whatever.
You sound pathetic breh. Let me get this straight she didn't go to lunch with you twice and now you are expecting her to go out with you again?
Why not go for coffee like she suggested? If you are really interested in catching up.
I am reading it as she doesn't want to be obligated to you, and if you pay for the first lunch that means she has to go out with you again to in order to pay for the second.
You are not her top priority. These are the cold hard facts.
VertigoKnight
Veteran
Once this becomes clear it makes it easy to bush chicks.
I'm talking to about 10 new chicks at the moment. I have 6 who message me daily, no two days later mess. I have a few who've dropped off and I've deleted their numbers.
Way too much choice out here to be hung up on a chick who doesn't respect you and fukks with you when nothing else is happening.
If I get the feeling I'm a low priority, its the bushes. Don't waste my time and I wont waste hers. I'll never beg for a date. A chick should be excited you even asked her. If she's not then you already know.
Its why I respect women I've dated who told me. They're not really feeling it, but wish me the best. We're both upfront and honest and can both KIM.
It's been a while since someone dropped some Chronicles of Judah videos in here. He did some commentary on the show Insecure.
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Chronicles Of Judah’s Series On Insecure - YouTube <-- playlist
"A woman is just a child with titties. She can either be 4 years old or 17. You wouldn't hold a child to same standards you would hold yourself. Once you understand this you will see a lot of the problems you have with them go away." -Chronicles of Judah
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Chronicles Of Judah’s Series On Insecure - YouTube <-- playlist
"A woman is just a child with titties. She can either be 4 years old or 17. You wouldn't hold a child to same standards you would hold yourself. Once you understand this you will see a lot of the problems you have with them go away." -Chronicles of Judah
GOSPEL
and again this is why talking to a bunch of chicks is great, if one falls off the wagon meh who cares, you got 8 more.
Always be number 1
Yeah I kind of realize being out of a job for the first time in a decade Ive been bullshytting period. I dont have a consistent girl, or kids. Why the fukk aint I working 60-70 hour weeks? And if I am working weeks like that how fukk could I even juggle bytches. So naturally being on my shyt would weed out the flak and keep the keepers. Def been slacking and hustling backwards. Going forward its about the bag period. These hoes is negligible.
Dreamzeedream
Banned
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The official Chaplain of the Coli
First, I appreciated all the feedback. As far as yesterday she stood me up.Update. Sunday she text me to see what was up with me. I asked her about a wedding that I thought happening next year but it happened this summer. Then she hit me with "We really need to catch up". I said "hint, hint, hint, hint". She then said her free days and I told her Wednesday at 5. I'm thinking maybe, it will actually happen this time but I'm cautious. Then tonight she text me "I know we're suppose to meet tommorrow for dinner but I'm broke. Maybe we meet for coffee. Or the week after." I told her I could pay for it and then she could pay next time. She then said she only make jiggas she date pay.
I then told her it ain't about the food. I just wanna catch u. Then she said, you're right. I'll let you pay and next time I got you.
So we'll see what happens tommorrow. I'm prepared for whatever.
Naw, I'm joking, we had fun. She was like 15 minutes late but it was cool. Laughed, debated politics, religion, talked jobs (we used to work together) hip hop for 3 hours. It was a Carribean restaurant and that jerk chicken was spicy but good. We ordered the same thing which she was mad about because she wanted me try something different so she could eat off my plate
Her love life is dead and she's simpin for a guy whom she never went out with and he stopped texting, calling her. Anyway, she said she had fun twice so I'm assuming she wasn't just being polite. Again, it was 3 hours. Said that she pay next time (whenever that is) and I told her it didn't have to be a restaurant. Just coffee like she suggested. Text me that she got home safe and thanked me for the dinner. That was it.Still not sure what changed where she finally stop spinning me but I'll continue not to pursue her.
