Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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:wow:Facts only...you a good breh:salute:

I wish I had advice and a thread like this when I was an inexperienced young buck:myman:

Heh. I just been in his shoes before , not the exact scenario, but just dealing with a female when she has no interest in you. That’s how I know he’s not going to listen.

He’ll over analyze every nice thing she do hoping that she like him in that way( She sent me a text saying she had a good time etc ).

Me personally, i would of been offended that she brought up another guy. I’m not your gay male friend.

At the end of day , breh took an L, but it’s not the biggest L( I’ve had worst lol ), but I can almost guarantee going forward he’s going to rack up even more L’s dealing with her and going to wish all he did was pay $22 for dinner and 3hrs of his time wasted..
 

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Damn... you know damn well if she even send you a text saying “Hi”, you’re going to be all :wub::wub:.

If a female start talking about her love life with you, you already friend zoned.

She told you what changed, the guy she was simping dropped her, she was hungry,you were available, she used you to take her mind off him.

Everybody here told you to drop her and you still feed her lol.. We all been here Breh and it sucks. So I know you won’t listen to us and you will just have to learn the hard way.
I understand but I don't think I'm clear. I'm not trying to pursue a relationship. I want just strictly to be friends and hang once in a while. That how we were at work. We talked all the time. But it changed once she left
 

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I understand but I don't think I'm clear. I'm not trying to pursue a relationship. I want just strictly to be friends and hang once in a while. That how we were at work. We talked all the time. But it changed once she left
For what???
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you aint got no males around you to hang out with? you sound like a nikka whose lonely and without options.

I think DEEP down you KNOW you want more from this chick and your ego and pride wont let you accept that L and move. :ufdup:

you are in denial and hoping that with time she's gonna catch feelings for u and see how much of a catch you are. :mjlol:

well, goodluck. Just dont come here crying when that nikka she's simping for calls her up and fukks her again and then she starts neglecting your lil 'friendship' :umad:
 

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For what???
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you aint got no males around you to hang out with? you sound like a nikka whose lonely and without options.

I think DEEP down you KNOW you want more from this chick and your ego and pride wont let you accept that L and move. :ufdup:

you are in denial and hoping that with time she's gonna catch feelings for u and see how much of a catch you are. :mjlol:

well, goodluck. Just dont come here crying when that nikka she's simping for calls her up and fukks her again and then she starts neglecting your lil 'friendship' :umad:
Yes, i do have boys I hang with. Why hang with her it? Well, I enjoy that different perspective since we're different ages, life experiences. And we both like to debate. We argued for hours before. If she does neglect it then that shows her true colors. As I stated I stopped talking to her for a month.
 

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Yes, i do have boys I hang with. Why hang with her it? Well, I enjoy that different perspective since we're different ages, life experiences. And we both like to debate. We argued for hours before. If she does neglect it then that shows her true colors. As I stated I stopped talking to her for a month.

Stop wasting your time on chicks who don’t put the same effort in
 

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Yes, i do have boys I hang with. Why hang with her it? Well, I enjoy that different perspective since we're different ages, life experiences. And we both like to debate. We argued for hours before. If she does neglect it then that shows her true colors. As I stated I stopped talking to her for a month.

I got several homegirls. They are beautiful, and Im not trying to ever hit. They are friends because they provide things that I wouldnt have otherwise. Outlets to parties, functions, other bytches...I dont pay for any if their stuff and they invite me to hang out more kften than not. My point here is if you really just trying to be homies you moving real odd. Paying for her food, weird. Trying to li k up incessantly, weird. In this thread which is obvs for sexual relations with women talking about her, weird.

Besides 95% of women make terrible terrible friends. You need you a free spirit never committed smut if you want actual female friends cuz they view dikk like we view puss. Regular chicks gonna get a man eventually and you gonna find out how disposable you are.

Tldr. Youre being silly here. That byrd is not your friend and you forcing it.
 

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Yes, i do have boys I hang with. Why hang with her it? Well, I enjoy that different perspective since we're different ages, life experiences. And we both like to debate. We argued for hours before. If she does neglect it then that shows her true colors. As I stated I stopped talking to her for a month.
what true colors? :mindblown: this girl done showed you already that she does not give a fukk about you or your company. She's only hanging out with you for convenience. As she has shown already that as soon as she gets some excitement in her life she ghosts you and pretends you dont exist until she's bored again and wants to vent about her shyt.


bruh, its clear from all these replies you've been getting here that u wont change your mind about her until she does u really dirty and throws you under the bus. so do what u wanna do playa :hubie:
 

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I understand but I don't think I'm clear. I'm not trying to pursue a relationship. I want just strictly to be friends and hang once in a while. That how we were at work. We talked all the time. But it changed once she left
You in the wrong thread breh, fukk you need advice for to deal with a homie??
 

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:patrice: What some stuff you've done?

Not on no level 10 shyt cause I know you been divorced & stuff.

My situation is I was dealing with a bum ass chick (No car, No apt, No job, Pothead) and I thought I could upgrade her.

Redid her resume, Created her online job profiles & a new email, Reached out to recruiters and got her a nice paying job. Two days into the job this bytch tried to flip on me talking about how I never did shyt for her, and didn't know shyt, etc :wtf:

She changed the password on the email & indeed account but is too stupid to know that I know them anyway.

I'm thinking about just snatching back all the shyt I made for her........or I could go level 10, take that shyt back, send out some NASTY emails to her new job & recruiter and get her ungrateful ass fired :demonic:
I aint gon lie, you should made that bish pay an offering before doing all that shyt for her. And after the offering you should have been eating off her check too. Nukkas out here thinking they gon upgrade an AintShytBish, but you gotta have the mentality of a pimp and behave as one with bishes like this.
 
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I got finessed by a bytch for a plate last night
My instincts said don't trust her but I convinced myself that maybe she was interested in meeting for real.
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When we got to the restaurant she ordered some chicken and devoured it
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It was clear that bytch hadn't eaten all day. I should have walked out on the bill.
:hhh:

Was this a first link-up or date? Always go for drinks-only meeting first :wow:
 

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Yes, i do have boys I hang with. Why hang with her it? Well, I enjoy that different perspective since we're different ages, life experiences. And we both like to debate. We argued for hours before. If she does neglect it then that shows her true colors. As I stated I stopped talking to her for a month.
You doing all this Juelzing when the answer is you just want to fukk smh
 
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