Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Bless't]

nah the bytch drinks. she just trynna act all special like the rest of them. I aint falling for that bullshyt. if she aint wanna go grab some drinks at the bar instead of of wanting to dine in a restaurant, then she aint my type of girl. she might as well keep it moving. I wish I would go on a dinner date with a bytch I just met, shyt like that is only reserved for a girlfriend.

Yup. I would have done the exact same thing.

 

[Deafheaven]

The unmitigated gull of some of these women.



Sheesh.

I honestly think thats why without thinking I reacted how I did last night with my situation. Just a instant "the audacity of this woman "

I know in general I should play it off but sometimes you cant help but break character slightly over the stupid shyt they attempt to say/do like its normal

 

[The Message]

girl i was messing with got tired of the arguments and wanted to take a "break". saw a screenshot she posted of her conversation with her friend on social media. guess what i saw,, the Tinder notification icon on the top left of that screengrab, yet the bytch told me she quit Tinder

These hoes is something else, i tell ya brehs . If you dont pay attention you might be rick-rolled something serious :wowjb:

crazy. lol

i wish more dudes realize that girls lie ALL THE TIME.

they lie more and better than we do

 

[Rev Leon Lonnie Love]

crazy. lol

i wish more dudes realize that girls lie ALL THE TIME.

they lie more and better than we do

exactly!

she hated that im always on alert, and just wanted me to let my guard down and trust her so she can have her way with me. I be damned if I let that shyt happen

I wouldnt have picked up on that Tinder lie if I wasnt always paying attention to what she does or says. Now I can move on with my life knowing that bytch just wanted freedom to go entertain other nikkas without feeling guilty.

Cant wait for the day when that reality hits her and she realizes she missed out big time by being a greedy bytch

 

[The Odum of Ala Igbo]

I feel you 100%

Dont Even Reply Breh, Crazy bytches never go easy

Today, I felt like I won. I went to my firm’s Xmas party and met a beautiful dark-skinned militant I’ll be working with next summer

Spent all night talking, dancing and looking at each other. She even told me she creeped me on FB before meeting me.

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

whatever

 

[The Odum of Ala Igbo]

Don't move too fast tho breh and don't put your eggs all in one basket

I know how it is when u meet a chic that has u and then she's into u too

But it's easy to get caught up and think u have it in the bag and then u start making dumb mistakes

Yeah. I'm going to take it slow so I don't scare her off. I'll be seeing her a lot next year anyway. Occasionally (once a month), I'll message her when I'm in Europe next year.

 

[RealAssanova]

I been doing that. Thats my go to. I was just overly annoyed more so at that let me see if my friend flake first shyt. Like bytch you serious? But its still a L for me allowing her to illicit a honest response so Ill embrace the L, loss and lesson

Don’t ever show a woman thru messages that she annoyed/disrespected you. Especially if its not someone you’re in a relationship with. Matter of fact, as men, we shouldn’t allow a woman to illicit any kind of emotional reaction out of us period (except for certain circumstances). Instead, always punish her through actions. Withdraw attention completely. Don’t go on dates if she asks (atleast not the first attempt she tries) and replace her.

Which goes back to my earlier point i made a few pages back. Always have women on edge when it comes to you. Like if they know you haven’t hit em up in days/weeks/months...and they randomly hit u up...they wanna see if shyt is gonna be like it was before..with her bein all flaky and shyt...or will she realize she fukked up, you not the one to play with, fall in line or move on.

Make em nervous when it comes to you. Like there getting ready for an interview and they don’t know what to expect.

 

[LiveFromLondon]

Had a Naomi Russell looking, Wide hip Pawg, all on me at the club who curved damn near every nikka, slip through because i wasnt giving her the attention throughout the night. bytch was the coldest i seen all night to including both clubs i went. Question for brehs, how and what are you saying to carry convos with bytches in the club, Im good at initial approach using situational tactics but then fizzle out when it comes to diveting and keeping the flow going after.

 

[Deafheaven]

Had a Naomi Russell looking, Wide hip Pawg, all on me at the club who curved damn near every nikka, slip through because i wasnt giving her the attention throughout the night. bytch was the coldest i seen all night to including both clubs i went. Question for brehs, how and what are you saying to carry convos with bytches in the club, Im good at initial approach using situational tactics but then fizzle out when it comes to diveting and keeping the flow going after.

clubs suck for talking. say some shyt to get her comfortable. grab her digits and wish her a good night. No one is having deep philosophical convos over that loud ass shiitty music they be playing.

 

[twan83]

Had a Naomi Russell looking, Wide hip Pawg, all on me at the club who curved damn near every nikka, slip through because i wasnt giving her the attention throughout the night. bytch was the coldest i seen all night to including both clubs i went. Question for brehs, how and what are you saying to carry convos with bytches in the club, Im good at initial approach using situational tactics but then fizzle out when it comes to diveting and keeping the flow going after.

Really no right or wrong answer in a sense well I mean u can royally fukk up if u say dumb shyt which can be common sense
But what I know is if she feeling u regardless how convo is she gonna let it be known and give u digits time of day and may leave with u same night

But the most important thing is keep the convo simple nothing more till u have the tools to make it deeper or switch it up on a female.
Once u have that or know how to read a female or the situation its gravy from there
Nothing is certain cuz she can just dip on u drop of a dime and u did nothing wrong but u can increase ur success rate dramatically tho if u know what ur doing



Couple of things
I refuse to sweat a damn female my time is quality and if u ain't feeling me enough and I sense it or ur boring me
I'll go find a better solution than her

I dont play games I'm straight forward with u hell I'll even tell them I'm just wanna smash nothing more and it does work too under the right circumstances it will

Nothing works better than making her smile u can do that its smooth sailing especially with great eye contact

If u just want the digits just get them keep it short y waste ur whole night to get it keep convo short but not too short just a few mins get the digits and on to the next one best believe she doing the same damn thing


If u been with her all night she grabbing ur shyt kissing up all on u shoot your shot and take her from the club to get her back blown out
Whether its your place , hotel , car or even outside
I'm gonna say this also alot of females want that wild experience so if she is all up on as your leaving the club find a secluded place and smash outside cuz everytime I did that from my experience it's more memorable for them cuz of sense of adventure turns them on like crazy especially if u blow out their back in the process

 

[Sinnerman]

What's the easiest way to let go of a clinger?

 

[FishNGrits]

What's the easiest way to let go of a clinger?

Ghost

 

[twan83]

What's the easiest way to let go of a clinger?

I have no issues with them personally but can be annoying but like poster above me said ghost them in a nutshell

 

[The Message]

@LiveFromLondon

breh the reason why your shyt fizzles out is because youre not stepping to the broad with your real intentions--that you wanna fukk. too much of a platonic conversation and i know this because i had the same problem. bytches are in the club to fukk. and you should approach her in that manner. but not in no thirsty, aye shawty, dusty nikka type shyt. the sexual energy has to be there tho.

if you dont step hard, with sexual energy, and a flirty mouthpiece, the shyt will continue to fizzle out.

i open super direct when i step to her. tell her shes attractive or sexy as fukk and then introduce myself. get in her space, speak with authority, and lock that eye contact. this aint no water cooler convo. the chick has no doubt in her mind about why talkin to her...i want her.

after we exchange names, i say some flirty, playful shyt. "you lookin all dangerous in that dress tonight, i cant fukk with you. i got bible study in the morning". just dumb, corny stupid shyt. but the shyt works cuz its my style. i own it. do you breh, but keep the shyt flirty and sexual.

dont ask her shyt thats going to get a yes or no response. tailor your spit in a way thats unique to her to get them to talk. i told a broad her vibe was "straight up detroit elegance". she ate that shyt up. i followed that with “youre too stylish to work at walgreens, you must work in fashion design.” or some bs like that. if they like you, theyll say "well i actually work in...".

right after that i usually make another flirtatious comment and follow up with another open ended statement. "you dont look like youre from detroit" or some shyt. she responds, i respond casually, then sprinkling in more flirtatious shyt.

if they like you, women will start gaming you, just dont fukk it up

every moment im upping the tension and once its at a point where i got her hooked, i lead her to a quiet corner in the club. then you can tone down the flirting and ask the more platonic/interview questions questions. and at this point is where im touching her and setting shyt up to lead her back to my spot.

these bytches know nikkas are in the club to fukk them and it kinda frustrates them when nikkas is steppin to them like this is a fukkin ice cream social or church cookout. they came to the club, dressed up, smelling right...for YOU!! remember that.