Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[phcitywarrior]

So I called her up and said something to the effect off:

"Hey Thando, lemme address something. We make plans but then stuff always comes up, If we're gonna make plans and you flake then there's no point. I don't want any parts in that nor do I care for that. I think you're dope and I definitely like hanging with you but I'm not with the flakey shyt. So yea."

She was then like "ok, ok, I know, I suck (which is a cop-out) well I'm gonna go back to watching my show since you yelled at me and my feeling are hurt" (I never even raised my voice btw).

Told her "nah, I'm not trying to hurt your feelings, I'm just telling it as it is. I really don't have time for the BS".

She was now like oh, you don't have to continue yelling at me.

Said she had to go and we ended it at that.

I always feel better when I address things from the jump and I should have done so way at the beginning. Some of the advice I got in here was with good intentions but a little off point. Me and shawty have already gotten kinda intimate so it's not necessarily bush status, but it's more of setting boundary status. If she and I were just very early into things, then yea, I can forgo that.

At least now, if she comes backs, she knows what the boundaries are.

I do think to a degree, we as men have kind of started taking some dating tactics from women, which to me shouldn't be the case. Ghosting, being flakey, being non-responsive etc shouldn't be our first crutches as men. We have to hold ourselves to a higher standard.

 

[The Odum of Ala Igbo]

So I called her up and said something to the effect off:

"Hey Thando, lemme address something. We make plans but then stuff always comes up, If we're gonna make plans and you flake then there's no point. I don't want any parts in that nor do I care for that. I think you're dope and I definitely like hanging with you but I'm not with the flakey shyt. So yea."

She was then like "ok, ok, I know, I suck (which is a cop-out) well I'm gonna go back to watching my show since you yelled at me and my feeling are hurt" (I never even raised my voice btw).

Told her "nah, I'm not trying to hurt your feelings, I'm just telling it as it is. I really don't have time for the BS".

She was now like oh, you don't have to continue yelling at me.

Said she had to go and we ended it at that.

I always feel better when I address things from the jump and I should have done so way at the beginning. Some of the advice I got in here was with good intentions but a little off point. Me and shawty have already gotten kinda intimate so it's not necessarily bush status, but it's more of setting boundary status. If she and I were just very early into things, then yea, I can forgo that.

At least now, if she comes backs, she knows what the boundaries are.

I do think to a degree, we as men have kind of started taking some dating tactics from women, which to me shouldn't be the case. Ghosting, being flakey, being non-responsive etc shouldn't be our first crutches as men. We have to hold ourselves to a higher standard.

Honesty helps me with women, but a lot of them build fantasies in their heads/don't listen when I tell them I'm not interested in a relationship right now

 

[The Odum of Ala Igbo]

A lot of women flake due to anxiety about meeting men and putting themselves out there. Women who are really into you will overcome that anxiety

 

[TRUEST]

A lot of women flake due to anxiety about meeting men and putting themselves out there. Women who are really into you will overcome that anxiety

Don’t think this way. You’re shielding yourself from the cold reality.

 

[RealAssanova]

So I called her up and said something to the effect off:

"Hey Thando, lemme address something. We make plans but then stuff always comes up, If we're gonna make plans and you flake then there's no point. I don't want any parts in that nor do I care for that. I think you're dope and I definitely like hanging with you but I'm not with the flakey shyt. So yea."

She was then like "ok, ok, I know, I suck (which is a cop-out) well I'm gonna go back to watching my show since you yelled at me and my feeling are hurt" (I never even raised my voice btw).

Told her "nah, I'm not trying to hurt your feelings, I'm just telling it as it is. I really don't have time for the BS".

She was now like oh, you don't have to continue yelling at me.

Said she had to go and we ended it at that.

I always feel better when I address things from the jump and I should have done so way at the beginning. Some of the advice I got in here was with good intentions but a little off point. Me and shawty have already gotten kinda intimate so it's not necessarily bush status, but it's more of setting boundary status. If she and I were just very early into things, then yea, I can forgo that.

At least now, if she comes backs, she knows what the boundaries are.

I do think to a degree, we as men have kind of started taking some dating tactics from women, which to me shouldn't be the case. Ghosting, being flakey, being non-responsive etc shouldn't be our first crutches as men. We have to hold ourselves to a higher standard.

Instead of acknowledging that she’s been a poor person of character, she had to deflect it on you for “yelling at her” which you weren’t.

This woman is all kinds of trash. I wouldn’t have even propped her up sayin i like kicking it with you and whatnot.

I simply would’ve been cold and to the point. Woulda told her “everytime i tried to set something up you wasn’t with it. Seemed like you were more interested in playin games which i don’t get down with at all...so i moved on.”

I wouldn’t even give a shyt at that point if she tried to reconcile and wanna link up cuz at that point it becomes a matter of dignity & self-respect over pu$$y.

 

[phcitywarrior]

Instead of acknowledging that she’s been a poor person of character, she had to deflect it on you for “yelling at her” which you weren’t.

This woman is all kinds of trash. I wouldn’t have even propped her up sayin i like kicking it with you and whatnot.

I simply would’ve been cold and to the point. Woulda told her “everytime i tried to set something up you wasn’t with it. Seemed like you were more interested in playin games which i don’t get down with at all...so i moved on.”

I wouldn’t even give a shyt at that point if she tried to reconcile and wanna link up cuz at that point it becomes a matter of dignity & self-respect over pu$$y.

I'm living and learning.

 

[NoirDynosaur]

The chick didnt meet up

Regardless, breh had a great time at the bar munchin on dis steak quesadilla

Tasty af. The older I get, the more I enjoy solitude. Women are cool...but they cant make you happy, only YOU

 

[Solano707]

Field report using AMS strategy...

Edit: one thing about this pawg is, if you hit her up, you won't her from this broad for hours. So not to be thirsty i just hit her up and leave at that. if she responds, respond back and nothing else. i never, did you get my message or anything beta like that.


So this pawg I've seen once last year and we broke contact because she doesn't text back fast enough. This is where i messed up before - i cam off to needy. Anyways, we reconnected on FB about 2 month ago, but never been able to get together. I hit her last week and to keep it short, so this past sunday i asked her if she wants to get together. So I told her 'ok, lets do friday (two days ago) at 7pm - that's the only time i got available'. She said she was down. So i didn't contact her until friday morning at 8am. just saying 'hey, we meeting up at applebees at 7' and she said that's cool.

So let me take a break in here real quick - the logistics of where i live and applebees, is that i got the hook up. I litterally live like two minutes away. so it makes it extremely easy to bring back chicks to my apartment and it works like 99% of the time. Also, before i leave my place for a date, i ensure my apartment is cleaned top to bottom. I also strategically, leave out my PMI-RMP study guides on my dinner table, so that it shows i'm studying my certs.

back to the story.... so she texts me at 6pm saying she can't be there until 7:15 because her daughter had cheer and the other mom and carpooled can't pick her up so sticking wtih AMS strategy, if the broad can't make the time, reschedule. So even thought its only 15 minutes late, i told her 'ok, my schedule is pretty tight, let's reschedule for another time'. Then she said 'ok, i'm so sorry and i apologize' I said 'no worries, things happen - enjoy your weekend ' she said 'you too and i'm sorry' again. so last night, i was bored as fukk, so i texted her around 5pm... so i broke off from AMS and should have contacted her a week later, but my balls ached and i needed to let off in a broad . so i text her, 'hey, i know this is last minute and i'm finally with this contract work - you down for drinks tonight?' She was like 'sure, i get off at 9, so i can be there at 930'. I said 'ok, bet it's 930 then.' Keep in mind its 5pm. So 9:20 rolls around and i hop in my truck letting her know, i had already ate dinner and i'm just going for drinks (i'm not feeding her ass ) She was 'ok, you don't mind if i'm in my scrubs do you? I really want to see you.'
I said 'nah, you good, just pull through

At this point, i know i got this bytch. she soon and she said she right around the corner. she said 'i coming as fast as i can' lol

so we make it, she pulls up at 9:40 and i said your late , you got the first round of drinks she was like 'ok'

So we get inside and we had a few drinks, i kept a masculine frame, kept eye contact, let her do about 80% of the talking. like i said, this is the second time we met.

after drinks, i said want to come back to my place to see how i live, i only stay about 1 minute away?

she was like 'yeah'

we get back to my place and seh walks around. she went to go use the bathroom. so put on a movie, but we didn't sit down, we stood by the kitchen counter and talked and i was pretty much right up on her. she turned her back to me and then i got behind her and kissed her neck and on her cheek and slowly put my hands on her side and rubbing her by her ribs. but i pull back and we keep talking some more. at this point i'm in a teasing/seductive mode. i kiss, rub and smell her hair and break away a few times to do something. just warming her up

then, we started kissing again and i lead her to the couch. by this time, i had already cut off one of the two lamps i had on. we are making out and i put my hand down her paints and start rubbing on her p*ssy.

her clit is pierced

i pull her paints off and she wearing polka dot panties and she soaked right through them.

then she was like hold up, i'm don't want to come off easy

i said, do you have like a 3 date rule, you know we grown folks right?

she was like yeah

so i was like okay, so i she pulls back up her pants and then istart kissing her more, and she doesn't stop me. at this point i know she trying to shyt test and not make it come off as easy, she telling me, no, but she really telling me yes, i'm still rubbing on her p*ssy.

her pants come back off and i start mouthing on her p*ssy lips through her panties this broad panties were so wet, you could have rung them out and got some condensation out of them.

her panties come off, i slapped the rubber on and went to town.

she then pulls off her top - this broad is wearing a compression shirt, so as soon as that comes off, her upper body kind of exploded like a can of biscuits

she went pawg to hawg real quick, but she wore it well though

so i'm beating from the couch to my bedroom, back to the couch and then back to my bedroom.

so know i'm about to nut, and i tell this broad turn around get on your knees... she was like what

grabbed her by the back of her head and had her suck me off bone dry

the broad swallowed all the nut without blinking Had her totally submitted to me.


and still kept sucking...

we clean up and after we got dressed, she was like, this wasn't suppose to happen

i told her whatever, you wanted it. she leaves.

she hits me up on fb saying she didn't think i was a freak like that and that. she said i broke her rules on sex

she said, i swallowed your cum - yuck

i was like 'you loved it and you gonna do it again'

we talk a little more on fb, but then at the end, she was like, 'so i'm not gonna hear from you anymore sinc eyou got what you wanted '

i was like 'you mean, what we both wanted? '

she said she can still smell me all over her and she loved it

ralph polo cologne by the way fellas

i went to bed shortly after.



Funny thing, i had zero on my roster. Now I got another chick i use to mess with, played it all wrong and she moved to ATL. But she hit me up just before i met the pawg saying she back in town and ATL wasn't for her. she had defriended me off social media because when she asked if i was dating other women, i told her yeah mind you, i haven't even fukked this broad yet, but yet she got pissesd.... i'm plow through her too and i'll report back on that later. but i'm gonna let her stew for a while.

i potentially got another one, this will be three all together, but she's a close friend of one of my home girls, so i need to proceed with caution on this one. i might not pull the trigger just on GP with her though ... we'll see

 

[The Odum of Ala Igbo]

Don’t think this way. You’re shielding yourself from the cold reality.

Nah. It’s true breh

Many women are insecure cowards

 

[The Message]

@Yashin job well done. textbook execution. lol making the date super close to your spot is major!

 

[Solano707]

@Yashin job well done. textbook execution. lol making the date super close to your spot is major!

Yep, dap+rep

 

[Straw Hat Luffy]

Breh im a be honest.

I get inspired being around good looking women. Like very pretty in the face, take care of her body, titties, waist, and booty looking nice in a dress when you go out type of woman.

Makes me be like yo, I need to get my shyt together and do push ups or something to drastically improve me.

I know its not the cool thing to think shyt like that. But women, if not for you, is still a top 3 motivation for men and will always be.

 

[Straw Hat Luffy]

Breh im a be honest.

I get inspired being around good looking women. Like very pretty in the face, take care of her body, titties, waist, and booty looking nice in a dress when you go out type of woman.

Makes me be like yo, I need to get my shyt together and do push ups or something to drastically improve me.

I know its not the cool thing to think shyt like that. But women, if not for you, is still a top 3 motivation for men and will always be.

One major dislike I have with hot women is conversations tho. Lots of them talk about nothing and you have to dumb down to weightless topics.

 

[Atlrocafella]

I was going to chill for the rest of the year but the brehs in here got me motivated to bag another one before the month is out

 

[Vinny Lupton]

What's a good response for - she asks for your snapchat and you dont have that shyt, and she says "how am I supposed to stalk you and see what youre about lol"