Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[he_is_I]

Any tips on closin wit these hoes. I feel like im always waitin on th right moment to buss a move and i feel like im missin a lot of oppertunities.

 

[Iceson Beckford]

Your problem is probably not creating any attraction with these women in fear of losing their friendship. You need to let them know your attracted to them in a non creepy way and if they don’t want to be cool stop talking to them. Your pulling the trigger to late or not pulling it a all. Most of my homies are short but they never had a problem with women because they were uber confident and went for it.

I think you're right, Im not really pulling it all

Yeaa I dont think its my height that the problem. My brother is basically the same height and never had problems with women so Im not gonna try and use that as a crutch

 

[twan83]

Im 5'7, skinny and average looking but I have glasses atm.

Dont think I've been called ugly but definitely have a lot to improve on.

I'll try talking less and see how that goes

Breh height dont matter if your confident, make good eye contact and know what the hell u want.
I'm 5"6 and was pulling girls over 6 ft and they didnt care at all

 

[Silkk]

Any tips on closin wit these hoes. I feel like im always waitin on th right moment to buss a move and i feel like im missin a lot of oppertunities.

Get drinks, Get em to your place, Watch a movie. The rest should handle itself.

 

[Straw Hat Luffy]

Post 1 on a certain topic--

We need to talk about how we can be our biggest obstacle in here more often.
The last few times I hooked up with a girl, it was either women I smashed before or a particular girl who went out here way to hook up with me.
Other than the random drunk hookups I have sometimes, I really don't have a line up of females I can hit up. I also don't have someone to text or snapchat regularly.
I don't even have two females I can fall back on until I find something.

I did some reevaluation by going back into the past to remember how I got into previous relationships or hookups with women.
And then it hit me. I don't even put any effort in trying to get with a girl

Like its been over a year since my last attempt of putting myself out there like that. And this is why I'm iffy on the just focus on you and if she likes you it will show theory we preach in here some times.

I remember last year I dikked down this girl from my class on a frequent basis. The thing is the option wouldn't have been there if I didn't randomly talk to her once after leaving class. She showed no signs of liking me previously before that, because we never even communicated. If I would have followed that coli advice or be in the current state I am now last year, I wouldn't have been able to hook up with her.

Sometimes we need to acknowledged that we don't need to learn game or receive advice, but actually put yourself out there. If you don't even try, how will this this thread even be useful?

 

[Straw Hat Luffy]

Post 2- different topic

Have you ever wanted to hook up with a chick but at the same time didn't? And it has nothing to do with being afraid to take the L.
Im actually into smashing the shy nice boring girl. Like the girl that most likely has 1 to 0 body counts and shes not the typical girl to be on a guys radar.
But the thing is, I feel so conflicted when ever I do this type of shyt.

Part of me is like I'll be the one to turn her into a freak
And the other part of me be like what have I done, she was minding her business being the nice, shy, and boring girl-- until I dikked her down.

There a girl in my class like that right now and I'm just like and at the same time.

I want to try but I feel like I shouldn't.

I just feel like its bogus to that type of girl because obviously I'm a dip out, which shes not used to.

 

[CinnaSlim]

 

[Silkk]

Post 2- different topic

Have you ever wanted to hook up with a chick but at the same time didn't?
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Yep, don't like wearing rubbers

 

[YOGEBEAR09]

What happen

So I been talking to her for a couple days and I asked her if she wanna come over and she was like yea "Lets do some homework together." And me Im thinking yea right you know whats up. She came over and we was chilling on my bed and watching movies flirting and shyt. So you know i start tryna do what I do kissing on her and shyt rubbing on her and shyt and she all cool with that and rubbing on me back. So Im like cool and Im tryna advance this shyt but she like naw and wont even take her jacket off . So I try to slow shyt down and wait to get her a lil more comfortable. I wait a minute and she starts tryna play so I start playing with her and flirting with her and she wind up on top of me and Im kissing her on her neck and rubbing her but she wont take her jacket off and she keep warding off my advances to make out with her. Im like dahell is wrong with you so I try get from underneath her and she like stop moving you making me warm baby and she just holding on to my body and wont let me go but wont let me advance shyt with her. So eventually I get from underneath her and go to chilliing on my phone when she ask me to take my shirt off cause she wants to look at my back because I got vitiligo and she wants to see where else i got it at besides my hands. (For some reason bytches be over my vitiligo and be so intrigued by it but I aint complaining.) I take my shirt off and Im thinking aight here we go . She looking at my body and observing me in awe and she winds up on top of me again and we back to rubbing and shyt and cuddling. So I try one more time to get this popping but she keep warding off my advances except to cuddle and to rub on each other . SO I'm like damn this I sit up and start playing my game in her face and she like "Oh so you really bout to play your game in my face " and Im like "Yea". So Im playing my game and then she ask me to warm up her food that she brought over and Im like "No the microwave is in the kitchen" and she act so stunned I wont do it for her and keeps asking me to warm up her food and each time Im like no the microwave is in the kitchen. So after Like the 5th time I tell her no she say "Well Im bout to go to sleep " so I say "Where? In my bed?" and she says yea so my response is " Oh naw its time for you to go " and she left.

Girl was straight up playing> I even told her she was playing when we was chilling and she was like "How?". I aint really to keen on telling bytches I want them to suck my dikk or wanna fukk recently cause now you never know how they gonna take that and if that will get you in some mess or not so I had to bush her ass

 

[Iceson Beckford]

This is very factual.

I had to do need some self reflection about this cause I realised I was chasing the completely wrong type of woman.

I can sit here and complain about getting played or whatever but some accountability is needed

At the end of the day, Im just a square average nikka and need to move accordingly instead of trying to bait these high maintenance shallow women

 

[Dreamzeedream]

So I been talking to her for a couple days and I asked her if she wanna come over and she was like yea "Lets do some homework together." And me Im thinking yea right you know whats up. She came over and we was chilling on my bed and watching movies flirting and shyt. So you know i start tryna do what I do kissing on her and shyt rubbing on her and shyt and she all cool with that and rubbing on me back. So Im like cool and Im tryna advance this shyt but she like naw and wont even take her jacket off . So I try to slow shyt down and wait to get her a lil more comfortable. I wait a minute and she starts tryna play so I start playing with her and flirting with her and she wind up on top of me and Im kissing her on her neck and rubbing her but she wont take her jacket off and she keep warding off my advances to make out with her. Im like dahell is wrong with you so I try get from underneath her and she like stop moving you making me warm baby and she just holding on to my body and wont let me go but wont let me advance shyt with her. So eventually I get from underneath her and go to chilliing on my phone when she ask me to take my shirt off cause she wants to look at my back because I got vitiligo and she wants to see where else i got it at besides my hands. (For some reason bytches be over my vitiligo and be so intrigued by it but I aint complaining.) I take my shirt off and Im thinking aight here we go . She looking at my body and observing me in awe and she winds up on top of me again and we back to rubbing and shyt and cuddling. So I try one more time to get this popping but she keep warding off my advances except to cuddle and to rub on each other . SO I'm like damn this I sit up and start playing my game in her face and she like "Oh so you really bout to play your game in my face " and Im like "Yea". So Im playing my game and then she ask me to warm up her food that she brought over and Im like "No the microwave is in the kitchen" and she act so stunned I wont do it for her and keeps asking me to warm up her food and each time Im like no the microwave is in the kitchen. So after Like the 5th time I tell her no she say "Well Im bout to go to sleep " so I say "Where? In my bed?" and she says yea so my response is " Oh naw its time for you to go " and she left.

Girl was straight up playing> I even told her she was playing when we was chilling and she was like "How?". I aint really to keen on telling bytches I want them to suck my dikk or wanna fukk recently cause now you never know how they gonna take that and if that will get you in some mess or not so I had to bush her ass

Naw bro. You could still hit Nd was gone hit. Yall just met a couple of day ago? And you got that far on the first night of yall kicking it?

 

[YOGEBEAR09]

Naw bro. You could still hit Nd was gone hit. Yall just met a couple of day ago? And you got that far on the first night of yall kicking it?

Naw fukk all that she was playing too much for me. And she just brought this gay ass nikka to my crib talking bout I got his fukking calculator. One of them TI 84 plus joints. I kept telling that bytch I ain't have shyt but my calculator which is the exact same one. Come to find out his calculator got my name on it so it wasn't his. bytch threatened to call the police on me I was ready to beat that bytch ass

 

[Dreamzeedream]

Naw fukk all that she was playing too much for me. And she just brought this gay ass nikka to my crib talking bout I got his fukking calculator. One of them TI 84 plus joints. I kept telling that bytch I ain't have shyt but my calculator which is the exact same one. Come to find out his calculator got my name on it so it wasn't his. bytch threatened to call the police on me I was ready to beat that bytch ass

that shot went left QUICK

 

[YOGEBEAR09]

that shot went left QUICK

Of course it went left quick I figured out shyt was on some bullshyt last night

 

[Dreamzeedream]

Of course it went left quick I figured out shyt was on some bullshyt last night

Should whipped it out nohomo