Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

Silkk

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we was in the initial talking stages breh. Didn't make no plans to link yet. We was just politickin over text then after i replied and asked a question...poof. So i was like :manny: i know what it is. So i never said anything after that last question and moved on. Which is why i was surprised she hmu yesterday.
On a scale of 1-10, how bad is she? :patrice:
 

The Odum of Ala Igbo

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Determining choosing singles is tough, especially at a professional school. Gonna follow my gut and see if someone threw me one last week.
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She’s a bartender so I’m going to the bar while she chills at work.

If I’m wrong, I’ll just go somewhere else after I don’t tip her
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Brehs, if u met a woman who is respectful, thoughtful, offers to pay some dates, cook for you, but there is no chemistry. What do you do?
 

Nuke Dukem

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Whats the move when you see some goofy shyt...

There's this chick I've been dating/fukking since August.. No title or anything, we just link up for a drink/date/food/movie/sex probably once a week, and its been cool...


A few days ago I seen she posted a story on snap that I viewed ( thats not the point)

Now me n her never snap, just text or call if I need to contact her..

Today I was gonna send her a snap of some dumb shyt and when it sent it said she'd have to add me first :patrice:

So I send her a message like " hey did you un add me on snap :jbhmm:"



She tells me some real goofy shyt about some guy kept messaging her and she tried to delete him or delete her account and was just hitting buttons ( some real dumb shyt that dont make any sense:russ:)

Im a a$$hole too lol... I showed her how she would have to follow the following steps to un add me

- go to my name on there

- hold it down and go click settings after hitting my name

- then from there go to remove friend


So you really cant just un add someone accidentally


Then she said maybe she deleted her snap, but I looked that up n you gotta actually sign on to their website to do thatand that she deleted her girl friends too :russ:


So I'm about 99.5% she's bullshytting... I dropped it though :yeshrug:


Never had a issue with her before either :yeshrug:

been cool as hell



I'm thinking she posted something that she didnt want me to see :yeshrug:
 

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My nikka...

Your whole approach is off...

You should have been trying to have fun...:heh:

Fam... you need to destroy and rebuild...asap

If you dont go to the gym...start asap
If you dont do any cardio...start asap
If you not apart of any clubs or outside activities...start asap..
If your eating habits suck, change...asap
This some good advice
 

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Maybe not worry about approaching hoes or p*ssy for awhile..like 2months or so and just focus on school and getting in shape.

If you feel the reason you're not getting play is your weight than focus on that weight.

Naturally in the back of you mind you won't be focused on your weight when hollering at chicks..women can pick up on when a breh is feeling insecure about something and they get turned off.

Basically improve yourself to where you feel as if though broads should give you a chance regardless of weight.



And to be honest I was like 245 went down to about 200 and broads starting choosing and I was still chubby..think Abel(The Weeknd chubby)..

I find some of us brehs place too much importance on p*ssy...you have other brehs talm about the p*ssy they getting ,and you start to feel less like a man or whatever.

Also I suggest keeping an eye on chicks who are throwing choosing signals.
I hear you bro. That is what I’m gonna do for the rest of the year. Focus on my health and studies and continue that trend into the New Year and Spring Semester. If the p*ssy comes it comes if it don’t then it don’t. There is a saying if you resist it persists. My mentally this year was like “I need to get p*ssy. I have to get it. I don’t want to fukk this up. Damn this dry spell is wack.” It was all negative thinking and fukking with my self esteem. I basically wanted to get p*ssy to compete with my homies who were getting p*ssy to prove a point. I believe in the law of attraction that what you put out in this world comes right back. Women can pick up vibes and energy in general.

When you in a dry spell and the nikkas around are getting and talking about p*ssy it sort of makes you feel lesser than a man. It fukks with you mentally and makes you think is something wrong with you which lowers your self esteem. At the end of the day we all have something to offer to this world and if a chick doesn’t see your worth it’s her loss. But self improvement is what I’m on. I only will go after chicks that are showing signs they are interested for the time being. After a couple months I’ll get back into approaching right around the spring time to get ready for summer 2019 god willing.
 
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