Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Silkk]

I get a lot of 5’s 6’s with the occasional 7-7.5

How do u brehs upgrade ?

Aim Higher

 

[98Ntu]

I been there bro. Sitting around with the homies and everybody talking about what bytches they fukking/fukked and you dont have nothing to add to the conversation it's a pride/ego thing. Your on the right track with self improvement. Get right and put your self out there @ZoeGod

Self improvement is too key. Level up economically, physically, mentally, spiritually and these females will come your way. But don’t improve yourself cuz of them. Do it for you and only you. Women will just be a happy byproduct of your hard work

 

[DamienWayne]

Aim Higher

Is it that simple breh ?

So wat do i do with the 6’s, stop messing with them?

 

[Silkk]

Is it that simple breh ?

So wat do i do with the 6’s, stop messing with them?

Or you could mess with them too

 

[DamienWayne]

Or you could mess with them too

That defeats the purpose. I’m trying to have 8’s chase me like the 6’s do

 

[Silkk]

That defeats the purpose. I’m trying to have 8’s chase me like the 6’s do

Thats like saying you don't want any $10 bills to be given to you, only $20s.

I ain't saying you gotta fukk em

 

[Data-Hawk]

persian chick i was talkin with pulled a casper for about a week and 2 days. Yesterday morning she hit me up talmbout "hey hun! how are you? sorry i was busy with school and work". Ignored it. She hit me up again in the evening with a smiley emoji. Ignored it.

some of my nikkas were like my ego and pride is too high and that i shud talk to her..because she reached out to me and apologized. I know she doesn't owe me anything and that i shudn't feel any type of way....but in my head....and what i was tryna rationalize to em was that...24 hrs in a day....it doesn't take much to simply say "hey. i haven't forgot to respond..i've just been busy with school and stuff".

decency.

I think she is trying to clear her conscience. She knows what she did was wrong (irrespective of the reason behind her ghosting) especially since i didn't do anything to warrant that from her. So she wants to extend an olive branch to see if i would take it...and then once she see's everything is okay she can possibly pull a casper again.

but that could also be the analyst in me speaking.

Not saying you.. but dudes have to get it through thier head.. If a female goes more than 2-3 days without at least a quick text.. 1000% of the time it’s another guy in the picture. Something didn’t go through with them and she’s falling back on you..



Sure people get busy and things come up , but yeah 2-3 days with no response. Straight bushes.

 

[Atlrocafella]

Went at another baddie today, back on my shyt mane.

 

[Actually6Foot3]

Went at another baddie today, back on my shyt mane.

Gang shyt

 

[pickles]

Whats the move when you see some goofy shyt...

There's this chick I've been dating/fukking since August.. No title or anything, we just link up for a drink/date/food/movie/sex probably once a week, and its been cool...


A few days ago I seen she posted a story on snap that I viewed ( thats not the point)

Now me n her never snap, just text or call if I need to contact her..

Today I was gonna send her a snap of some dumb shyt and when it sent it said she'd have to add me first

So I send her a message like " hey did you un add me on snap "



She tells me some real goofy shyt about some guy kept messaging her and she tried to delete him or delete her account and was just hitting buttons ( some real dumb shyt that dont make any sense)

Im a a$$hole too lol... I showed her how she would have to follow the following steps to un add me

- go to my name on there

- hold it down and go click settings after hitting my name

- then from there go to remove friend


So you really cant just un add someone accidentally


Then she said maybe she deleted her snap, but I looked that up n you gotta actually sign on to their website to do thatand that she deleted her girl friends too


So I'm about 99.5% she's bullshytting... I dropped it though


Never had a issue with her before either

been cool as hell



I'm thinking she posted something that she didnt want me to see

The fact that you did all this and are typing all this here tells me you care about her more than you are implying.
But your last comment is probably accurate.

 

[Solano707]

The fact that you did all this and are typing all this here tells me you care about her more than you are implying.
But your last comment is probably accurate.

I wouldn't have done all that, it seems like you desperate and simping.

 

[Dreamzeedream]

That defeats the purpose. I’m trying to have 8’s chase me like the 6’s do

You could still fukk the 6's while getting at the ones you want?

 

[Killigraphy]

persian chick i was talkin with pulled a casper for about a week and 2 days. Yesterday morning she hit me up talmbout "hey hun! how are you? sorry i was busy with school and work". Ignored it. She hit me up again in the evening with a smiley emoji. Ignored it.

some of my nikkas were like my ego and pride is too high and that i shud talk to her..because she reached out to me and apologized. I know she doesn't owe me anything and that i shudn't feel any type of way....but in my head....and what i was tryna rationalize to em was that...24 hrs in a day....it doesn't take much to simply say "hey. i haven't forgot to respond..i've just been busy with school and stuff".

decency.

I think she is trying to clear her conscience. She knows what she did was wrong (irrespective of the reason behind her ghosting) especially since i didn't do anything to warrant that from her. So she wants to extend an olive branch to see if i would take it...and then once she see's everything is okay she can possibly pull a casper again.

but that could also be the analyst in me speaking.

While people do have school/work, go outside and see how many of those people, still have enough time to check their phones every 5 minutes in the rain, snow, shyt, even during a hurricane. Unless you're a doctor -on call I expect you to be busy. But if you're a basic bytch with just homework and work on the docket, you have no excuse. The problem being; girls hit you up constantly if there's something to gain. She knows you want to fukk, as do the other 1000 or so dudes on her social media. And while most aren't going to give you undivided attention, those that don't (in your case) should be treated like second class citizens to your bourgeois lifestyle.


You're right, she doesn't owe you anything, but your time is far more valuable than hers, I would still talk to her, but she gets nothing but coffee dates till she acts accordingly.

 

[Killigraphy]

Brehs, if u met a woman who is respectful, thoughtful, offers to pay some dates, cook for you, but there is no chemistry. What do you do?

No chemistry as in? Sexually? conversation? etc. Girls like that I put into the "training fukk dummy" category, I use her to explore any sexual kinks I might have, and nothing else. I use her till she becomes chemistry laden or at least tries, till then, she's just another plate.

 

[Killigraphy]

Determining choosing singles is tough, especially at a professional school. Gonna follow my gut and see if someone threw me one last week.

She’s a bartender so I’m going to the bar while she chills at work.

If I’m wrong, I’ll just go somewhere else after I don’t tip her

That's definitely part of my rule set, never go to her place of work. Ruins the "flow" of conversation/chemistry. She's a bartender, which means she's gonna flirt with guys for tips, it ruins any "realness" you want from her. In general I always take bartenders somewhere completely devoid of work....pizza/coffee shops are my go-to's. Basically, too many variables at her workplace.