Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[FishNGrits]

I’ll be honest, I’m still kind of tight that bad bytch ghosted on me like that. I want to text her so bad just to tell her off, but I know I shouldn’t

shyt don’t even phase me no more. Some times I trip like I did some shyt wrong but these broads crazy. It ain’t you.

 

[Killigraphy]

Have been reflecting on this year since we are the end. Good news is I got myself out of academic probation but I have been in a rut dating wise since January. Early this year I told the story how my roommate was gonna put me on some shorty he ex was cool with. And it seemed like it was gonna be guaranteed p*ssy. She was interested after seeing my photo. Well we went to a club in Jersey and she hooked up with another homeboy of my roommate. I charged it to the game. Found out she she slept with other dudes in my roommates crew and she got a bump on her p*ssy. Went to DC and Miami which was lit but no play. Went to clubs there, approached broads, got numbers but no reply or p*ssy. My roommate got with a stripper who had a sister who was bad as fukk and we were gonna hook up. But at the last minute the stripper broads ghosted him. We was gonna throw a party for some hoes he knew from Staten Island. But that fell through.


Summer time was broke looking for work and then bam got back to school in August. Cleaned up my dating profiles back in May for Bumble,Tinder,POF, OK Cupid and IG. Used them for the whole summer and got nothing but flakes. I should have went to do cold approaches but online dating makes you lazy and not wanting to approach. Got back to school in August and have been hella stressed this whole semester. So I went hard on online dating since I had very little time to apprach. Not but flakes. Shorty that flaked me this past Saturday was a broad who I DM’ed on IG. At the core of it all I have been in a long dry spell and it’s embarrassing that my roommate get plenty of bytches but I’m not.

In the end it’s my fault. I have to start eating cleaner and get back to my OMAD program. Lifting weights is good and doing cardio is great but a poor diet throws all that away. Gotta get back to cold approaches in a more consistent basis. I started cutting off people who ain’t making moves in life regarding money, career, health and women. This year was great academically and socially. But dating wise it was trash. I think the reason why I’m not getting play is probably because I’m overweight. Rom Wills is right the body game is important.

I always say this, but its important since I treat it like a mantra. You come first, this is your movie, everyone else is an extra/sidekick. Now while that might sound delusional (and I'm almost sure it is), you're the main character of your life are you not? Then never treat yourself like the lowly background extra. In those regards, you should be excellent at one thing, and dabble in the rest. Women are a byproduct of a good life well lived, they aren't the reward or the goal, treat them like barnacles who attach themselves to the magnificent Black Pearl of a ship that is your life.

 

[Silkk]

Lil bad ass mixed chick been trying to get on the team hard as hell this past week. Current chick been fukking up.

Time to call a substitution

The Change Has Been Made

 

[Silkk]

I'm not changing myself for these thots. If certain women don't like me as the individual that I am, fukk them.

I'll continue to be me, until the right one comes along.

All those things listed are things you should want to do for yourself regardless, the rest will fall in place.

 

[John Reena]

I'm not changing myself for these thots. If certain women don't like me as the individual that I am, fukk them.

I'll continue to be me, until the right one comes along.

Well it’s SOMETHING u doing u gotta change, ya Hygiene, ur demeanor, mindset everybody gotta evolve at SOME point.

 

[Mr. Jack Napier]

Well it’s SOMETHING u doing u gotta change, ya Hygiene, ur demeanor, mindset everybody gotta evolve at SOME point.

Hygiene, style on point. I'm in shape, with a slim build. I have my own spot & pretty good paying job.Don't confuse me with these sloppy, dusty, broke mothafukkas out here. I have

 

[Silkk]

Hygiene, style on point. I'm in shape, with a slim build. I have my own spot & pretty good paying job.Don't confuse me with these sloppy, dusty, broke mothafukkas out here. I have

There's always room for improvement, and it doesn't just have to be physically.

 

[Solano707]

I'm not changing myself for these thots. If certain women don't like me as the individual that I am, fukk them.

I'll continue to be me, until the right one comes along.

You missing the ENTIRE fukking point breh, he basically saying start on your self-improvement. I'ts not for them, it's for you. Workout, eat right, hit up different social events and social-clubs. #1 thing to do is self care and that's eating right, exercising and socializing. Socializing to make friends and become comfortable around people.

@360dagod good post breh

 

[Mr. Jack Napier]

You missing the ENTIRE fukking point breh, he basically saying start on your self-improvement. I'ts not for them, it's for you. Workout, eat right, hit up different social events and social-clubs. #1 thing to do is self care and that's eating right, exercising and socializing. Socializing to make friends and become comfortable around people.

@360dagod good post breh

First off, I'm comfortable with myself, I don't need no self improvement. Secondly, I'm quite fine socially, I just don't feel like dealing with the bullshyt & games when it comes to dealing with women. Like I stated before, I'm not going to change my routine, or myself just to get more women attention.

 

[VertigoKnight]

shyt don’t even phase me no more. Some times I trip like I did some shyt wrong but these broads crazy. It ain’t you.

Yep, was supposed to go for a drink with this chick. I was extra interested in as she does documentary filmmaking so it served two purposes. Now she'd aready rearranged previously on me the week before.

She messaged me at 3 in the afternoon saying she picked up a job, but she'd be done by nine.

I said fine a late night drink works for me. 8.58pm comes and she messages me again. Saying she was still on the shoot.

I tell her I'm not working on friday so hit me up if you still want to meet she says when she gets back to town it will be her bedtime. And we should rearrange.

I didn't even bother to reply. If she wants to do so she can hit me up if she doesn't



Then I know shes an absolute flake and can move on effortlessly.

 

[Spiritual Stratocaster]

Have been reflecting on this year since we are the end. Good news is I got myself out of academic probation but I have been in a rut dating wise since January. Early this year I told the story how my roommate was gonna put me on some shorty he ex was cool with. And it seemed like it was gonna be guaranteed p*ssy. She was interested after seeing my photo. Well we went to a club in Jersey and she hooked up with another homeboy of my roommate. I charged it to the game. Found out she she slept with other dudes in my roommates crew and she got a bump on her p*ssy. Went to DC and Miami which was lit but no play. Went to clubs there, approached broads, got numbers but no reply or p*ssy. My roommate got with a stripper who had a sister who was bad as fukk and we were gonna hook up. But at the last minute the stripper broads ghosted him. We was gonna throw a party for some hoes he knew from Staten Island. But that fell through.


Summer time was broke looking for work and then bam got back to school in August. Cleaned up my dating profiles back in May for Bumble,Tinder,POF, OK Cupid and IG. Used them for the whole summer and got nothing but flakes. I should have went to do cold approaches but online dating makes you lazy and not wanting to approach. Got back to school in August and have been hella stressed this whole semester. So I went hard on online dating since I had very little time to apprach. Not but flakes. Shorty that flaked me this past Saturday was a broad who I DM’ed on IG. At the core of it all I have been in a long dry spell and it’s embarrassing that my roommate get plenty of bytches but I’m not.

In the end it’s my fault. I have to start eating cleaner and get back to my OMAD program. Lifting weights is good and doing cardio is great but a poor diet throws all that away. Gotta get back to cold approaches in a more consistent basis. I started cutting off people who ain’t making moves in life regarding money, career, health and women. This year was great academically and socially. But dating wise it was trash. I think the reason why I’m not getting play is probably because I’m overweight. Rom Wills is right the body game is important.

Maybe not worry about approaching hoes or p*ssy for awhile..like 2months or so and just focus on school and getting in shape.

If you feel the reason you're not getting play is your weight than focus on that weight.

Naturally in the back of you mind you won't be focused on your weight when hollering at chicks..women can pick up on when a breh is feeling insecure about something and they get turned off.

Basically improve yourself to where you feel as if though broads should give you a chance regardless of weight.



And to be honest I was like 245 went down to about 200 and broads starting choosing and I was still chubby..think Abel(The Weeknd chubby)..

I find some of us brehs place too much importance on p*ssy...you have other brehs talm about the p*ssy they getting ,and you start to feel less like a man or whatever.

Also I suggest keeping an eye on chicks who are throwing choosing signals.

 

[Silkk]

First off, I'm comfortable with myself, I don't need no self improvement. Secondly, I'm quite fine socially, I just don't feel like dealing with the bullshyt & games when it comes to dealing with women. Like I stated before, I'm not going to change my routine, or myself just to get more women attention.

You can for sure improve on your stubborness

 

[RealAssanova]

persian chick i was talkin with pulled a casper for about a week and 2 days. Yesterday morning she hit me up talmbout "hey hun! how are you? sorry i was busy with school and work". Ignored it. She hit me up again in the evening with a smiley emoji. Ignored it.

some of my nikkas were like my ego and pride is too high and that i shud talk to her..because she reached out to me and apologized. I know she doesn't owe me anything and that i shudn't feel any type of way....but in my head....and what i was tryna rationalize to em was that...24 hrs in a day....it doesn't take much to simply say "hey. i haven't forgot to respond..i've just been busy with school and stuff".

decency.

I think she is trying to clear her conscience. She knows what she did was wrong (irrespective of the reason behind her ghosting) especially since i didn't do anything to warrant that from her. So she wants to extend an olive branch to see if i would take it...and then once she see's everything is okay she can possibly pull a casper again.

but that could also be the analyst in me speaking.

 

[Silkk]

persian chick i was talkin with pulled a casper for about a week and 2 days. Yesterday morning she hit me up talmbout "hey hun! how are you? sorry i was busy with school and work". Ignored it. She hit me up again in the evening with a smiley emoji. Ignored it.

some of my nikkas were like my ego and pride is too high and that i shud talk to her..because she reached out to me and apologized. I know she doesn't owe me anything and that i shudn't feel any type of way....but in my head....and what i was tryna rationalize to em was that...24 hrs in a day....it doesn't take much to simply say "hey. i haven't forgot to respond..i've just been busy with school and stuff".

decency.

I think she is trying to clear her conscience. She knows what she did was wrong (irrespective of the reason behind her ghosting) especially since i didn't do anything to warrant that from her. So she wants to extend an olive branch to see if i would take it...and then once she see's everything is okay she can possibly pull a casper again.

but that could also be the analyst in me speaking.

Nah you right

You hit it yet though?

 

[RealAssanova]

Nah you right

You hit it yet though?

we was in the initial talking stages breh. Didn't make no plans to link yet. We was just politickin over text then after i replied and asked a question...poof. So i was like i know what it is. So i never said anything after that last question and moved on. Which is why i was surprised she hmu yesterday.