guys, while it is good to work on yourself and not allow any one woman to be the center of your happiness, keep in mind that, after all is said and done, we need each other. there are many different ways a woman can help propel a man to his finest peak. and vice versa.
for those that have been hurt bad by women, instead of going out and looking for another girl to get in a relationship with, why not strike up friendships with women on a platonic level? your "harem" or rather your list of women friends will grow a lot quickly and before u know it, u'll have legit female friends who would be highly receptive to do whatever u want, or to help you with whatever you need.
yeah, work on your self, get ur money right, look for warning signs in every relationship you get into, but by all means necessary keep in constant touch with the opposite sex!