Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

Its me not you, wants her freedom but watch some next nikka appear.

Best thing you can do is just leave with your dignity. Just contact in regards to your child, keep your emotions in check.

exactly! i have to stunt on her now. She basically said i was the best dude she ever had..then goes on to say she wants her "freedom".

 

[OaklandCertified]

Its me not you, wants her freedom but watch some next nikka appear.

Best thing you can do is just leave with your dignity. Just contact in regards to your child, keep your emotions in check.

She'll be back..but it's too late at this point. i'm done with her.. Her friends were always telling her how lucky she was to have someone like me. Not to toot my own horn, but she'll never find someone who will treat her half as good as me. With that said, time to plan a vacay.

 

[MikelArteta]

She"ll be back because subconsciously she views you as her safety net.

After getting cheated on and played the hey remember when.....


Women don't think logical for the most part emotions override. Yeah you may have treated her the best means nothing though, every chick in a abusive relationship or stuck with a cheater had a bf that treated em better.

Its all about how she feels!!

She'll be back..but it's too late at this point. i'm done with her.. Her friends were always telling her how lucky she was to have someone like me. Not to toot my own horn, but she'll never find someone who will treat her half as good as me. With that said, time to plan a vacay.

 

[twan83]

Talk some sense into me brehs...I just sent a heart felt text to my son's mom.. I thought we were rekindling, boy was I wrong.

listen to me very carefully
as a parent just be there for your kid as often as u can its very important it can and possibly will affect the kid depending on the age of the kid. and if it does seek therapy for ur kid it can help or at least talk to ur kid to help them out or understand the situation without shytting on the mom that is the last thing to do even if she does shyt on you let her be cuz when they get older the truth will be out and they will understand it and have resentment for that other parent for lying and making them believe something that wasn't true

all you can do is be civil with her as best as possible for ur sons sake even if u cant stand her ass.

 

[CASHAPP]

She"ll be back because subconsciously she views you as her safety net.

After getting cheated on and played the hey remember when.....


Women don't think logical for the most part emotions override. Yeah you may have treated her the best means nothing though, every chick in a abusive relationship or stuck with a cheater had a bf that treated em better.

Its all about how she feels!!

need your advice on something

i have not been in this thread in ages...real long time ago.

when i was here at some point i brought up this sexy older woman who comes to my job at the supermarket frequently and I just get this vibe she is naturally flirty and looking for dikk...

unlike other people...with her you cant really say she is looking for favors with coupons or shyt like that(unless she is that extreme) ...because she is the type to just come in the store and shop quick and come out...most of the times she is alone but i saw her once with who i assume was her man and her son...

she has the same blonde buzzcut like amber rose...young looking face and is slim like her and has a bubble on her(but not like amber)

she usually starts like random convos with me each different each time...today i had some item of the weak on my register and she asked me when it was her turn in the line and i was bagging her stuff...if i ever had that before and how she was thinkng of trying it....randomly brought up how today was the first time she ever had a red bull and was smiling...

when im with her i just bullshyt with her give a smile but dont go too hard...we said bye and she gave me an extra 3 second smile when she said bye and thanked me

yall could say im reading too much into this and her but like i said...its doubtful she is lookjing for favors in the store(unless she is that conniving lol) because she NEVER comes with coupons or rainchecks or things like that or asks for discounts...

but man she is sexy i wanna fukk the shyt out of her....

 

[Mister_DoItNice]

That honestly doesn't sound like anything special. Some women just flirt. Take your shot next time you see her. Don't sensationalize. Just talk to her.

 

[Turbulent]

need your advice on something

i have not been in this thread in ages...real long time ago.

when i was here at some point i brought up this sexy older woman who comes to my job at the supermarket frequently and I just get this vibe she is naturally flirty and looking for dikk...

unlike other people...with her you cant really say she is looking for favors with coupons or shyt like that(unless she is that extreme) ...because she is the type to just come in the store and shop quick and come out...most of the times she is alone but i saw her once with who i assume was her man and her son...

she has the same blonde buzzcut like amber rose...young looking face and is slim like her and has a bubble on her(but not like amber)

she usually starts like random convos with me each different each time...today i had some item of the weak on my register and she asked me when it was her turn in the line and i was bagging her stuff...if i ever had that before and how she was thinkng of trying it....randomly brought up how today was the first time she ever had a red bull and was smiling...

when im with her i just bullshyt with her give a smile but dont go too hard...we said bye and she gave me an extra 3 second smile when she said bye and thanked me

yall could say im reading too much into this and her but like i said...its doubtful she is lookjing for favors in the store(unless she is that conniving lol) because she NEVER comes with coupons or rainchecks or things like that or asks for discounts...

but man she is sexy i wanna fukk the shyt out of her....

no way to tell what's on her mind for sure. she could be looking for some dikk just like she could just be a flirt, just like she could be like that with everyone. i usually check how they interact with other men vs how they interact with me. that's usually a big clue.

i'd say if you're very dependant on your current job, don't make any bold move. if you don't give a fukk, depending on how you talk to her, bring some sexual energy in the way you talk and see if she engages, see if she seizes the opportunity or if her vibe goes . nothing vulgar though.

but it's gonna be hard if it's not you. honestly, from the way you started with her, i'd say let her do the work. give her more attention when she compliments you or gives you sex vibes. this is the long way though. you gotta check for some other chicks in the meantime.

 

[BlaKcMoney]

emperor reincar still in here keeping the suicide/homicide rates down. #salute

 

[Atlrocafella]

The main is starting to show bits and pieces of that unreasonableness .. She lives in Union City, Ga which is 30 minutes away from Atlanta..midweek I told her I would come out to her place on Sunday to come kick it with her since she's always coming out my way, but that I'm going to spend the night on Saturday at my parents house since I haven't seen my fam these past couple of weeks..she hits me today saying she wants to come over to my crib and spend the night and she wants me to still come over to her crib on Sunday as well ..

Reminded her that I was going to be at my parents house today but would come see her tomorrow, she sends me a "Rolls eyes" text and says "whatever" ..

I'm a taurus and stubborn, so when I make plans I stick to them, I'm definitely not going to drive back to my crib so you can spend the night, than drive to your crib the next day..that's too much gas to be wasting, and you can't hit a nicca up right when I'm already at my parents crib and expect me to switch everything up

Like I mentioned in earlier post, She doesn't have that "wow" factor that would have me head over hills for her, so her being mad doesn't even have me feeling any kind of way..I'm more like it is what it is.

Or it could be since I got a couple who've been showing interest, I'm not in desperation mode to please anyone, and can drop her if I feel like it ..

Oh well

I stuck to my plan and went and saw her on Sunday and she had a meal prepped and laid out for your boy , that's just what the fukk I'm talking about.

 

[NormanConnors]

Anybody in here look younger than their actual age?

Almost every woman that shows interest in me thinks I'm 18 or 19. Some of them are in shock when I tell them I'm 26.

In my 30's. I was carded when I went to see the Kingsman a couple months ago , I have to go for the wallet when I'm buying liquor or playing the lotto (sometimes depending on the store) as well.

I'll take it though/won't complain

 

[MikelArteta]

Just to much things in life to be thankful about than to sit and mope.

Nothing in life is guaranteed not even tomorrow. So hell I'm going to enjoy and try and to be positivd every day I can so if I'm going out I'm going out

emperor reincar still in here keeping the suicide/homicide rates down. #salute

 

[RiffRaff]

Alright brehs I need some advice.

I've been seeing this girl for a few months now. I like her, she likes me blah blah blah. But how much emphasis do you fellas put on where your partners heads at long-term. I'm saying this because she has what I would say mediocre aspirations. She didn't have the best family situation so she hasn't really seen better which could be the cause of this. Like for example she's finishing up her degree shortly so she's still in college, but we had a small argument because she brought up how her current (fast food job, remember she's in college) didn't pay her enough and she was always close to broke. When I brought up some feasible suggestions for her to make more money or get a better job she had an excuse for everything I had suggested and it got to the point where she got upset. Another time I told her how my parents were going on a vacation to a few islands in the Atlantic Ocean and the first comment she said was, "that's cool, I'll never be able to afford to do something like that"

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To put this in perspective I don't like to toot my own horn, but I have very high aspirations. I graduated college early, got a job making more money than most coming out of school and the only thing on my mind is further advancement. If there is one thing I liked about my EX it's the fact that she too had high aspirations and I found that attractive. Basically what I'm trying to say is that I like this girl, but she seems perfectly ok with mediocrity. She wants to go to Grad School after she graduates, but her grades aren't that best and even with a Master's aspirations her overall goals in life seem very lackluster.

My question to you brehs is, am I putting too much stock into this since I just turned 23 and she's 22, or should I cut this off sooner rather than later because ultimately this might be someone that I can't build ultimately build with in the long-run. I've tried putting her on game too, but everytime I do she starts throwing a little mini tantrum basically saying "just let me be".

 

[Mike Ock]

She'll be back..but it's too late at this point. i'm done with her.. Her friends were always telling her how lucky she was to have someone like me. Not to toot my own horn, but she'll never find someone who will treat her half as good as me. With that said, time to plan a vacay.

"Comparison is the thief of joy". Always remember that. If she gets with someone who treats her worse than or has less than you, you'll feel "how could she?!!". She gets with someone who has more than you, you'll feel "She's only with him cause he has so and so". There's really no benefit to this way of thinking. Once Me and a chik are done, I have no care how the next dude treats her. Bad or good, I don't care to hear about it. Less stress on my mind.

But yeah man, a vaca will def clear your mind. Even better when you end up hooking up with someone while on one.

 

[Mister_DoItNice]

If she doesn't want your advice then let her be. I would say keep her around but keep your options open. No, you shouldn't take things with her seriously. You already outlined the reasons why. Don't just drop her though if that's all she does that you don't like. She could be inspired later on by your achievements.

 

[RiffRaff]

If she doesn't want your advice then let her be. I would say keep her around but keep your options open. No, you shouldn't take things with her seriously. You already outlined the reasons why. Don't just drop her though if that's all she does that you don't like. She could be inspired later on by your achievements.

Thanks breh. Putting it into perspective if I had said the same things to my parents when they were my age they would have probably given me the same response as her. Now both of them are fairly successful individuals. I'm not going to drop her over that, but I will definitely keep my options open.