Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Had to go get my phone reactivated and there she was :noah:. Went up played it smooth, flashed a grin. It took longer than expected so we began a little small talk. I'm waiting for my new phone to be delivered so it was kinda old & slow. We was making each other laugh while time passing. Then she made a joke about her trading phones with me. I laughed & asked could she deal with an old phone and she just laughed. Once I got the phone turned on she told me about some survey I'd get a call about and to give her a good rating. I told her I'd suggest them to promote her and that was that. She looked real good and seemed like she had a good head on her shoulders and funny.
 

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Now who else wanna fukk with Hollywood Court?
Curious brehs where did y'all meet your wife, girl, girl your talking to


Through her cousin who I was friends with, she had a crush on me and I thought she was gorgeous but too young. We were always orbiting each other, same social circle, going to the same parties and talking to one another while we were there. She came from a great family, was smart, sweet, cultured and a little bit of a tomboy which I like a lot, she asked her cousin about me often and I asked her cousin about her :russ: Basically I just asked her out to lunch oneday when she was visiting her Aunt (my friends mom) she said "finally" and that was that, she's my best friend and I honestly did luck out with her.
 

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Had to go get my phone reactivated and there she was :noah:. Went up played it smooth, flashed a grin. It took longer than expected so we began a little small talk. I'm waiting for my new phone to be delivered so it was kinda old & slow. We was making each other laugh while time passing. Then she made a joke about her trading phones with me. I laughed & asked could she deal with an old phone and she just laughed. Once I got the phone turned on she told me about some survey I'd get a call about and to give her a good rating. I told her I'd suggest them to promote her and that was that. She looked real good and seemed like she had a good head on her shoulders and funny.

Alright bruh, I'm not trying to down you, but relax. You know nothing about this girl, yet you referred to her as the woman of your dreams. Chill out homie. You saw only what she wanted you to see. After one conversation I don't even know how you could draw any conclusions about the type of person she is. Dudes get blinded by a pretty face and nice body. I'm not just talking about you specifically. I've seen similar posts in here before. Yours is just the most recent.

Your post just seems like you're already open. If I'm wrong, I apologize for my assumptions.
 

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Alright bruh, I'm not trying to down you, but relax. You know nothing about this girl, yet you referred to her as the woman of your dreams. Chill out homie. You saw only what she wanted you to see. After one conversation I don't even know how you could draw any conclusions about the type of person she is. Dudes get blinded by a pretty face and nice body. I'm not just talking about you specifically. I've seen similar posts in here before. Yours is just the most recent.

Your post just seems like you're already open. If I'm wrong, I apologize for my assumptions.
Most of it was a joke....all that means is that I would be open to dating her. The woman of my dreams thing is a figure of speech :whoa:
 

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Had to go get my phone reactivated and there she was :noah:. Went up played it smooth, flashed a grin. It took longer than expected so we began a little small talk. I'm waiting for my new phone to be delivered so it was kinda old & slow. We was making each other laugh while time passing. Then she made a joke about her trading phones with me. I laughed & asked could she deal with an old phone and she just laughed. Once I got the phone turned on she told me about some survey I'd get a call about and to give her a good rating. I told her I'd suggest them to promote her and that was that. She looked real good and seemed like she had a good head on her shoulders and funny.
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Get out the house regularly, and don't go out with the mission of 'pulling women'. Go out and get out with the intention of being social and enjoying yourself. When you start placing victory conditions on yourself, then you're going to make yourself nervous. If you go out and let things flow to you, it'll be way more enjoyable.

Talk to people

I traveled this weekend and I talked to everyone taxi drivers, waitresses,


Funny thing is I've kinda been going out with no expectations and have enjoyed it more. Outside of work I always try getting out of the house, and it slowly but surely seems to be working. Thanks for the advice my dudes :myman:
 

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Man I went away for the weekend and my trip cost me nearly 1,000 and I spent nearly 500, when I tell people this they are like :damn: crazy you went away for 4 days and spent that much?, but the point is I'm a single man no wife no kids. I had one of the best weekends of my life, I went everywhere I wanted to go, did everything I wanted to do. Talked to everyone, from taxi drivers, bus drivers, waitresses, cashiers, people on my flight. I was eating at fancy restaurants by myself, taking 50 dollar cab rides, walking the streets at 3am, up at 6am taking photos. If I was married, in a serious relationship had a girl etc. I could not be doing all this. What I'm saying is learn to ENJOY your situation. You can sit and mope, waste money on taking these transient women out on dates left and right, or you can just sit back and let the chips fall wherever they fall and enjoy LIFE!

Because honestly brehs all I can say is just live and enjoy life. I remember for a long time in my life it's like I had to have a girl, be in a relationship or be talking to a girl in the very least, if not I felt empty, like I needed this. Call it co dependency call it whatever. I'd look so hard, then always end up compromising my personality, morals, values etc. just to have someone.

Then a light switch came on and at that moment I truly found myself. I learned to love what I had and be content, happy full of joy with who I was and what I had in life. And when that happened I just stopped looking/caring/settling because there was nothing missing in my life any-more. People think that have to find your other half, but the truth is, you gotta learn how to be complete with you and only you. And once you do that.

Make developing a deeper relationship with yourself and God a priority

Have absolute, total and unshakable conviction that you deserve to find a good woman, and that you will find a good woman.

I'm going to die one day however I don't think about it all day nor does the thought rarely even cross my mind. I don't ponder about how I'm going to die, or what age it will occur because when it happens it happens and until the day I stop drawing breath I will continue to partake and enjoy this ride I call life daily. Now why not take that same viewpoint in terms of relationships/marriage and the like and stop worrying about how or when it will occur. Just know that at some point that the odds are in your favour that you will meet an individual that will be heading on the same path as you if that is your desire, however until then no need to be in an emotional see-saw just live and enjoy your life.
 
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