Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[kevm3]

I just wrote a blog about a related subject, but what I found important is learn to appreciate TODAY. We often make our happiness contingent on achieving some sort of state, whether it is being with this or that girl or having this or that amount of money. In essence, we are blocking our ability to feel happy by making it dependent on some conditional state. This can cause a perpetual lack of happiness. IF you believe that you need to achieve this or that in order to be happy, that's exactly what you'll start to feel. On the other hand, if you learn to appreciate what you have now and to appreciate the day, you can experience happiness every day. Most of us were happiest when we were kids, and never did we think about goals, money, status, etc., until those concepts began to be introduced to us as we got older.

Phillippians 4:11
Not that I speak in respect of want: for I have learned, in whatsoever state I am, therewith to be content.

Now what does this have to do with women? A lot. If your happiness is contingent on being with this or that woman, your happiness is on very shaky grounds. She can leave tomorrow and you'll go back to being unhappy. Life is too short to wait for someone else to give you your happiness. As the Bible verse says, contentedness is something you have to LEARN. "In whatsoever state I am in, therewith to be content."

 

[kevm3]

I said I was going to start doing 'book reviews', but I'm going to change it up and just talk about the book and what I've learned as opposed to a 'review'.

The book I'm reading right now is called 'Trust me I'm Lying: Confessions of a Media Manipulator"

www.amazon.com/Trust-Me-Lying-Confessions-Manipulator/dp/1591846285/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1431787627&sr=8-1&keywords=trust+me+I%27m+lying

This book talks about how the media is manipulated, especially blogs, in order to produce traffic. It really brings into question the credibility of a lot of what you read period. It really makes me think about how many of these 'themes' and 'movements' are really generated in some backroom somewhere and then fanned in various media outlets including blogs and message boards. Makes me wonder how many people are getting paid to post in an 'incendiary fashion' or to plant ideas. I'm close to 20% through it so far, but it's an interesting read. I recommend you get a kindle or at least download the kindle app and browse through a sample of the book.

 

[Atlrocafella]

Right now I'm waiting for my plane to take off,travel brehs.

Don't waste your life marinating on those who could care less how your Day went

Safe travels breh. Headed to Paris at the end of July

 

[Atlrocafella]

I love telling these girls the TRUTH!, at the end of the day, they may not like it, but they respect it.

 

[MikelArteta]

In on a ferry heading to this spot called Victoria

Enjoy life brehs, don't be all unahooy because of some chick

 

[Action Mike]

Have females friends brehs

Then those female friends get mad when your busy exercising options out here and not chilling with them

 

[Atlrocafella]

The main is starting to show bits and pieces of that unreasonableness .. She lives in Union City, Ga which is 30 minutes away from Atlanta..midweek I told her I would come out to her place on Sunday to come kick it with her since she's always coming out my way, but that I'm going to spend the night on Saturday at my parents house since I haven't seen my fam these past couple of weeks..she hits me today saying she wants to come over to my crib and spend the night and she wants me to still come over to her crib on Sunday as well ..

Reminded her that I was going to be at my parents house today but would come see her tomorrow, she sends me a "Rolls eyes" text and says "whatever" ..

I'm a taurus and stubborn, so when I make plans I stick to them, I'm definitely not going to drive back to my crib so you can spend the night, than drive to your crib the next day..that's too much gas to be wasting, and you can't hit a nicca up right when I'm already at my parents crib and expect me to switch everything up

Like I mentioned in earlier post, She doesn't have that "wow" factor that would have me head over hills for her, so her being mad doesn't even have me feeling any kind of way..I'm more like it is what it is.

Or it could be since I got a couple who've been showing interest, I'm not in desperation mode to please anyone, and can drop her if I feel like it ..

Oh well

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

man if a broad is out clubbing and taking pics with other dudes, then how is that you being insecure? These broads want the best of all worlds. They'll keep you around in that relationship mode while they are out partying and clubbing and telling you this or that guy they are hanging with is just a bud, when in reality, he's doing his thing. Checking a woman on that is not 'insecure'. Women just have a way of flipping the script and making you think their out-of-pocket behavior is ok and that you're wrong for not accepting it. Most dudes ain't really insecure. It's just women doing funnystyle things and telling you 'it's nothing'... but let you be out clubbing and taking pics with other women and see if she doesn't say anything.

 

[Lord Vile]

A wife of noble character is her husband’s crown, but a disgraceful wife is like decay in his bones. – Proverbs, NIV, 12:4

 

[MikelArteta]

Ljust spent the day in Victoria even though it was all white folks, it'd a beautiful city and many beautiful woman.

Just reminded me again, why stress over one chick when there's oodles out there.

I remember kevm mentioning awhile back like the penny analogy, if you lose a penny your not all


And that's what most women are a penny there is so many of them dome are shiny, some are worn, but the value is the same

 

[Youseenmywork]

You're upgrading your technology, but you're not upgrading yourself -Eric Thomas

 

[MAGNETO.]

I work for an airline and think I've earned a bad reputation amongst my female colleagues.
Got into an argument with one of these girls and she's basically spread out bs about me.
Another girl I usually don't talk to informed of this.
Was curious if any of y'all had a similar experience and if this is redeemable.
Might use this to my advantage too tbh lol

 

[OaklandCertified]

Talk some sense into me brehs...I just sent a heart felt text to my son's mom.. I thought we were rekindling, boy was I wrong.

 

[MikelArteta]

If a woman feels nothing for you, mushy emotional stuff means nothing

Talk some sense into me brehs...I just sent a heart felt text to my son's mom.. I thought we were rekindling, boy was I wrong.

 

[OaklandCertified]

If a woman feels nothing for you, mushy emotional stuff means nothing

exactly! i have to stunt on her now. She basically said i was the best dude she ever had..then goes on to say she wants her "freedom".