Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

kevm3

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man if a broad is out clubbing and taking pics with other dudes, then how is that you being insecure? These broads want the best of all worlds. They'll keep you around in that relationship mode while they are out partying and clubbing and telling you this or that guy they are hanging with is just a bud, when in reality, he's doing his thing. Checking a woman on that is not 'insecure'. Women just have a way of flipping the script and making you think their out-of-pocket behavior is ok and that you're wrong for not accepting it. Most dudes ain't really insecure. It's just women doing funnystyle things and telling you 'it's nothing'... but let you be out clubbing and taking pics with other women and see if she doesn't say anything.
 

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yeah she's in the wrong. its so sad to think of the power so many men would have if only they can just get to a place where they just dont give a sh1t. matter of fact, guys should learn to expect their women to act up and do this type of sh1t so if it happens, u remain unfazed.

i bet u, that chick sees absolutely nothing wrong with what she did. it'll take a well grounded female friend of hers to show her the errors of her ways. which is really pathetic.

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ok dude. listen to me. there's hope here. but u need to start dating other women immediately. like NOW. like right this moment. like, RIGHT NOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and dont tell her u are. just keep yourself busy.

see, us men, our biggest problem is this. some of us really dont like hunting for women. some say they do but its bs. its too much work. so when we find a woman we like and who likes us back, we stop hitting on other women and we just stop searching in general.

however, u goto understand. women dont need to hit on men. if they're pretty enough or have anything appealing about them, they get hit on regularly....especially if they're an outgoing bunch.

so what can u, as a man (a regular man), do to safeguard your heart from these demonic episodes of jealousy? you must keep your time occupied. it'll be hella difficult to find the time to be stalking someone's social media when u've got 9 conversations on your phone u have to keep up with different girls.

and stop hitting this girl up. she already ended things on some lets be friends type things. and u just admitted that u clearly fuccked up by being too damn needy and controlling. so to a girl like that, who broke things up because of this, THE VERY FIRST THING U CAN DO TO CONFUSE HER IS TO GIVE HER DEAD SILENCE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

i know its gonna be difficult. but stop all communication. whenever she hits u up after a couple of days or whatever, be like

"hey, great to hear from u. when are you free to get together?". if she gives u a bs answer or something that isn't straight forward, be like

"cool, why dont u get back in touch with me whenever your schedule frees up. it was really great hearing from u. keep in touch." then end it.


learn to control yourself man!
this part right here is GOLD!
 

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yeah she's in the wrong. its so sad to think of the power so many men would have if only they can just get to a place where they just dont give a sh1t. matter of fact, guys should learn to expect their women to act up and do this type of sh1t so if it happens, u remain unfazed.

i bet u, that chick sees absolutely nothing wrong with what she did. it'll take a well grounded female friend of hers to show her the errors of her ways. which is really pathetic.

its shyt like that why i just dont give a fukk anymore and have been since i went thru experiences hell i can say around age 19 that mentality kicked in and has still and I'm 31 a newly free agent to the game

just rather focus on me and my kids and whatever happens happens i dont do full trust period i got a damn back up hard drive just cuz of all the shyt i seen and went thru that even if i get blindsided shyt still really dont faze me as much or even at all

its a damn shame we live in a society like this where the good guys and girls suffer cuz majority wanna act like damn fools immature with no respect to their partner married or not

that they make the honest ones have this mentality now and then people wonder why some of us say u are better off with a damn foreign female granted same shyt still can happen but not as high due to how their culture are cuz they are raised in a proper manner where respect and loyalty is ABSOLUTE

man if a broad is out clubbing and taking pics with other dudes, then how is that you being insecure? These broads want the best of all worlds. They'll keep you around in that relationship mode while they are out partying and clubbing and telling you this or that guy they are hanging with is just a bud, when in reality, he's doing his thing. Checking a woman on that is not 'insecure'. Women just have a way of flipping the script and making you think their out-of-pocket behavior is ok and that you're wrong for not accepting it. Most dudes ain't really insecure. It's just women doing funnystyle things and telling you 'it's nothing'... but let you be out clubbing and taking pics with other women and see if she doesn't say anything.

i agree i dont know his whole situation so i made an assumption since he said he was insecure but their are guys who literally are where she aint doing nothing wrong asking her why u going to store? u cant go get milk i will? i dont want u too go anywhere cuz guys will talk too u or u will cheat and she literally aint doing nothing wrong
granted its a case by case basis and rare at times but i have seen it cuz I've known a few female friends of mine who are really good people and actually loyal (granted as far as i know cuz u never know who are regardless of gender)


this part right here is GOLD!
it was just only problem she in a different country :russ:
 

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yeah she's in the wrong. its so sad to think of the power so many men would have if only they can just get to a place where they just dont give a sh1t. matter of fact, guys should learn to expect their women to act up and do this type of sh1t so if it happens, u remain unfazed.

i bet u, that chick sees absolutely nothing wrong with what she did. it'll take a well grounded female friend of hers to show her the errors of her ways. which is really pathetic.
This is the pic. Edited for privacy.
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She's the one on the right in front.

She said she thinks it's fine as long as she's with other people like her friend for instance.
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i just re read it again

I HOPE TO MEET THEM AGAIN IN PARIS :dahell: :scust: :camby: :pacspit:

already planning to go to paris let alone she might of had met them in paris already says again in paris
 

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breh she said she hope too meet them again :mjlol: :smh: :snoop:

:camby: she shall go
She post "I hope to meet you" to pretty much everyone. Whether it be friends, family, musicians, etc. That's not the only time i've seen her say " I hope to meet you" or meet you again type shyt.
 

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What's next, they go on a cruise together and she tells you that she's just learning a new language and they just went so they could be in an environment where she can get plenty of air to make sure her brain is operating at max efficiency? You did the right thing in keeping it moving. This is why I don't get caught up in women. All the investment you make and then they throw it in the trash to cultivate other options.
 

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What's next, they go on a cruise together and she tells you that she's just learning a new language and they just went so they could be in an environment where she can get plenty of air to make sure her brain is operating at max efficiency? You did the right thing in keeping it moving. This is why I don't get caught up in women. All the investment you make and then they throw it in the trash to cultivate other options.


:mjcry: my bad
 
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