Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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i got over that issue through online dating. see, when i was younger in high school i had a ton of girls chasing after me. and i tried very hard to avoid them mainly because i didnt want them to talk to me and then find out i cant talk for sh1t. so i would avoid them. i didnt know what to say to them. to think of the amount of ass i coulda gotten if only i was social in high school. whew.

but anyway, it wasn't until i moved out on my own and starting doing the online thing heavy that i started to build up my conversational skills. just ask women a lot of questions. let them continue to talk till u sense they're running out of things to say or that they're coming to the end of their answer. then u ask another follow up question. and if the chick is into u, she'll throw the same question back at you. and next thing u know u've put in a solid 10 minutes with a girl. in which case, u goto learn to seal the deal quick and get the fucck outta there before u say something stupid.

for a beginner like u, i'd suggest keep the convo to no more than 5 minutes. 3 to 5 before u ask for her number or give her urs. then always say something to the effect listen, i goto run but i'd like to continue to this. maybe we can over drinks or dinner one of these days. here's my number. then jet out.

u cant remain scared to talk to chicks one on one, man. meet them online. yeah, u will most likely bomb the first couple of times. but u goto crawl before u walk man. but whatever u do, DO NOT REMAIN STAGNANT in your fear.
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ive gotten a couple of numbers before on luck. and its like i believe i can do it but being submerged in fear of failure is the problem.
 
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ThatGuyloco said:
ive gotten a couple of numbers before on luck. and its like i believe i can do it but bieng submerged in fear of failure is the problem.
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u goto get over that fear by just giving it a shot.

do u stutter? is english ur first language? can you speak english comfortably??

if ur answered no to the first question, yes to the last two, you're good.

if not, then, practice makes perfect. the reason why online dating is a good avenue for u is, if u meet a chick and u fucck things up, chances are u will never see her again or run into her...especially if she lives in a different city. so u need not worry about embarrassing urself.

u goto jump in man. u cannot remain fearful. trust me.
 
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I said before I dont stick my pen in company ink but theres this chick at my job who has all the characteristics I like in a woman :noah:

tall :noah:

white :noah:

long black hair:noah:

semi thick :patrice: ....:noah:

she puts her hair in this long pony tail and walks around with it hanging over her shoulder :noah::noah:

looking like a real life Tifa from FF7 :noah:

every time she walks by im just like

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Only ink you should be using is to sign checks and documents.
 
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For the past month, I been talking to this biracial chick off a dating site. I'm always cautious when I meet them in person because you never know what kind of fukkery to expect but she seems "normal" real cool. We seem to share alot of things in common, have good chemistry and both have similar taste in music. The only issue I have is that she's a BBW and I don't normally go for those types. She keeps stressing to me that she's losing weight and is on the 30 day workout plan. As long as she's showing effort of getting in better shape and what not...I'm cool with that.

While I'm not into bigger women, her personality is too hard to pass up. The sexual attraction is there, but if she can slim down some...She'll be a problem. This is a case where the woman is into me more than I am her. She don't care about how much money or certs I have...seems like a rider. At the sametime though...I'm holding myself back because I don't wanna get burned again and she's cool with that. I'm not under no pressure to claim her yet so she knows her place.
 
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9th Street said:
tis a case where the woman is into me more than I am her. She don't care about how much money or certs I have...seems like a rider. At the sametime though...I'm holding myself back because I don't wanna get burned again and she's cool with that. I'm not under no pressure to claim her yet so she knows her place.
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ala heaven :salute:

but always remember 1 month in is still the honeymoon period, chicks will be all into you one day, willing to give up a kidney and all that, and the next day you don't hear from them for a month.
 
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9th Street said:
For the past month, I been talking to this biracial chick off a dating site. I'm always cautious when I meet them in person because you never know what kind of fukkery to expect but she seems "normal" real cool. We seem to share alot of things in common, have good chemistry and both have similar taste in music. The only issue I have is that she's a BBW and I don't normally go for those types. She keeps stressing to me that she's losing weight and is on the 30 day workout plan. As long as she's showing effort of getting in better shape and what not...I'm cool with that.

While I'm not into bigger women, her personality is too hard to pass up. The sexual attraction is there, but if she can slim down some...She'll be a problem. This is a case where the woman is into me more than I am her. She don't care about how much money or certs I have...seems like a rider. At the sametime though...I'm holding myself back because I don't wanna get burned again and she's cool with that. I'm not under no pressure to claim her yet so she knows her place.
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Than you in the perfect position breh. You seem like you got it all under control. :salute:
 
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:dead: All my ex's been hitting me up this week "Just to say hey" ...always around this time too, something must of told them in their sleep that I got a new chick out here in these streets.
 
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