Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[kevm3]

yep I remember being 21 engaged thought I knew it all. I didn't really go to church then but I remember this pastor telling me about pre marital counselling and I just laughed and scoffed. Probably would have found out everything in those sessions that my fiancée wasn't right for me at all instead I had to learn the hard way.

Yep, when I was young, I thought I could use some powerful game to make a woman loyal, but in reality, it all comes down to her character. No matter what I do, if a woman wants to cheat, that's exactly what she's going to do.

One thing I would tell these youngn's is that if you find a quality woman, get her and get out of the game. A lot of these young dudes got the impressions that they're going to be whoring it up until their late 20s and then just 'settle down'. More than likely, it won't happen that way. You'll probably be whoring it up, but when it comes down to settling, you'll be left with a whole bunch of the 'leftover' women, aka women who have some trait that makes wifing them impossible. These are women that have been around the block and simply don't have it in them to be able to stick with one man. I think one thing these young dudes need to learn is to stop thinking that you have some super powerful game and instead focus on being a quality person and looking for a quality woman, which are getting less and less as the days go by.

 

[MikelArteta]

Something I've learned is that most women you meet simply don't care for you like that. As soon as the emotional feelies are gone, they couldn't care less if you are living in a garbage can. In reality, it's not even you that she likes in most cases. It's the feeling she gets from being around you and as we all know, that feeling can disappear in an instant. A lot of women will like you simply because you are 'new', and that 'newness' provides an interesting emotional reaction to them, but the 'new smell' wears off quickly, and how this woman came in is the same way she will disappear. She came in based on a 'new emotional reaction'? She will likely disappear as soon as that feeling of newness disappears.

That'ss why, as they use the scientific term 'pair-bonding', is so important. When a woman messes with ton of dudes, her ability to connect deeply on an emotional level with any particular one lessens and lessens. Hence, once her emotional hooks for a man are no longer able to be deep, you can pretty much already predict that she'll be out the door sooner or later, or just keep you around for benefits.

What we have in this day and age is not women that are looking for a 'man to be with.' They are looking for biological drug hits. In other words, they are looking for men to induce that pleasure chemical in their brain, and as soon as they can't get that fix from you, they're gone. When you begin to learn that a lot of women you will meet this way, you won't trip when they simply disappear without reason. EXPECT most of them to disappear like that.

Yup if you have never experienced a woman you love, or who has said she loved and cares about you go cold when yesterday she was hot for you, you won't believe it.

I remember being young and the first time it happened to me I was literally in shock and couldn't comprehend it. I'm not saying I'm perfect but I did nothing wrong. Hell with every chick that has discarded me their mother has stayed in touch with me for sometimes even years after, I'm only saying this in terms of me having done nothing. No cheating, no stepping out, no treating them bad nothing, their emotions for me just changed. It doesn't matter how you treat them, nothing at all matters. Before I used to get frustrated and try to see what I was doing wrong, the only wrong thing I was doing was choosing women who were not of worth. These same chicks right now still single, can't hold stable relationships with just verified its them not me.

Notice how I said "mothers", yeah mostly all came from broken homes. I may get negged but to me there is a major correlation between women from broken homes and stability in relationships.

And yup the script man women run, into you in the first, wanting to know about you, long convos, dopamine highs, novelty, before you know it, weeks and months go by without contact. Like I've said numerous times, in my life about 11 women have told me they loved me and cared about me dearly, talked about the future and all that. Not one not one is in my life right now.

 

[MikelArteta]

That'ss why, as they use the scientific term 'pair-bonding', is so important. When a woman messes with ton of dudes, her ability to connect deeply on an emotional level with any particular one lessens and lessens. Hence, once her emotional hooks for a man are no longer able to be deep, you can pretty much already predict that she'll be out the door sooner or later, or just keep you around for benefits.

It's why I always laugh at the past is teh past type people. Yes people with a bad past can change, but many who say the past is the past are still living that same lifestyle and have the same mindset in the present. It's like applying for a job, if you have 10 jobs on a resume in the past year the odds of a reputable company investing you with the opportunity to work for them is slim, because you demonstrate through your history you are not loyal to one place, your always looking for the best next thing so why shoudl they hire you when you will be gone in a few months probably.

 

[Cynical Thoughts]

Female upset cause i will not shyt or pass gas in front of her.

 

[Jesus]

when a chick tells you a negative trait about herself.... believe the bytch.

 

[Action Mike]

I'm not sure what you guys stance is on having a few friends that are girls (i personally dont actively do it but have 2ish)

Theres pros brehs, the stories they will tell you about what they do to fellow soldiers will have you like

Just sit, listen and learn

 

[MikelArteta]

man my church had this mens breakfest this morning , this motivational speaker was there some dude who makes like 25,000 a hour but my bro in law knows him so he was tehre for free. Dude wants to mentor me

I taped it and will post the video when it gets put up but some points

"I wake up on the premise that I'm running late"

Purpose is what you are created for, vision is the level you take it to

Desire gets you nowhere has to be backed by action

I'm consumed by my purpose

 

[TRUEST]

I'm not sure what you guys stance is on having a few friends that are girls (i personally dont actively do it but have 2ish)

Theres pros brehs, the stories they will tell you about what they do to fellow soldiers will have you like

Just sit, listen and learn

female friends are extremely important. but try to make sure they are chicks ur not really all that into. that way, when they talk about whomever it is they're fuccking, u wont care. the mere existence of ur female friends will help keep the chicks u are dating in check. and also helps u sharpen ur game in how to talk to women.

 

[EQ.]

Female upset cause i will not shyt or pass gas in front of her.

 

[sixsixtwo]

True love & soul-mates, eh?

 

[MikelArteta]

True love & soul-mates, eh?

but but status get your money up

 

[sixsixtwo]

Abusive wife divorces cop to live with ex-con - another family law success story:

http://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/2yz6fn/my_sons_life_and_mine_have_been_destroyed_by/

 

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

I'm not sure what you guys stance is on having a few friends that are girls (i personally dont actively do it but have 2ish)

I was considering making a thread about this but I have a couple female friends that I've become very close to. It wasn't something I really planned to happen and I'm surprised it did. One of my better friends is a female I worked with. If we're both single we hang out more but even if we're involved we still talk all the time. It's nothing sexual about it. We find each other to be attractive but we know so much about one another's past and past relationships and we acknowledge that our personalities would clash if we tried it. It's a good thing to have. I have learned a lot from them and they've learned shyt from me. I didn't think it was possible because I have been involved in other friendships where I've caught feelings or she has caught feelings but this is different and I do enjoy it.

 

[TRUEST]

I was considering making a thread about this but I have a couple female friends that I've become very close to. It wasn't something I really planned to happen and I'm surprised it did. One of my better friends is a female I worked with. If we're both single we hang out more but even if we're involved we still talk all the time. It's nothing sexual about it. We find each other to be attractive but we know so much about one another's past and past relationships and we acknowledge that our personalities would clash if we tried it. It's a good thing to have. I have learned a lot from them and they've learned shyt from me. I didn't think it was possible because I have been involved in other friendships where I've caught feelings or she has caught feelings but this is different and I do enjoy it.

its only a matter of time till she gets with someone she really likes who wont tolerate all that guy-friends bs and she'll throw u in the bushes (as she should). then u'll find urself hurt, especially if u happen to be single when it happens. be careful. what i said remains, make sure ur not all that attracted to your female friends.

 

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

its only a matter of time till she gets with someone she really likes who wont tolerate all that guy-friends bs.

I'm attracted to her physically but I don't want to sleep with her. I get how some people can't comprehend how that's possible but to be honest the thought never crosses my mind. It was never there. Like I said, we met at work so in my mind she was never an option. Not just her, I have a couple other close female friends too and it was a similar scenario where it was best not to attempt it.