Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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After reading that Tim Duncan thread, I'm really doubting marriage. How it works, the principle behind it, even the purpose. I've always wondered why it was ok and encouraged for a woman to marry up, in regards to income, social status and even lifestyles. But in the same notion, a man must marry down and be comfortable with it because he's essentially the bread winner and he has to love his wife for what she brings to the table. This same wife who is several notches below the potential husband, can be as picky as they come. Even though she doesn't make as much, she doesn't come from a similar background. All that is thrown out the window because of her "potential" to be a good mother and wife. I'm sorry but none of it makes any sense.

I have said this before and I will say it again, it amazes me from that Tim Duncan thread how the double standard takes place in the news media where it may get coverage but not as much if it is a women who did the cheating. The biggest it has ever been was with that Twilight actress last year but that's only because she isn't very liked already because she is "quiet".

But breh.....you remember that Elizabeth Hurley girl who got cheated on by Hugh Grant(or whatever his name was) in the late 90s with the Black prostitute and it was a big scandal?

Just Google Elizabeth Hurley infidelity/cheating scandal. If you did not hear, a couple years back it took place but her response was some "we moved on already" BS and it was only reported on websites and blogs(I believe this was 2010 but you can check the year when u google)...

It was NEVER reported on TV at ALL(to my knowledge) or with the same vitriol like when it was Hugh Grant. Even worse I don't think I read one comment talking about the double standard. This really is mind boggling.
 

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I have said this before and I will say it again, it amazes me from that Tim Duncan thread how the double standard takes place in the news media where it may get coverage but not as much if it is a women who did the cheating. The biggest it has ever been was with that Twilight actress last year but that's only because she isn't very liked already because she is "quiet".

But breh.....you remember that Elizabeth Hurley girl who got cheated on by Hugh Grant(or whatever his name was) in the late 90s with the Black prostitute and it was a big scandal?

Just Google Elizabeth Hurley infidelity/cheating scandal. If you did not hear, a couple years back it took place but her response was some "we moved on already" BS and it was only reported on websites and blogs(I believe this was 2010 but you can check the year when u google)...

It was NEVER reported on TV at ALL(to my knowledge) or with the same vitriol like when it was Hugh Grant. Even worse I don't think I read one comment talking about the double standard. This really is mind boggling.

They both cheated though

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It's not money or status that is the most important thing in dealing with women. It's your attitude and your behaviors. Now being famous will ATTRACT a lot of women, but they will tear you apart if your attitude isn't right.
 

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its sad, but Im starting to think its almost the mens fault for this. we overlook this girl being boring, attention hungry, and a general emptiness of her character, because we're too busy trying to get their affection for us by any means. men have been told taht you need to get htis and that, in order to get the "prize" of a womans company. so many women are dependant on what we give to them, that men can tend to view our own self worth on what WOMEN think.

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men tend to look at what WE bring to a woman, and rarely the other way around. we're too busy trying to be everything for her to even really look at her benefits. instead of examining her, and seeing what she REALLY brings to the table, we're playing ourselves out for a relationship thats selfish and more slanted to her side from the get go. :whew:

from us thinking we NEED to get our social status up high, getting the expensive car, the clothes right, spending money on her like she deserves it etc just so that we can impress her ... we're only focusing on what we can do for her. if we saw ahead of time that she bores you, you cant find out what it is that she does to make up for what you do for her, she doesnt show effort for the relationsip and does not put energy into you, THEN you can see if shes really about that life or is just fronting so she can ge all she can from you.

This hit home Thank you brotha...
 

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lol@the father is who she decides it to be... and that could include a family member. You see this twisted mentality some of these women have?
 
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I need some advice slash help, yes I'm a girl but you guys seem to know what you're talking about so I guess you could help me out :sadcam:

PM me if you're available.
 
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yes women love attention whether positive or negative, just like on dating sites most women dont really want to meet men they just like opening thier inbox and seeing 100 notes and knowing they still got it, that they are still attractive. It's why they will put on makeup and do thier hair just to go to the grocery store, its why they go clubbing and dress scandalously they love the attention it brings them,.

It's some bullshyt, man. Average/below average chicks with plain jane OKCupid profiles are still getting bombarded with messages from dudes saying shyt like: "your profile is so beautiful, can I take you out for coffee sometime?" Some of these women don't deserve that validation. Some of them don't deserve that type of attention.

Meanwhile, I'm not even eating off OKC like that because I'm not messaging these chicks, not first at least, and the bulk of the girls in my area are the bold on the net, but reserved in person type. shyt is wack.
 
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