Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Carné Asada;4216463 said:
Pretty much. I was never really serious with ol girl and it gave me my space. She was nearly jump off status but she was a good woman. We kept it real with each other from the go. I just couldn't get serious with her.

Same thing I do with single mothers, go over there when it's not her weekend..

Save that daddy daycare bullshyt for somebody else, I ain't the one..
 

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Man with this texting thing....put it like this:Only time you should text a woman is too ARRANGE a date.Having convos is a waste of text message (thats why they have phones).As for me when I get a text from a woman I respond back when I feel like it.If a woman texts you more then she calls...she has communication issues.Yes people arent phone people...but in gettin the number,she is going to have to talk.Conversation is for the date.

i never talk on the phone. in all my relationships, communication that wasnt face to face was through texting
 

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Man with this texting thing....put it like this:Only time you should text a woman is too ARRANGE a date.Having convos is a waste of text message (thats why they have phones).As for me when I get a text from a woman I respond back when I feel like it.If a woman texts you more then she calls...she has communication issues.Yes people arent phone people...but in gettin the number,she is going to have to talk.Conversation is for the date.
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I think I'm going to hang out with that older Puerto Rican woman.

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She kept pressing you or did u have a change of heart?
 

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If you going to be with a woman,you have to communicate what you want.I can see if she gives you a bad convo (one word answers,disinterest) etc... but after 1 call or 1 text if there is no arrangements to chill,your going to be wasting your time.This is how cats get put in friend zone,cause they become too common with a woman.
 

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i never talk on the phone. in all my relationships, communication that wasnt face to face was through texting

I respect that but direct opposite here.Im not sayin long phone convos just something simple.Just cant picture trying to arrange a date with a woman and convo goes like this.

Man:How are you doing today.

Woman:good

Me:How about 8 pm at the restraurant

Her: k


Basically 4 wasted text messages (especially if you have different services :laugh:

A phone conversation

Man:Sup 8 PM we meeting at the restraurant

Her:Sounds good, she starts saying something random trying to draw you into a meaningless convo

Man:Meet you there peace....

Yes this is a short convo but I rather have a short convo,where I know thats her on the other line.You never know who you texting on the other end.
 

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dont be more serious about your relationship than she is. there is the necessity to initiate an introduction and to lead her, but after that, if she isnt following up then toss her. she will never hear or read "just the right words" or suddenly have a change of heart due to you acting nice/taking her places. this goes for constant texting and calling as well. because ultimately its not about that.

youre trying to change the game by swaying her whims and make her switch up her views for a hot second. its her mindframe thats all wrong. you cant take a woman who is playing the field and try to bench her. dont sweat them. dont try to get her to be down with you and think itll happen just because youre always on her and keeping up with her in a one sided back and forth.

if a woman cant keep up with you, then find a woman who can. dont play catch up, dont kiss up and dont act cute/trick with them. always remember this: its not long lasting, and it wont work out in your favor.
 

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Im of the mind that most women secretly want to be put in their place. (seeing if theyre acting out of character and being a bytch.) even the most rowdy and loudest of women like to be checked by a strong man. if the lion is regulating and ready for her shyt, then she will bow down. it doesnt matter what bullshyt she is talking, but if she says or does something that makes you do the :what: then you need to press her immediately and :ufdup:

then let her know youre not about to deal with that from her.

not only does this let her know whos in charge, its important to place very clear boundries in all of your interactions. if people can feel like they can get away with whatever because youll let them, then its halfway your fault for letting them think that youre a mark.
 
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Peep what this young liberated, sex-positive, self-appreciation preaching, self-confidence advocating, equality wanting feminist wrote on a social networking site.

It’d be nice to have someone to talk to who wouldn’t try to lecture me or fukk me. Maybe hold me, kiss me, tell me I matter, treat me like something other than a hole or a child

Statement is a joke in my eyes. Even more so since I know the person who wrote the shyt.
 

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Im of the mind that most women secretly want to be put in their place. (seeing if theyre acting out of character and being a bytch.) even the most rowdy and loudest of women like to be checked by a strong man. if the lion is regulating and ready for her shyt, then she will bow down. it doesnt matter what bullshyt she is talking, but if she says or does something that makes you do the :what: then you need to press her immediately and :ufdup:

then let her know youre not about to deal with that from her.

not only does this let her know whos in charge, its important to place very clear boundries in all of your interactions. if people can feel like they can get away with whatever because youll let them, then its halfway your fault for letting them think that youre a mark.

its not even a matter of secretly. a lot of women will tell you they want a man who can put them in their place. some of these women know how much of a bytch they can be.

i remember this one chick i use to date. we were going out to eat on valentines date. she found a parking spot before i did and she asked me to park in the spot. i couldn't turn in time so i passed the spot. she blew up and started screaming at the top of her lungs. cant even remember wtf it was she was saying. all i remember was i lost my temper. i raised my voice even higher. got out the car, raised it even higher so everyone can hear. then i slammed the door and went in the restaurant to put my name on the waiting list. she wouldn't get out the car cause now she's embarrassed lol.

when i got back in the car. i'm still heated. so i give her another earful. raising my voice high as fucck. she got fed up, turned towards me and said "will u just shut the fucck up already". at this point, i lost it. grabbed her face, looked her in dead in the eyes and said "you shut the fucck up". she immediately starts crying.

the moral of the story is. that night when we fuccked she "came" so much she started crying...something that never happened prior to that point. said some sh1t about how when i had screamed at her earlier she saw the "devil" in my eyes lol. which kinda explained how quickly she got reduced to tears the instant i grabbed her face

a lot of cats are too scared to raise their voice on chicks they dig. back then, i had a bad temper. i still do. but now i'm more laid back. back then, if u look at me the wrong way alone i'd choke u lol
 

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its not even a matter of secretly. a lot of women will tell you they want a man who can put them in their place. some of these women know how much of a bytch they can be.

i remember this one chick i use to date. we were going out to eat on valentines date. she found a parking spot before i did and she asked me to park in the spot. i couldn't turn in time so i passed the spot. she blew up and started screaming at the top of her lungs. cant even remember wtf it was she was saying. all i remember was i lost my temper. i raised my voice even higher. got out the car, raised it even higher so everyone can hear. then i slammed the door and went in the restaurant to put my name on the waiting list. she wouldn't get out the car cause now she's embarrassed lol.

when i got back in the car. i'm still heated. so i give her another earful. raising my voice high as fucck. she got fed up, turned towards me and said "will u just shut the fucck up already". at this point, i lost it. grabbed her face, looked her in dead in the eyes and said "you shut the fucck up". she immediately starts crying.

the moral of the story is. that night when we fuccked she "came" so much she started crying...something that never happened prior to that point. said some sh1t about how when i had screamed at her earlier she saw the "devil" in my eyes lol. which kinda explained how quickly she got reduced to tears the instant i grabbed her face

a lot of cats are too scared to raise their voice on chicks they dig. back then, i had a bad temper. i still do. but now i'm more laid back. back then, if u look at me the wrong way along i'd choke u lol

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