Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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demise :russ: I will whole heartedly admit sex is important to me. I can cook, clean, and I never want to have kids of my own so other than sex what would I need a wifey for? companionship? I can get a dog. But thanks, i'll try to do my best :cheers:

women use sex to get what they want, alot of men marry these freaks who are sucking and screwing em in every which way, then they get married and now the woman has what she wants and no more sex
 

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^ofcourse the one with less dikks but im not having kids so thats not applying to me :win:. And ideally my girl would have had a couple of long term boyfriends shes been intimate with but not been on the dikk carousel. Not the extremes but something inbetween. Sure that comes with its own issues but when I read that post about virgins those are a few of the questions that I thought about.

And yes a lot of these men are marrying these women that suck and screw them dry. Thats why I will never get married. Me and my girl can have a cool ceremony if it means a lot to her but I would never turn in that marriage cert. and I live in Northern VA with no common law marriage here so im good on that.
 

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^ofcourse the one with less dikks but im not having kids so thats not applying to me :win:. And ideally my girl would have had a couple of long term boyfriends shes been intimate with but not been on the dikk carousel. Not the extremes but something inbetween. Sure that comes with its own issues but when I read that post about virgins those are a few of the questions that I thought about.

And yes a lot of these men are marrying these women that suck and screw them dry. Thats why I will never get married. Me and my girl can have a cool ceremony if it means a lot to her but I would never turn in that marriage cert. and I live in Northern VA with no common law marriage here so im good on that.

your smart marriage in north america is a scam. I already have my rules in place if i were to ever get married.


1. Virgin preferably but i'd sacrifice for a girl that lost her virginity but would wait till marriage since im not a virgin myself
2. Christian
3. Has a career
4. Two Parent christian middle - upper class household
5. Slim
6. Able to have children
7. signs a prenup
8. between 25-28
9. submissive.
10. semi attractive


if these 10 rules are not met I won't marry
 

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The law on prenups is so shakey that it is too risky for me.
And I knew this "virgin" who did everything including anal with her boyfriend but waited until marriage for vaginal sex :why:
Maybe thats why the title virgin doesnt hold so much weight with me anymore. Especially with these new hymen reattachment surgeries :snoop:
 

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The law on prenups is so shakey that it is too risky for me.
And I knew this "virgin" who did everything including anal with her boyfriend but waited until marriage for sex :why:
Maybe thats why the title virgin doesnt hold so much weight with me anymore. Especially with these new hymen reattachment surgeries :snoop:

a solid proof prenup is binding in canada not sure about the usa laws.

and damn cant trust anyone

i was actually reading a
article the other day about in syria women paying up to like 5,000 to get their hymen reatttached because no man will marry them if they are not a virgni.
 

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Prenups in the US can be thrown out if a judge deems them to be unfair. There was a case where the judge was sleeping with the wife of a case and he asked her what his punishment and payments should be :damn:
http://dailycaller.com/2012/12/08/married-detroit-judge-allegedly-slept-with-child-support-plaintiff-let-her-pick-ex-husbands-sentence-video/
Just imagine you invest in that fine "virgin", pop her cherry on wedding night and then one day years down the line she leaves that email open :to: that ether
 

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Part 5 of the mind of reincar

LISTEN


Yes listen, listen to the advice men give you, liten to the advice you read on the web, or hear from men. Don't be that man who thinks my girl aint like that she would never do that, or damn these dudes are bitter, just old farts.


I've been there dealing with breezies and dudes would tell me advice and id be like man you dont know her like I do, I wish I was young again with the mind I have now to soak in this knowledge.


I remember being engaged and brehs would tell me your to young, pointing me to stats about the high divorce rates of folks who marry young and id be like:childplease:

just being a naive breh, living that disney fantasy of "love", i wish i had this thread, i wish i paid attention to old brehs who were telling me stuff. I remember being dumped as a young in and then buying a card and writing a poem and inserting pictures of me and this chick thinking that was the way id get her back etc. :snoop:

LISTEN BREHS!! your situation is not unique, its not special
 

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Prenups in the US can be thrown out if a judge deems them to be unfair. There was a case where the judge was sleeping with the wife of a case and he asked her what his punishment and payments should be :damn:

Just imagine you invest in that fine "virgin", pop her cherry on wedding night and then one day years down the line she leaves that email open :to: that ether

:getmarriedbrehs:
 

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As for a woman who is a virgin if you find her KEEP her.Yes there are a few women who arent promiscious.However wifing them up is very slim.To be honest there is nothing wrong with being a virgin in this day and age.So many diseases and risk of pregnancy out there.Your literally playng russian roulette.We all are tempted.I say this numerous times.I rather be with a woman who was with a man 10 times then to be with a woman who was with 10 different men.
 

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What cats ain't realizing is that there are strains of stds that are now highly resistant to antibiotics now. If you catch it, you might just have that disease for a while... imagine peeing razorblades for the next year. You better be very careful with what you're doing out there.
 

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Something I've learned is that monogamous woman are always monogamous. It's in their nature, and anything other than that takes them out of their comfort zone.

Meaning that they date one guy at a time. If a woman shows that she is capable of dealing with numerous men at one time, then the likelihood of her cheating exponentially increases.

A woman who is looking for commitment, will not have a roster. She dates one guy at a time, and if she loses interest she will move on and cut all ties. Women who keep rosters are usually looking for different men to provide different things (entertainment, sex, rides, etc.)

Pay attention... women show you who they are. You just have to know the flags.

Really like this advice/post, theres always exceptions, but running in my head women I know right now, I'm like, wow.

However, what about us? If you talk to three women or so at a time, not in relationship with anyone, are you not looking for commitment? Not worthy of trust? I feel like I 100% am, maybe depends on motives. I'm talking to a few girls, nothing serious, but I really only like one, the rest are just distractions.
 

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God damn i got a problem brehs i miss my ex :sadbron:
Ive had like a grip of other girlfriends and such i dont give a rats ass about anymore but this girl
we was so sprung off each other i was her first for everything :lolbron:
but I was such a dumbass.. took her for granted.


we were never official so i was always fukking around, talking to other bytches for the thrill
but she knew she my ride or die like no other bytch would top her..
but my ass went too far and we just started drifting apart. :snoop:
I aint even know it cuz i was tallking to a new girl, time flew by, didnt talk with this ex for like 2 months

next thing i know another dude comes along and starts talking to my girl
the weird thing is she ended the "talking" stage with taht dude saying how shyts not gonna work out and that she still had feelings for me
BUT MY DUMBASS ignores this shyt cuz i was infatuated with my new bytch.
the kicker is.... she gets back with the dude she ended it with...
and 1 and 1/2 year later they STILL going out WTF :why::mindblown::to:

her birthdays coming up i dunno what i should do brehs
not even acknowledge it or what?
 

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God damn i got a problem brehs i miss my ex :sadbron:
Ive had like a grip of other girlfriends and such i dont give a rats ass about anymore but this girl
we was so sprung off each other i was her first for everything :lolbron:
but I was such a dumbass.. took her for granted.


we were never official so i was always fukking around, talking to other bytches for the thrill
but she knew she my ride or die like no other bytch would top her..
but my ass went too far and we just started drifting apart. :snoop:
I aint even know it cuz i was tallking to a new girl, time flew by, didnt talk with this ex for like 2 months

next thing i know another dude comes along and starts talking to my girl
the weird thing is she ended the "talking" stage with taht dude saying how shyts not gonna work out and that she still had feelings for me
BUT MY DUMBASS ignores this shyt cuz i was infatuated with my new bytch.
the kicker is.... she gets back with the dude she ended it with...
and 1 and 1/2 year later they STILL going out WTF :why::mindblown::to:

her birthdays coming up i dunno what i should do brehs
not even acknowledge it or what?

Why go back breh?
The best thing you can do is no contact, and wait it out.

Time heals, you learned your lesson now to not take a good chick for granted.

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Really like this advice/post, theres always exceptions, but running in my head women I know right now, I'm like, wow.

However, what about us? If you talk to three women or so at a time, not in relationship with anyone, are you not looking for commitment? Not worthy of trust? I feel like I 100% am, maybe depends on motives. I'm talking to a few girls, nothing serious, but I really only like one, the rest are just distractions.

Don't go out there looking for a woman to commit to. What this does is put you in a state of mind where you have to find a woman and settle down. Men who think like this are prone to getting committed to a woman too early, definitely before they get to know her, and end up in relationships that are not satisfying.

Enjoy life and meet women. You'll come across some that you like and some that you don't like. I personally believe that the more dating experience you have as a man, the better you will be when it comes to selecting who you're going to have a serious relationship. If you've only had Vanilla, and never had Chocolate, how would you know which one was better? You may like chocolate more and not even know because you settled on Vanilla too quick. You have to experiment and explore.

And also stop worrying about what a woman thinks about you. As long as you respect yourself and you are okay with how you're living, then this is all that matters. If you choose to date a couple of women at the same time, as long as you're okay with it, then do it. I only advise you to be honest and to not lead a woman on. Don't tell a woman you're looking for a committed relationship and then have a roster.

I personally will hang out with different women, but when I actually start dating, I focus on that one woman. I don't have the energy to juggle 4-5 women and lie to them. Now don't confuse that with my world revolving around her. I will have many other things going on, but those other things won't be another woman.

There's no difference between a man who spends 100% of his time with 1 woman and a man who spends 100% of this time with 10 different women. His life still revolves around women.

Have things outside of women.. hobbies, career, travel, friends, etc.

You'll be thankful you followed this advice.
 
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