Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
- Thread starter Rominati
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If you are really confident, drinks at a trendy/boutique hotel, get a room before. Don't say anything until you two are ready to go.
Just be prepared to hit the bar again if she decides she isn't down lol
Just be prepared to hit the bar again if she decides she isn't down lol
1. Don't talk yourself out of it. Shut the fukk up if you don't got game like that.
2. Hotel room / Airbnb
RaspberryFitted
Boyz In Motion Member
thoughts on unmatching after getting number?
done it a few times, as there no need to keep you on in the feed.
I understand the threat of fake profiles, scammers, and sketchy people, but I’ve never had someone who already has my number and profile complain I unmatched.
done it a few times, as there no need to keep you on in the feed.
A match texted my #. Conversation is cool but also want to exchange IGs. Did so.. felt since I already had two ways to contact I’d unmatch.
She asks why I did it. Told her the above — her page said “Instagram User” and my reply hasn’t been delivered
She asks why I did it. Told her the above — her page said “Instagram User” and my reply hasn’t been delivered
I understand the threat of fake profiles, scammers, and sketchy people, but I’ve never had someone who already has my number and profile complain I unmatched.
thoughts on unmatching after getting number?
done it a few times, as there no need to keep you on in the feed.
A match texted my #. Conversation is cool but also want to exchange IGs. Did so.. felt since I already had two ways to contact I’d unmatch.
She asks why I did it. Told her the above — her page said “Instagram User” and my reply hasn’t been delivered
I understand the threat of fake profiles, scammers, and sketchy people, but I’ve never had someone who already has my number and profile complain I unmatched.
That’s normal.
thoughts on unmatching after getting number?
done it a few times, as there no need to keep you on in the feed.
A match texted my #. Conversation is cool but also want to exchange IGs. Did so.. felt since I already had two ways to contact I’d unmatch.
She asks why I did it. Told her the above — her page said “Instagram User” and my reply hasn’t been delivered
I understand the threat of fake profiles, scammers, and sketchy people, but I’ve never had someone who already has my number and profile complain I unmatched.
you dodged a weirdo, keep it moving lol
Armchair Militant
Stay woke
Ok I think I fumbled. But I’m not sure I ever really had possession. Game ain’t over yet, but it’s looking bad 
Ok I think I fumbled. But I’m not sure I ever really had possession. Game ain’t over yet, but it’s looking bad
I told you not to talk. What happened?
It'll pass. Just give it some time.
You think she in her group chats rn saying "idc anymore i just want him back". Hell naw.
Just took a chick to the mall and we chillin when she decides to got to Spencer’s to look at the sex toys. Mind you this the second time we hung out. Later on I promised to buy her that rose toy in exchange for some vids of it in action.
Did I do this right bruhs or did I somehow fumble?Let me know
What you should have done was told her you're buying it and y'all are going back to yours/hers and you're gonna use it on her.
The buying it for her part is a lil debatable, some brehs will say that alone is a L but it would've got you in them guts within hours.
VertigoKnight
Veteran
If a chick has a dog easier way into her pants is to say dogs love you. Or if you're on a date, and she has to go say you can come back and help her walk it. If the dog likes you even better.
Animals are good judges of character.
Now I don't fukk with women who have pits or any of them savage ass dogs, as most times chick's with those dogs are off key.
Animals are good judges of character.
Now I don't fukk with women who have pits or any of them savage ass dogs, as most times chick's with those dogs are off key.
VertigoKnight
Veteran
I'm clear from the start, she has to know this is fun and I'm going to be open, upfront and respectful.
I think the respectful part is key, a woman wants sex, but they don't want to be treated like shyt or a whore. A lot of guys gets that part wrong and mess up a potentially good thing.
A woman coming into our thing with the mindset that we're not serious but I'm not going to screw her over is a hell of lot less guarded and more open to that arrangement.
VertigoKnight
Veteran
Yep. I got an Indian chick I have this arrangement with, met for a drink for our first hang and made out in the bar, wasn't sure if we'd hang again but she messages the next day and said she really loved meeting me.
A week later we set it up and I went to her place. Been hooking up for almost 10 months now, usually twice a month. She has a very busy job in publishing but also likes to just unwind with some good sex.
I'm gonna say if you don't have one invest in a 'massager' I have one and bringing these chick's off with a mix of my dikk, fingers and this is deadly. I gave this woman multiple orgasms over a two hour session. Best believe she was calling me back for more.
Saw her last Friday at her new place and she messaged the next day saying she woke up wanting more. She told me if I have any free time to come fukk her again over the christmas break.
Armchair Militant
Stay woke
For context, she was on a sexual vibe from the very first message. I played along, but I told her I wanted to get to know her. So we agreed to get drinks this Friday.
So we kept messaging on the app yesterday. Mostly about normal stuff. As it got later in the day, she started making more sexual jokes/comments. I played along, and she sent me her number.
She ended up sending me a vid of her twerking in lingerie. I complimented her. Then she asked me what I was doing tonight.
I told her I was chilling, and she said she was doing the same. I said I’m down to meet, but I don’t live on my own. She said she doesn’t either. I told her I could get a room for the night if she was down. She asked if I was serious. I said “yeah, I was already considering it”.
She asked me when I started considering it. I’m like
. I said when I was picking a place to get drinks at. She asked me if I usually look for a hotel for dates.Once again, I’m like
I’ve never been on a date but I didn’t tell her that.
I told her “Honestly no. I mean, I think about it but you were really bold lol”
She asked me if bold turns me on. I said yeah.
Then she said “It takes more than a drink to land me in bed babe. I don’t do casual sex, like to have some sort of connection.”
I told her I was confused. She explained that she needed to connect with the person on a date first. I was like “why did you ask me what I was doing tonight?” She said it was an innocent question. I told her she was toying with me.
She asked if I wanted her to slow down on the sexual comments/jokes. I said no. We kept texting. She ended up sending me a vid of her fukking herself with a dildo.
She said she’s usually not so sexual on the apps, but she decided to just be herself with me. We’re still going on the date.
#HowFor context, she was on a sexual vibe from the very first message. I played along, but I told her I wanted to get to know her. So we agreed to get drinks this Friday.
So we kept messaging on the app yesterday. Mostly about normal stuff. As it got later in the day, she started making more sexual jokes/comments. I played along, and she sent me her number.
She ended up sending me a vid of her twerking in lingerie. I complimented her. Then she asked me what I was doing tonight.
I told her I was chilling, and she said she was doing the same. I said I’m down to meet, but I don’t live on my own. She said she doesn’t either. I told her I could get a room for the night if she was down. She asked if I was serious. I said “yeah, I was already considering it”.
She asked me when I started considering it. I’m like
Once again, I’m like
I’ve never been on a date but I didn’t tell her that.
I told her “Honestly no. I mean, I think about it but you were really bold lol”
She asked me if bold turns me on. I said yeah.
Then she said “It takes more than a drink to land me in bed babe. I don’t do casual sex, like to have some sort of connection.”
I told her I was confused. She explained that she needed to connect with the person on a date first. I was like “why did you ask me what I was doing tonight?” She said it was an innocent question. I told her she was toying with me.
She asked if I wanted her to slow down on the sexual comments/jokes. I said no. We kept texting. She ended up sending me a vid of her fukking herself with a dildo.
She said she’s usually not so sexual on the apps, but she decided to just be herself with me. We’re still going on the date.