Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

Ohene

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this brings me to another important question though.

how do yall go about getting at women you only wanna fukk, in a way that ensures they wont try to put you in the husband/boyfriend zone?

sometimes I be fukkin anyway...but i feel like I have left money on the table
 

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this brings me to another important question though.

how do yall go about getting at women you only wanna fukk, in a way that ensures they wont try to put you in the husband/boyfriend zone?

sometimes I be fukkin anyway...but i feel like I have left money on the table

If the chick is with the physical affection, she always has the option to engage in the non-physical. Maybe even part of her biology wants to lock down a cat who can give her a good session.

So a man can't really do much to change how she reacts.

He has to change how he acts/reacts when she does the predictable.

Which typically means, a man has to be able to go into a situation totally okay with the idea that the chick is gonna ball her eyes out cause he's not messing with her no more.
 

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this brings me to another important question though.

how do yall go about getting at women you only wanna fukk, in a way that ensures they wont try to put you in the husband/boyfriend zone?

sometimes I be fukkin anyway...but i feel like I have left money on the table
usage of innuendos & letting my physical appearance do most of the heavy lifting.

As far as “to ensure they won’t try to put you in the husband/boyfriend zone” like @WIA20XX said, you can’t do much to change her mind but to better your odds, keeping the conversation light hearted without any serious topics or tone shifts (politics, race relations, state of the world, etc)
 
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Just took a chick to the mall and we chillin when she decides to got to Spencer’s to look at the sex toys. Mind you this the second time we hung out. Later on I promised to buy her that rose toy in exchange for some vids of it in action.

Did I do this right bruhs or did I somehow fumble? :francis: Let me know
 

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Just took a chick to the mall and we chillin when she decides to got to Spencer’s to look at the sex toys. Mind you this the second time we hung out. Later on I promised to buy her that rose toy in exchange for some vids of it in action.

Did I do this right bruhs or did I somehow fumble? :francis: Let me know
why did you offer to do that?

In exchange for videos? Since y’all in person.. couldn’t you of seen it after y’all 2nd date?
 

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Just took a chick to the mall and we chillin when she decides to got to Spencer’s to look at the sex toys. Mind you this the second time we hung out. Later on I promised to buy her that rose toy in exchange for some vids of it in action.

Did I do this right bruhs or did I somehow fumble? :francis: Let me know

If you messaging us and not fukking her right now you fumbled. :heh::heh::heh:
 

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Just took a chick to the mall and we chillin when she decides to got to Spencer’s to look at the sex toys. Mind you this the second time we hung out. Later on I promised to buy her that rose toy in exchange for some vids of it in action.

Did I do this right bruhs or did I somehow fumble? :francis: Let me know

:heh::heh: you could have bought a toy and fukked her in the changing room at the mall. Yall nikkas crazy man.
 

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this brings me to another important question though.

how do yall go about getting at women you only wanna fukk, in a way that ensures they wont try to put you in the husband/boyfriend zone?

sometimes I be fukkin anyway...but i feel like I have left money on the table

I'm someone who blurs the lines for sure. Friends, lovers, dates, neighbors, it's all the same to me.

When people say "no feelings", for a one night/dating app meet up, sure - if it's a regular thing - that's usually all bullshyt. You are developing feelings each time you get together.

i'll pick out lingerie and give it to them and just be direct about it. I'm confident enough, but doing that in person takes some heart, esp when it's a certain type of woman, who doesn't speak like the 'Sex The City' Language. One friend told me, I'd have to rethink my entire view of how I see the world, but I'll think about it. I was like that's a no. She kept the lingerie lol - but we are still cool. I doubt she's had sex in years.
 

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Just took a chick to the mall and we chillin when she decides to got to Spencer’s to look at the sex toys. Mind you this the second time we hung out. Later on I promised to buy her that rose toy in exchange for some vids of it in action.

Did I do this right bruhs or did I somehow fumble? :francis: Let me know
Fumbled? No because you likely didn’t have a chance.

Subsidized her OF content? Likely
 

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this brings me to another important question though.

how do yall go about getting at women you only wanna fukk, in a way that ensures they wont try to put you in the husband/boyfriend zone?

sometimes I be fukkin anyway...but i feel like I have left money on the table
No dates. Home visits only and straight to business.
 

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Just took a chick to the mall and we chillin when she decides to got to Spencer’s to look at the sex toys. Mind you this the second time we hung out. Later on I promised to buy her that rose toy in exchange for some vids of it in action.

Did I do this right bruhs or did I somehow fumble? :francis: Let me know
This is how I know I'm :flabbynsick:
Everything was fine until the video part. Why would you say that?
:snoop:
I would have said I'll buy it, then we go try it out together, make sure it works etc etc
Easy lay up. Women don't take some random they not feeling to look at sex toys.
 

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This is how I know I'm :flabbynsick:
Everything was fine until the video part. Why would you say that?
:snoop:
I would have said I'll buy it, then we go try it out together, make sure it works etc etc
Easy lay up. Women don't take some random they not feeling to look at sex toys.
Yea my mind would never go to the video part

New generation got they priorities fukked up
 

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this brings me to another important question though.

how do yall go about getting at women you only wanna fukk, in a way that ensures they wont try to put you in the husband/boyfriend zone?

sometimes I be fukkin anyway...but i feel like I have left money on the table



This right here lol.
 
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