Women love men that don't like them or that play hard to get and is unavailable.
Then cry and cuss that man out when he finally ghosts. Knowing what the setup was from the beginning.
Men are 'emotionally unavailable' to women they not feeling like that. As they know where that leads.
I admit I use to do this shyt. You smashing a broad, the sex is good from both sides and she slowly catches feelings. Instead of telling her what we both know is the deal we keep the facade up. She hangs on for a while longer, then reality finally hits her and she switches up on you and starts to pull back herself.
These days I don't want to the stress so make it very clear. I'm interested in hanging out, us doing the do and getting to know one another. But don't start planning out any relationship stuff. I'm still going to respect you, not lie or BS you and be 100% open and I expect the same from them.
Not for you? Cool take care. You into it? Well these are the days I'm available.
Surprisingly a vast majority of chick's I say that too are ok with that up to a point. Others play along to a point then drop off, but they can never say I didn't make it clear what we were doing.
It's cut down on the 'what are we?' convos.