I'm in couples therapy. I used Toppik on my hairline and I forgot some in the tub so my gf sent me a picture of it. I ignored the text. She brought it up in therapy and I said I could have acknowledged it and said my bad but I just assume not everyone is clean and I clean up after her and it's not a big deal for me. She said she doesn't want to be a maid for another grown person, and the therapist, a black women tried to save her with that but she couldn't explain why that made her feel like a maid besides she does not like doing it. I said well in life we often do things we don't want, I don't want to go to Carbone or spend mad money on a ring but I accept that as part of a role. Therapist couldn't grasp it and said it's a cultural thing, gender value thing and how we view her relationship as she can call her grandmother whos been married 60 years and she will probably say she had to pick up her grandfather's sock off the floor but its not a big deal.
female therapist for couples therapy....its over