Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

Apollo Creed

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I'm in couples therapy. I used Toppik on my hairline and I forgot some in the tub so my gf sent me a picture of it. I ignored the text. She brought it up in therapy and I said I could have acknowledged it and said my bad but I just assume not everyone is clean and I clean up after her and it's not a big deal for me. She said she doesn't want to be a maid for another grown person, and the therapist, a black women tried to save her with that but she couldn't explain why that made her feel like a maid besides she does not like doing it. I said well in life we often do things we don't want, I don't want to go to Carbone or spend mad money on a ring but I accept that as part of a role. Therapist couldn't grasp it and said it's a cultural thing, gender value thing and how we view her relationship as she can call her grandmother whos been married 60 years and she will probably say she had to pick up her grandfather's sock off the floor but its not a big deal.

female therapist for couples therapy....its over
 

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What’s the word lads. Any successes lately?
got two chicks i'm messing with who are pretty sensible by woman's standards. they are down to earth and pretty easy going.
no coincidence that neither of them grew up in/near Toronto.

one's from the bahamas and another from zimbabwe.

both very attractive, smashed the latter. almost smashed the former but she was giving me head and then stopped on some "its too early shyt" which knocked her down a bit in my books.

for what it is worth I am mostly just going with the flow for both. Not pressuring them into making plans or nothing, not hitting them up too frequently unless they hit me up. and in the background I am still baggin / going out with chicks here and there when I feel like it - tryna supplement the rotation
 

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got two chicks i'm messing with who are pretty sensible by woman's standards. they are down to earth and pretty easy going.
no coincidence that neither of them grew up in/near Toronto.

one's from the bahamas and another from zimbabwe.

both very attractive, smashed the latter. almost smashed the former but she was giving me head and then stopped on some "its too early shyt" which knocked her down a bit in my books.

for what it is worth I am mostly just going with the flow for both. Not pressuring them into making plans or nothing, not hitting them up too frequently unless they hit me up. and in the background I am still baggin / going out with chicks here and there when I feel like it - tryna supplement the rotation
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Is it me or are online girls even flakier today than ever before. The amount of flaky behavior I have experienced recently is off the charts. I got the classic "I forgot my brother was going to come into town" excuse again lol.
Women got 100+ matches & full inboxes. The risk of her flaking for a new match are very high.

That's why I recommend to move things quick & get her engaged. Get on a video call/FT with her & spit game, instead of texting lol. Her inbox is full of dudes texting her.

Also keep your options open, keep your rotation of women until exclusivity has been discussed.
 
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