Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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How would a bro integrate this advice into his life in a PRACTICAL fashion?

This was in the "Don't take women to these places" post..

A chick will literally meet you anywhere if she’s actually interested in or attracted to you.

Cause to me, having been in the game for years, this is 1% good advice but 99% bad advice for most guys that are looking for advice.

This is the equivalent of telling a girl to "Just be hot".
 

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How would a bro integrate this advice into his life in a PRACTICAL fashion?

This was in the "Don't take women to these places" post..



Cause to me, having been in the game for years, this is 1% good advice but 99% bad advice for most guys that are looking for advice.

This is the equivalent of telling a girl to "Just be hot".

if a bytch refuses to go somewhere on a date why would you even waste your time with her? she isn't into you.
 

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How would a bro integrate this advice into his life in a PRACTICAL fashion?

This was in the "Don't take women to these places" post..



Cause to me, having been in the game for years, this is 1% good advice but 99% bad advice for most guys that are looking for advice.

This is the equivalent of telling a girl to "Just be hot".
It’s an oversimplification and but of not being true to what the end goal is in some cases. If you don’t really want to date them, don’t give them space to think you do.

Of course if they are being very picky on the initial meeting spot then it’s not a good sign. I met my girl for coffee twice and then lunch at a reasonable restaurant. She didn’t protest at all.
 

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A lot of these young hoes are anti social
I don’t think these bytches know how to communicate
This is facts, the social media/phone addicted generation is universal now. Too much screen time used to probably be mainly a boy thing with video games/computers but this next crop seem to be showing same issues across the board and only getting worse.. These girls get alot of passes just because but I see it too much now..
 

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This is facts, the social media/phone addicted generation is universal now. Too much screen time used to probably be mainly a boy thing with video games/computers but this next crop seem to be showing same issues across the board and only getting worse.. These girls get alot of passes just because but I see it too much now..
Both men and women
Women under 24 are done done
Made the mistake of going out on sat night
People going out and don’t even socialize

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It’s an oversimplification and but of not being true to what the end goal is in some cases. If you don’t really want to date them, don’t give them space to think you do.

Of course if they are being very picky on the initial meeting spot then it’s not a good sign. I met my girl for coffee twice and then lunch at a reasonable restaurant. She didn’t protest at all.

The key phrase in my post, my brother in Jah, is

"A chick will literally meet you anywhere if she’s actually interested in or attracted to you."

What the pretty boys and pretty girls don't want to acknowledge is that something OTHER than INSTANT love/lust can happen on a date.

A chick that was a 5 face some nice titties/phat ass can be come an 8 when you have a meal with them.
A dude that wasn't all that, but she bored so goes on the date anyway, can become the love of her life, during that dinner.

And it's not even like person on the other side did something intentional - sometimes the chemistry develops that can't be predicted or planned for. It ain't the 6 figs, or how the Lululemon is straining to hold back them thighs -

This new generation's social media/internet/instant gratification/have it your way mentality REFUSES to see what actually happens in the real world, all the time, every damn day.

Even the ones online hollering the most about being a divestor or becoming a passport bros - fail to account for the times that this has happened to them. Where they gave something a chance that didn't meet their arbitrary cut off and it worked.

There's a lot of this "instant" knowledge bs out there.

A chick knows in the first 5 nanoseconds... - that's the biggest crock of BS, along with women's intuition.

I could go on, but I step back sometimes and I wonder how much of people's minds is within their own skulls, and how much they've outsourced to the hive.
 

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How would a bro integrate this advice into his life in a PRACTICAL fashion?

This was in the "Don't take women to these places" post..



Cause to me, having been in the game for years, this is 1% good advice but 99% bad advice for most guys that are looking for advice.

This is the equivalent of telling a girl to "Just be hot".
Think it depends on who these people dating, most of these online stuff that be blowing up is 40+ year old women tryna make demands.. The if she really into you she gon vibe regardless is most likely better for dating younger. Some of them girls dont even want to slide to places I pull up to because "its too fancy, im just tryna chill with you" :steviej:But that software kick in probably mid 20s, so they can flaunt on IG mostly. I get it with the list is just they dont want to go to chain place they been goin to since they was jits. They wanna step into "your world", be on some other shyt. You can do that and it not be expensive, they looking for aesthetics..
 

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The key phrase in my post, my brother in Jah, is

"A chick will literally meet you anywhere if she’s actually interested in or attracted to you."

What the pretty boys and pretty girls don't want to acknowledge is that something OTHER than INSTANT love/lust can happen on a date.

A chick that was a 5 face some nice titties/phat ass can be come an 8 when you have a meal with them.
A dude that wasn't all that, but she bored so goes on the date anyway, can become the love of her life, during that dinner.

And it's not even like person on the other side did something intentional - sometimes the chemistry develops that can't be predicted or planned for. It ain't the 6 figs, or how the Lululemon is straining to hold back them thighs -

This new generation's social media/internet/instant gratification/have it your way mentality REFUSES to see what actually happens in the real world, all the time, every damn day.

Even the ones online hollering the most about being a divestor or becoming a passport bros - fail to account for the times that this has happened to them. Where they gave something a chance that didn't meet their arbitrary cut off and it worked.

There's a lot of this "instant" knowledge bs out there.

A chick knows in the first 5 nanoseconds... - that's the biggest crock of BS, along with women's intuition.

I could go on, but I step back sometimes and I wonder how much of people's minds is within their own skulls, and how much they've outsourced to the hive.
But in some of these cases, how interested can she be if y’all have never met? That’s where it can be oversimplified.

It’s not about your statement, more the way some will apply it.
 
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