It’s an oversimplification and but of not being true to what the end goal is in some cases. If you don’t really want to date them, don’t give them space to think you do.
Of course if they are being very picky on the initial meeting spot then it’s not a good sign. I met my girl for coffee twice and then lunch at a reasonable restaurant. She didn’t protest at all.
The key phrase in my post, my brother in Jah, is
"A chick will literally meet you anywhere if she’s actually interested in or attracted to you."
What the pretty boys and pretty girls don't want to acknowledge is that
something OTHER than INSTANT love/lust can happen on a date.
A chick that was a 5 face some nice titties/phat ass can be come an 8 when you have a meal with them.
A dude that wasn't all that, but she bored so goes on the date anyway, can become the love of her life, during that dinner.
And it's not even like person on the other side did something intentional - sometimes the chemistry develops that can't be predicted or planned for. It ain't the 6 figs, or how the Lululemon is straining to hold back them thighs -
This new generation's social media/internet/instant gratification/have it your way mentality REFUSES to see what actually happens in the real world, all the time, every damn day.
Even the ones online hollering the most about being a divestor or becoming a passport bros - fail to account for the times that this has happened to them. Where they gave something a chance that didn't meet their arbitrary cut off and it worked.
There's a lot of this "instant" knowledge bs out there.
A chick knows in the first 5 nanoseconds... - that's the biggest crock of BS, along with women's intuition.
I could go on, but I step back sometimes and I wonder how much of people's minds is within their own skulls, and how much they've outsourced to the hive.