Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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how do you balance it out when you in your early 20s and got opportunities lined up (job offer in corporate right after graduation, close to graduation, strong professional connections)

on one hand I’m young and need to enjoy life/be okay with making mistakes, but on the other hand I have a lot of ventures that I can’t risk losing that’ll advance my future.
I'll keep it real in my 20s I wasn't on dating apps I dated via social circles and at max got at some chicks via Twitter and Facebook lol. Dating apps always felt like it should be for older professionals who moved to new cities away from their normal circle.
 

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I'll keep it real in my 20s I wasn't on dating apps I dated via social circles and at max got at some chicks via Twitter and Facebook lol. Dating apps always felt like it should be for older professionals who moved to new cities away from their normal circle.
I agree to an extent. College aged students are in a unique setting of semi-independence mixed with being surrounded by their peers. They should take advantage of that.

With that said, apps have been integrated into our age group and is another tool students use for dating…. shyt is weird but damn near everything my generation does socially is weird.

but meeting a woman through an organization/throughout campus will always reign supreme.
 

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I agree to an extent. College aged students are in a unique setting of semi-independence mixed with being surrounded by their peers. They should take advantage of that.

With that said, apps have been integrated into our age group and is another tool students use for dating…. shyt is weird but damn near everything my generation does socially is weird.

but meeting a woman through an organization/throughout campus will always reign supreme.
.yeah it's generational.

If you lived on campus it didn't make sense to be on a dating app as parties, orgs, on campus events placed you in proximity of chicks and then Facebook (in my day) helped out with networking on road trips (look at your friends at other schools friends list or tagged pics and then add the good looking chicks and then link when you road trip)
 

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.yeah it's generational.

If you lived on campus it didn't make sense to be on a dating app as parties, orgs, on campus events placed you in proximity of chicks and then Facebook (in my day) helped out with networking on road trips (look at your friends at other schools friends list or tagged pics and then add the good looking chicks and then link when you road trip)
most definitely. Had an older cat tell me how his boys would be packed into a car going to different universities and turning up… that’s replaced by adjusting your radius on these apps to 50 miles.

I am unfortunately affected by the change in socialization but know it’s not natural :manny:
 

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Always love to see these posts on Reddit.

Female (presumably white) loses a bunch of weight and 50x's her romantic options



Its why I gotta :francis: when I see females applauding their fat friends telling them they look good. Meanwhile said friend makes sure they keep their ass in the gym staying in shape.

I don't know whether women do that shyt through solidarity or malice?

:russ:
 

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Always love to see these posts on Reddit.

Female (presumably white) loses a bunch of weight and 50x's her romantic options


why do women get cheered on before, during and after losing weight but dudes still gotta get bullied or harassed into losing weight? :francis:
 

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Its why I gotta :francis: when I see females applauding their fat friends telling them they look good. Meanwhile said friend makes sure they keep their ass in the gym staying in shape.

I don't know whether women do that shyt through solidarity or malice?

:russ:

A fat friend means no competition, these females ain't slick. :mjlol:

I've seen this countless times. When said fat friend makes any attempt to improve herself, the fit one either tries to discourage it or the 'friendship' falls apart.
 

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Its why I gotta :francis: when I see females applauding their fat friends telling them they look good. Meanwhile said friend makes sure they keep their ass in the gym staying in shape.

I don't know whether women do that shyt through solidarity or malice?

:russ:
Women hate each other, it’s why when chicks fall in love they bush their ’friends’ and be all up under you until the new car smell wears off
 
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