Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Malik1time said:
Women don’t make sense :mjlol: :mjlol: Clearly she likes me and shyt but when I try to call her she don’t pick up but when I send a text she responds with the quickness:mjlol: I’m trynna ask her out but I need to get her on the phone:what: fukk I look like asking her out via text.. I’m not in high school anymore:what:
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Asking people out through text has been the standard since at least 2012, agree with you phone is better, but texting has rewired us.

lots of people feel put on the 'spot' with a call, and it's kinda true, in that you have be a little more on, in the moment, and responsive. Or you sound crazy. Harder to be mysterious or misleading about where you are, who you are. Our vocabulary and speaking tells a lot about you. Voice calls are so much more revealing. We don't always think about it, but is so much more revealing to hear a persons voice, and how they talk, rather than emoji's and memes.

People pick up way less phone calls, and it even gives them like panic feeling. I called a woman I've known for years, back and forth, off and on, and we are comfortable enough with each other, on the phone I can joke easier, and say more, and also you can "push" way harder but way nicer on the phone, like "hey are you down to go or not", and not come off like an intense weirdo. called her, and she didn't answer. Texted me back 20 min later, like WYD, so weird to me.
 
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I think the increased "shortness/brevity or tech and digital media, (look at FB, to Tik Tok) has FRIED people, to the degree where they look for an emoji, or meme to express anything,

Like they "react" vs "respond", and TO ME it makes them seem dumb, even though I know they are not. or not always.

this is men and women, all ages, everyone. Was at a dinner last night and these women next me, definite type, married/divorced upper tier household wealth, and they were all talking memes and instagram.
 
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re'up said:
Asking people out through text has been the standard since at least 2012, agree with you phone is better, but texting has rewired us.

lots of people feel put on the 'spot' with a call, and it's kinda true, in that you have be a little more on, in the moment, and responsive. Or you sound crazy. Harder to be mysterious or misleading about where you are, who you are. Our vocabulary and speaking tells a lot about you. Voice calls are so much more revealing. We don't always think about it, but is so much more revealing to hear a persons voice, and how they talk, rather than emoji's and memes.

People pick up way less phone calls, and it even gives them like panic feeling. I called a woman I've known for years, back and forth, off and on, and we are comfortable enough with each other, on the phone I can joke easier, and say more, and also you can "push" way harder but way nicer on the phone, like "hey are you down to go or not", and not come off like an intense weirdo. called her, and she didn't answer. Texted me back 20 min later, like WYD, so weird to me.
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Lol I hate wyd

But Calling allows you to include tone and nuances that can create rapport. Even if she’s half interested…u can reverse that

Most modern women can’t banter etc

This was the go to move 10 years ago
Getting her number and calling right away
 
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I find myself losing interest quicker than possible.

Chicks off this era be "meh" territory. They lack humor, social skills is cooked, they're mostly neurotic and boring af. Dealing with one is like dealing with a fukking mannequin from Macys:pachaha:

Maybe it has to do with social media giving inertia vibes. We're mostly digital our communication is digital. Used to be fun cold approaching but social media got everybody glued on their phone like zombies.

At this point brehs, just fukk these hoes, get money and travel.
 
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NoirDynosaur said:
I find myself losing interest quicker than possible.

Chicks off this era be "meh" territory. They lack humor, social skills is cooked, they're mostly neurotic and boring af. Dealing with one is like dealing with a fukking mannequin from Macys:pachaha:

Maybe it has to do with social media giving inertia vibes. We're mostly digital our communication is digital. Used to be fun cold approaching but social media got everybody glued on their phone like zombies.

At this point brehs, just fukk these hoes, get money and travel.
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Thats all you can do and its almost a blessing in disguise when you factor the debt load and mental illness/trauma many women bring.

Its a gift and curse cause the company of a cool woman is dope but there is so few now where even college kids are weirdos. Like if you are college age and on a dating app imo you are a weirdo
 
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NoirDynosaur said:
I find myself losing interest quicker than possible.

Chicks off this era be "meh" territory. They lack humor, social skills is cooked, they're mostly neurotic and boring af. Dealing with one is like dealing with a fukking mannequin from Macys:pachaha:

Maybe it has to do with social media giving inertia vibes. We're mostly digital our communication is digital. Used to be fun cold approaching but social media got everybody glued on their phone like zombies.

At this point brehs, just fukk these hoes, get money and travel.
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Damn breh :pachaha:
 
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re'up said:
Asking people out through text has been the standard since at least 2012, agree with you phone is better, but texting has rewired us.

lots of people feel put on the 'spot' with a call, and it's kinda true, in that you have be a little more on, in the moment, and responsive. Or you sound crazy. Harder to be mysterious or misleading about where you are, who you are. Our vocabulary and speaking tells a lot about you. Voice calls are so much more revealing. We don't always think about it, but is so much more revealing to hear a persons voice, and how they talk, rather than emoji's and memes.

People pick up way less phone calls, and it even gives them like panic feeling. I called a woman I've known for years, back and forth, off and on, and we are comfortable enough with each other, on the phone I can joke easier, and say more, and also you can "push" way harder but way nicer on the phone, like "hey are you down to go or not", and not come off like an intense weirdo. called her, and she didn't answer. Texted me back 20 min later, like WYD, so weird to me.
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Yeah I feel you it just feel weird to ask someone out via text:francis:
I must be getting old
 
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is it me or does this come off as a red flag.

Read this on her dating profile:

"It's hard for me to stay in the house and chill".

and she's 40. Like I understand getting out and doing stuff, but just the fact that you have to state that , makes me believe you need to be out all the time.
 
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