Women don’t make sense![]()
Clearly she likes me and shyt but when I try to call her she don’t pick up but when I send a text she responds with the quickness
I’m trynna ask her out but I need to get her on the phone
fukk I look like asking her out via text.. I’m not in high school anymore
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Asking people out through text has been the standard since at least 2012, agree with you phone is better, but texting has rewired us.
lots of people feel put on the 'spot' with a call, and it's kinda true, in that you have be a little more on, in the moment, and responsive. Or you sound crazy. Harder to be mysterious or misleading about where you are, who you are. Our vocabulary and speaking tells a lot about you. Voice calls are so much more revealing. We don't always think about it, but is so much more revealing to hear a persons voice, and how they talk, rather than emoji's and memes.
People pick up way less phone calls, and it even gives them like panic feeling. I called a woman I've known for years, back and forth, off and on, and we are comfortable enough with each other, on the phone I can joke easier, and say more, and also you can "push" way harder but way nicer on the phone, like "hey are you down to go or not", and not come off like an intense weirdo. called her, and she didn't answer. Texted me back 20 min later, like WYD, so weird to me.