Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[DrunkenNovice]

Being stalked ain’t it

 

[The ADD]

 

[⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐]

A girl who is a friend but not the kind of apple you would pick out of a bunch,

Overweight to a high degree by a lot but doesn’t seem to think this is a factor in attraction and carries herself with confidence, which is kind if cool but I’m laying down just chilling after smoking some fire indica and she gets on top of me (mind you, she’s just a friend) and she she starts staring in my eyes and breathing hard as if she’s in some movie. She actually seemed like an animal at this point. she has such a sagging jaw that if you were looking at her with her head laying down her eyebrows would look like a mustaches on a Tibetan monk

Meanwhile I’m trying to get out of this situation without offending her and triggering her emotional ourbursts - she literally has told me multiple times that she can’t handle rejection as if she should be the only human immune to rejection yet every meal has to include the fries on the side with the …. “Diet Coke” - she can’t reject that

I quit smoking weed over this so maybe this trauma will be for the best. She got on top of me I think only to show me she could do so without hurting me and I’m just thinking you definitely don’t carry the insurance that should be required for this. She’s probably 350 pounds, at that weight you should be self-conscious enough to realize you have no business


Where do people getting off thinking this okay. She’s even tried to pin me to a wall, I just laugh nervously and start walking out and she doesn’t see this as reason to pull back on this behavior

So now I just avoid her as much as she can but she’s staying at a hotel near my place even though she lives in LA and I live 100 miles outside of LA

She texts me all the time but now I realize that I’d rather not spend more time reading texts than I do reading books

I really needed to get this off my chest

Going to read the Quran and then the Bible before Napoleon Hill’s Law of Success book

 

[Jasonmask]

A girl who is a friend but not the kind of apple you would pick out of a bunch,

Overweight to a high degree by a lot but doesn’t seem to think this is a factor in attraction and carries herself with confidence, which is kind if cool but I’m laying down just chilling after smoking some fire indica and she gets on top of me (mind you, she’s just a friend) and she she starts staring in my eyes and breathing hard as if she’s in some movie. She actually seemed like an animal at this point. she has such a sagging jaw that if you were looking at her with her head laying down her eyebrows would look like a mustaches on a Tibetan monk

Meanwhile I’m trying to get out of this situation without offending her and triggering her emotional ourbursts - she literally has told me multiple times that she can’t handle rejection as if she should be the only human immune to rejection yet every meal has to include the fries on the side with the …. “Diet Coke” - she can’t reject that

I quit smoking weed over this so maybe this trauma will be for the best. She got on top of me I think only to show me she could do so without hurting me and I’m just thinking you definitely don’t carry the insurance that should be required for this. She’s probably 350 pounds, at that weight you should be self-conscious enough to realize you have no business


Where do people getting off thinking this okay. She’s even tried to pin me to a wall, I just laugh nervously and start walking out and she doesn’t see this as reason to pull back on this behavior

So now I just avoid her as much as she can but she’s staying at a hotel near my place even though she lives in LA and I live 100 miles outside of LA

She texts me all the time but now I realize that I’d rather not spend more time reading texts than I do reading books

I really needed to get this off my chest

Going to read the Quran and then the Bible before Napoleon Hill’s Law of Success book

This is going to sound sexist, but I don’t think the opposite sex should be friends like that. It damn there never works out either the girl or guy like each other but will sacrifice just to be around them in hopes of something happening down the road. I even tried to have married women friends I get an off vibe that they feeling me and I could smash if I play my cards right. That other shyt bra I damn there been sexually assaulted a couple times and they all were from huge women that’s why I don’t allow them to get on top don’t even get me started on if you give in and fukk them good bro they get so possessive and clingy it’s scary af lmao.

 

[⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐]

This is going to sound sexist, but I don’t think the opposite sex should be friends like that. It damn there never works out either the girl or guy like each other but will sacrifice just to be around them in hopes of something happening down the road. I even tried to have married women friends I get an off vibe that they feeling me and I could smash if I play my cards right. That other shyt bra I damn there been sexually assaulted a couple times and they all were from huge women that’s why I don’t allow them to get on top don’t even get me started on if you give in and fukk them good bro they get so possessive and clingy it’s scary af lmao.

I appreciate your words of advice

 

[Van Cleef]

Notice that too. Elementary school is the prototype for female and male relationships.

Vice versa - it's just her turn. As the late Patrice O Neal used to say, most women are leavable not lovable. Women are like buses - miss one another 15 is coming. It makes no sense for dudes to focus on just one broad. There's more women than men on the planet.

Not gonna lie, I did miss out on some puss when I used to play it cool with women. Not knowing the chick was giving me greenlight signs the whole entire time Now I'm aggressive like DMX when I hit the scene. Plus I'm in my 30's. The saddest feeling gotta be when you old and wrinkly reminiscing "man...I should've fukk that broad but I was too scared" haha

this is my problem... This girl told me the other day told me "it's giving married tomorrow"

 

[The ADD]

A girl who is a friend but not the kind of apple you would pick out of a bunch,

Overweight to a high degree by a lot but doesn’t seem to think this is a factor in attraction and carries herself with confidence, which is kind if cool but I’m laying down just chilling after smoking some fire indica and she gets on top of me (mind you, she’s just a friend) and she she starts staring in my eyes and breathing hard as if she’s in some movie. She actually seemed like an animal at this point. she has such a sagging jaw that if you were looking at her with her head laying down her eyebrows would look like a mustaches on a Tibetan monk

Meanwhile I’m trying to get out of this situation without offending her and triggering her emotional ourbursts - she literally has told me multiple times that she can’t handle rejection as if she should be the only human immune to rejection yet every meal has to include the fries on the side with the …. “Diet Coke” - she can’t reject that

I quit smoking weed over this so maybe this trauma will be for the best. She got on top of me I think only to show me she could do so without hurting me and I’m just thinking you definitely don’t carry the insurance that should be required for this. She’s probably 350 pounds, at that weight you should be self-conscious enough to realize you have no business


Where do people getting off thinking this okay. She’s even tried to pin me to a wall, I just laugh nervously and start walking out and she doesn’t see this as reason to pull back on this behavior

So now I just avoid her as much as she can but she’s staying at a hotel near my place even though she lives in LA and I live 100 miles outside of LA

She texts me all the time but now I realize that I’d rather not spend more time reading texts than I do reading books

I really needed to get this off my chest

Going to read the Quran and then the Bible before Napoleon Hill’s Law of Success book

It’s clear that she’s interested romantically and you keep engaging. Reverse the situation, would a woman do the same?

Nope….

 

[re'up]

I would point to the whole elementary school forming relationship patterns as being mostly negative way to learn

but do think that's true, unfortunately. Think it's due to some of my background, that I didn't full immerse into that pattern. I was too into drugs and money to think about relationships when I was 17.

-Children tease the person they like, which is ok in small doses, but sometimes they never learn kindness or consideration

-children are taught to be competitive with each other and the opposite sex

-children learn immature ways of conflict resolution, gossip, "breaking up", spreading rumors

-children (men) learn they will be validated/respected for behavior like that

 

[Hoodoo Child]

 

[Redwood]

I would point to the whole elementary school forming relationship patterns as being mostly negative way to learn

but do think that's true, unfortunately. Think it's due to some of my background, that I didn't full immerse into that pattern. I was too into drugs and money to think about relationships when I was 17.

-Children tease the person they like, which is ok in small doses, but sometimes they never learn kindness or consideration

-children are taught to be competitive with each other and the opposite sex

-children learn immature ways of conflict resolution, gossip, "breaking up", spreading rumors

-children (men) learn they will be validated/respected for behavior like that

That's one of many problems out here. I feel a lot are over doing it.

 

[re'up]

That's one of many problems out here. I feel a lot are over doing it.

For a lot of people, it's an intimacy barrier. Kind of a distance between you and the other person, saying EVERYTHING sarcastically, or mockingly, forms kind of a guard against actual intimacy, if everything is kind of a joke, what's real? How can you tell when someone is serious? And it's always kind of an insurance policy, against expressing yourself.

Now, some teasing is fine, I even like it, when it;s directed at me, but when that becomes the sole way you express basic stuff like attraction, desire, of friendship...

 

[Redwood]

For a lot of people, it's an intimacy barrier. Kind of a distance between you and the other person, saying EVERYTHING sarcastically, or mockingly, forms kind of a guard against actual intimacy, if everything is kind of a joke, what's real? How can you tell when someone is serious? And it's always kind of an insurance policy, against expressing yourself.

Now, some teasing is fine, I even like it, when it;s directed at me, but when that becomes the sole way you express basic stuff like attraction, desire, of friendship...

That's what I was mainly getting at.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

A girl who is a friend but not the kind of apple you would pick out of a bunch,

Overweight to a high degree by a lot but doesn’t seem to think this is a factor in attraction and carries herself with confidence, which is kind if cool but I’m laying down just chilling after smoking some fire indica and she gets on top of me (mind you, she’s just a friend) and she she starts staring in my eyes and breathing hard as if she’s in some movie. She actually seemed like an animal at this point. she has such a sagging jaw that if you were looking at her with her head laying down her eyebrows would look like a mustaches on a Tibetan monk

Meanwhile I’m trying to get out of this situation without offending her and triggering her emotional ourbursts - she literally has told me multiple times that she can’t handle rejection as if she should be the only human immune to rejection yet every meal has to include the fries on the side with the …. “Diet Coke” - she can’t reject that

I quit smoking weed over this so maybe this trauma will be for the best. She got on top of me I think only to show me she could do so without hurting me and I’m just thinking you definitely don’t carry the insurance that should be required for this. She’s probably 350 pounds, at that weight you should be self-conscious enough to realize you have no business


Where do people getting off thinking this okay. She’s even tried to pin me to a wall, I just laugh nervously and start walking out and she doesn’t see this as reason to pull back on this behavior

So now I just avoid her as much as she can but she’s staying at a hotel near my place even though she lives in LA and I live 100 miles outside of LA

She texts me all the time but now I realize that I’d rather not spend more time reading texts than I do reading books

I really needed to get this off my chest

Going to read the Quran and then the Bible before Napoleon Hill’s Law of Success book

Man I remember back when I was 12 ('01) I was chilling with my potna in the living room watching a wrestling DVD and my homegirl and he people came to the apartment. My brother left with my homegirl and I was sitting in front of the TV watching my shyt. I look back and this big girl on the couch staring at me.

I go into the room not too long after and she come in and push me on the bed and got on top of me saying she was gone rape me. I'm like 90something pounds at the time and kept tryna push her off me but was laughing at the same time cuz it was weird.

Grown up, now I like mainly bbws. She damaged me brehs. All I wanted to do was watch my ECW brehs

 

[The ADD]

 

[Ahadi]

She said “tbh I’m playing the crib all weekend, send me a selfie so I can remember your face” & “what we’re doing tomorrow”



Bushed.

Aka - let me see if you’re worth leaving home for. As she’s on her period. Thank god im juggling.