getting back late to someone made sense 15 years ago
But In 2023
But In 2023
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
- Thread starter Rominati
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bush herYea for about a year. This woman is a teacher and wouldn’t be allowed on her phone during class and still got right back to me. Would see me at any time always called right back if she missed it. She was busier last year but made more time for meI’m in my 30s now and I have that sixth scent when it comes to bullshyt. She started getting distant over the summer. The final straw was when I hit her in the morning and she didn’t respond until the next day.. we would talk daily but now you ghost? Only saw me once in the last 2 weeks.
If I was younger I would have been “what’s going on you’re not the same?” stressing and shyt.
It’s crazy. They wake up one day and that’s it. In reality she was probably planning her exit like they all do but I beat her to the punch. That begging pleading shyt don’t workI’m sad over it but I’ll be alright.
And I bet you few months later she’s going to spin the block
Lol
but keep that open, keep all these relationships open, don't focus on ego or self help bullshyt.
not everyone is going to go as far and as fast and I want to, but keep it open. That's a lesson I still process.
and read a book last year, called Speaking With Thumbs, ultra high end therapist/coach book about relationships, and texting
and she had a good quote, essentially saying, paraphrasing,
"we are all taught to think of relationships (text threads, even) like sharks----as in, if they stop moving, they die, but it's really not true, and they can start and stop, and re activate all the time"
and she had a good quote, essentially saying, paraphrasing,
"we are all taught to think of relationships (text threads, even) like sharks----as in, if they stop moving, they die, but it's really not true, and they can start and stop, and re activate all the time"
Amo Husserl
Superstar
Shorty shootin' signals behind her girlfriend back. Haaaa.
VertigoKnight
Veteran
That she's probably a narcissist constantly seeking approval from people she doesn't even know.
VertigoKnight
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Had to walk away from a girl I had strong feelings for. The energy changed with her. Not texting me back right away, not calling as much, couldn’t spend as much time with me. She said she got busy with work and life but we all know that if a woman really wants to see you, they gonna make it happen. Just had that feeling in my gut and had to bounce she swore up and down that things were the same but my gut was screaming at meIdk if I’m making a mistake or not but the last time I didn’t listen to my gut I got burned…
Your gut never lies, we as men always try and fight that feeling but as you said last time you ignored it and you got burned.
When a chick starts behaving like this, you know what time it is. I've had it happen and even had similar them denying anything had changed.
But in the end my gut was correct.
VertigoKnight
Veteran
This is why some brehs go through it when they are messaging a chick with no reply and see that the same chick is up posting on social media.
Digital Omen
All Star
Dap + Rep for handling it correctly. No Drake shyt, no emo, no blowing up her phone.Yea for about a year. This woman is a teacher and wouldn’t be allowed on her phone during class and still got right back to me. Would see me at any time always called right back if she missed it. She was busier last year but made more time for me
If I was younger I would have been “what’s going on you’re not the same?” stressing and shyt.
It’s crazy. They wake up one day and that’s it. In reality she was probably planning her exit like they all do but I beat her to the punch. That begging pleading shyt don’t work
Let her go in peace and wish her the best in all her future dating endeavors. This is the way
Digital Omen
All Star
Sheisty individual. Handle accordingly if you do hit.
VertigoKnight
Veteran
Dap + Rep for handling it correctly. No Drake shyt, no emo, no blowing up her phone.
Let her go in peace and wish her the best in all her future dating endeavors. This is the way
A lot of chicks don't like it when you get hip to it and end things before they can.
But letting her go in peace with a take care message is the icing on the cake. Yep, you'll be sad for a while if you liked her, but you got to walk away with dignity.
Amo Husserl
Superstar
Yeah. I smiled and kept it movin'.
Good thing is it was only a year and y’all didn’t seem to deep.Yea for about a year. This woman is a teacher and wouldn’t be allowed on her phone during class and still got right back to me. Would see me at any time always called right back if she missed it. She was busier last year but made more time for me
If I was younger I would have been “what’s going on you’re not the same?” stressing and shyt.
It’s crazy. They wake up one day and that’s it. In reality she was probably planning her exit like they all do but I beat her to the punch. That begging pleading shyt don’t work
AStrangeName
Member of Snitch Syndication
She's the one who's suppose to be giving out nicknamesWhen you give her a nickname and she says
“You can call me (her name)”
You ain’t that guy
NoirDynosaur
Yurrrrrrrrrr
Notice that too. Elementary school is the prototype for female and male relationships.
Vice versa - it's just her turn. As the late Patrice O Neal used to say, most women are leavable not lovable. Women are like buses - miss one another 15 is coming. It makes no sense for dudes to focus on just one broad. There's more women than men on the planet.
Not gonna lie, I did miss out on some puss when I used to play it cool with women. Not knowing the chick was giving me greenlight signs the whole entire time
Now I'm aggressive like DMX when I hit the scene. Plus I'm in my 30's. The saddest feeling gotta be when you old and wrinkly reminiscing "man...I should've fukk that broad but I was too scared" haha