Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Malcolmxxx_23]

Yea for about a year. This woman is a teacher and wouldn’t be allowed on her phone during class and still got right back to me. Would see me at any time always called right back if she missed it. She was busier last year but made more time for me I’m in my 30s now and I have that sixth scent when it comes to bullshyt. She started getting distant over the summer. The final straw was when I hit her in the morning and she didn’t respond until the next day.. we would talk daily but now you ghost? Only saw me once in the last 2 weeks.

If I was younger I would have been “what’s going on you’re not the same?” stressing and shyt.

It’s crazy. They wake up one day and that’s it. In reality she was probably planning her exit like they all do but I beat her to the punch. That begging pleading shyt don’t work I’m sad over it but I’ll be alright.

bush her

And I bet you few months later she’s going to spin the block

Lol

 

[re'up]

bush her

And I bet you few months later she’s going to spin the block

Lol

but keep that open, keep all these relationships open, don't focus on ego or self help bullshyt.

not everyone is going to go as far and as fast and I want to, but keep it open. That's a lesson I still process.

 

[re'up]

and read a book last year, called Speaking With Thumbs, ultra high end therapist/coach book about relationships, and texting

and she had a good quote, essentially saying, paraphrasing,

"we are all taught to think of relationships (text threads, even) like sharks----as in, if they stop moving, they die, but it's really not true, and they can start and stop, and re activate all the time"

 

[Amo Husserl]

Shorty shootin' signals behind her girlfriend back. Haaaa.

 

[VertigoKnight]

Young Guns, What does it mean when all of her Instagram pics are selfies?

That she's probably a narcissist constantly seeking approval from people she doesn't even know.

 

[VertigoKnight]

Had to walk away from a girl I had strong feelings for. The energy changed with her. Not texting me back right away, not calling as much, couldn’t spend as much time with me. She said she got busy with work and life but we all know that if a woman really wants to see you, they gonna make it happen. Just had that feeling in my gut and had to bounce she swore up and down that things were the same but my gut was screaming at me Idk if I’m making a mistake or not but the last time I didn’t listen to my gut I got burned…

Your gut never lies, we as men always try and fight that feeling but as you said last time you ignored it and you got burned.

When a chick starts behaving like this, you know what time it is. I've had it happen and even had similar them denying anything had changed.

But in the end my gut was correct.

 

[VertigoKnight]

We've all been there brehs non stop messages, first few phone calls hours . Constant dates , everything just connecting


Then boom.busy with work or with life. If you don't message they never do . If you don't call they never do.

They are not busy. I've dated a gynecologist, I've dated a lawyer at a big firm. They all had time to message or reschedule if they were "busy"

Women use busy as a easy way to let you down hoping you get the point to stop messaging and calling.

Just go out anywhere the avg person is looking at their phone every five min at least.


The same woman who is so busy with work is texting during work hours and scrolling through social media

This is why some brehs go through it when they are messaging a chick with no reply and see that the same chick is up posting on social media.

 

[Digital Omen]

Yea for about a year. This woman is a teacher and wouldn’t be allowed on her phone during class and still got right back to me. Would see me at any time always called right back if she missed it. She was busier last year but made more time for me I’m in my 30s now and I have that sixth scent when it comes to bullshyt. She started getting distant over the summer. The final straw was when I hit her in the morning and she didn’t respond until the next day.. we would talk daily but now you ghost? Only saw me once in the last 2 weeks.

If I was younger I would have been “what’s going on you’re not the same?” stressing and shyt.

It’s crazy. They wake up one day and that’s it. In reality she was probably planning her exit like they all do but I beat her to the punch. That begging pleading shyt don’t work I’m sad over it but I’ll be alright.

Dap + Rep for handling it correctly. No Drake shyt, no emo, no blowing up her phone.

Let her go in peace and wish her the best in all her future dating endeavors. This is the way

 

[Digital Omen]

Shorty shootin' signals behind her girlfriend back. Haaaa.

Sheisty individual. Handle accordingly if you do hit.

 

[VertigoKnight]

Dap + Rep for handling it correctly. No Drake shyt, no emo, no blowing up her phone.

Let her go in peace and wish her the best in all her future dating endeavors. This is the way

A lot of chicks don't like it when you get hip to it and end things before they can.

But letting her go in peace with a take care message is the icing on the cake. Yep, you'll be sad for a while if you liked her, but you got to walk away with dignity.

 

[Amo Husserl]

Sheisty individual. Handle accordingly if you do hit.

Yeah. I smiled and kept it movin'.

 

[The ADD]

Yea for about a year. This woman is a teacher and wouldn’t be allowed on her phone during class and still got right back to me. Would see me at any time always called right back if she missed it. She was busier last year but made more time for me I’m in my 30s now and I have that sixth scent when it comes to bullshyt. She started getting distant over the summer. The final straw was when I hit her in the morning and she didn’t respond until the next day.. we would talk daily but now you ghost? Only saw me once in the last 2 weeks.

If I was younger I would have been “what’s going on you’re not the same?” stressing and shyt.

It’s crazy. They wake up one day and that’s it. In reality she was probably planning her exit like they all do but I beat her to the punch. That begging pleading shyt don’t work I’m sad over it but I’ll be alright.

Good thing is it was only a year and y’all didn’t seem to deep.

 

[AStrangeName]

When you give her a nickname and she says

“You can call me (her name)”

You ain’t that guy

She's the one who's suppose to be giving out nicknames

 

[NoirDynosaur]

It's elementary shyt we learned in high school
the minute she stops sweating you is the minute another dude caught her fancy and made her tingle
strike while the iron's hot, enjoy your turn, and when her feelings get spun up by the next man charge it to the game and KIM

"I'm busier than Jeff Bezos," ghosting, leaving you on read, "I just saw this" 3 days later: IT'S OVER

Notice that too. Elementary school is the prototype for female and male relationships.

Vice versa - it's just her turn. As the late Patrice O Neal used to say, most women are leavable not lovable. Women are like buses - miss one another 15 is coming. It makes no sense for dudes to focus on just one broad. There's more women than men on the planet.

Not gonna lie, I did miss out on some puss when I used to play it cool with women. Not knowing the chick was giving me greenlight signs the whole entire time Now I'm aggressive like DMX when I hit the scene. Plus I'm in my 30's. The saddest feeling gotta be when you old and wrinkly reminiscing "man...I should've fukk that broad but I was too scared" haha

 

[DrunkenNovice]

Being stalked ain’t it