Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Canon]

this just made me think of an amazing red flag i came across like 2 years ago

was messing with a woman who went to therapy consistenly nothing wrong with that inherently

then she told me she hadn't told the therapist anything about me (we been coolin for months)........ okay. not my business

then told me she had to replace her old therapist because she felt like she was judging her.....

she let me in on some details about her past and it's pretty clear what happened, therapist hit the prolly didn't agree with some stuff she was doing, prolly was leading her towards being accountable for some stuff, and she couldn't cope with the idea that the therapist was secrectly judging her, ran away from the situation.

so she got a new therapist and only tells her half the truth man i ended that situation so quick, she manipulated the situation so the therapist is only telling her stuff she wants to hear



ion even know what to call that, but avoid it brehs. I wouldn't be surprised if the VAST majority of people in general who go to therapist do this.


but you're just doing yourself and the therapist a disservice and wasting both yalls time

I went through a crazy similar experience

that's when I learned women are using therapy for validation of there actions and not to seriously improve no matter how much BS they put out there. Any women into that "therapy therapy therapy" bs is instant bushes status for me

 

[Guvnor]

her WHOLE ass is out...

Facts! However social media saying he wrong for commenting online about it. They say he was body shaming her and shyt.

Funny thing is, it’s only our group of women lol.

Breh tried to put his foot down & majority of BW said “fukk you”



It’s the lack of respect for BM & why our group is out of order. It’s a damn shame we have the reputation of being the “softest” on our women, probably why we’re in this situation in the first place.

But back to the subject, The best way is handling it behind closed doors, like other groups would do & get off social media.

Facts but let this had been the other way around and Ashanti or J Lo was twerking on him at the concert. She makes a comment on videos of him at this concert. I bet BW would be saying he's a dog, girl leave him and etc etc. . Not that she shouldn't be speaking on it online or that it's just a concert and a show lol.

They really getting at dude for expecting his woman to respect their relationship.

Some Jeffers are even saying if she isn't married she is still single. She can do what she want if she isn't married.

Did he leave her?

No but they said he did unfollow her on twitter. They not married but it's in his best interest to leave her.

 

[T-K-G]

I went through a crazy similar experience

that's when I learned women are using therapy for validation of there actions and not to seriously improve no matter how much BS they put out there. Any women into that "therapy therapy therapy" bs is instant bushes status for me

facts! glad more brehs are getting hip to this

People lying they asses off, if someone can't keep shyt a bean with their therapist they DEFINITELY aren't telling you everything either

 

[Iceson Beckford]

Brehs how do I be less bf/serious material

Tryna score some hookups

 

[The ADD]

Brehs how do I be less bf/serious material

Tryna score some hookups

Tell them from jump…..

 

[re'up]

Don't try to be less

but lead with what you want and what you can and can't offer

know what you are saying though, there's a a kind of narrow space, people will tend to be more OK just having more casual sex with someone who they have less chance of actually "catching feelings", which is a dumb concept anyway

 

[WIA20XX]

To be fair, have we seen Keke be THIS revealing with her WHOLE ass out?

I'm not trying to get all JBO,

It doesn't take long to find pre baby shots that are risky/risque.

I've never dealt with a chick that's in the public eye, but dressing sexy is the norm for a celeb chick to stay relevant.

Now she's no Cardi B, but the information was out there, and probably one of the reasons he got with her.

 

[T-K-G]

Brehs how do I be less bf/serious material

Tryna score some hookups

Bust a move on the first night you'll know what kinda of time she on immediately. If requests for just regular hangouts start popping up make sure she knows you ain't tryna be serious here.

 

[Guvnor]

I'm not trying to get all JBO,

It doesn't take long to find pre baby shots that are risky/risque.

I've never dealt with a chick that's in the public eye, but dressing sexy is the norm for a celeb chick to stay relevant.

Now she's no Cardi B, but the information was out there, and probably one of the reasons he got with her.

Dressing sexy is one thing but the way she was all up under the Usher on top of that is wild to me lol.

 

[MikelArteta]

you can’t tell the modern western women nothing nowadays . Respect for men is gone, imagine your girl dressing like a whore and you gotta bite your tongue?

 

[Sleepy Floyd]

I always underestimate how fake and disloyal women are.

One day they're all thirsty for me and I'm blowing their back out and the next day they're with some random disheveled ugly dude and they act like they don't even know me

Then another day they're hitting me up again

 

[Iceson Beckford]

Tell them from jump…..

Yeah but how do I do this tactfully

 

[Iceson Beckford]

you can’t tell the modern western women nothing nowadays . Respect for men is gone, imagine your girl dressing like a whore and you gotta bite your tongue?

Past week has been an eye opener

No time to argue or debate with them, get resources in order and find those compatible

 

[The ADD]

Yeah but how do I do this tactfully

“I’m not looking for anything serious I’m just looking to have fun right now”

 

[DJSmooth]

Yeah but how do I do this tactfully

This is your problem here. The "fun" nikkas don't give af.