Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Apollo Creed]

You gotta take those bumps early to really know women. It took me years. Started dating in 2016. Been on and off. Some of these women fukked my life up

This year has been by far the most successful. I'm in a great place in life and I'm looking in the right places for women. If it's not Hinge, it's meeting them in person by happenstance

Game can be told but you really gotta live through shyt before you know for sure. Female nature is human nature

Talking to these women like they're people and not idolizing them is easy when you put yourself first

At least it is for me. Inner work

In the past usually dudes got their heart broke from an LTR, went on the self discovery journey, then came out better, focused, and understood women (that is the dudes who werent caught im the endless cycle of simping).

But now you have a new lane of dudes who get over prepared before even getting off the porch where they become socially awkward/hate women or self improve but still arent battled tested and become walking licks to chameleons (the chicks who say what dudes wanna hear to lure em in then bait and switch).

I will say the dating world is so jacked up now that young brehs cant even get battled tested anymore cause in HS chicks is serving themselves up via social media to the highest bidder now.

 

[A Pimp Named Slickback]

In the past usually dudes got their heart broke from an LTR, went on the self discovery journey, then came out better, focused, and understood women (that is the dudes who werent caught im the endless cycle of simping).

But now you have a new lane of dudes who get over prepared before even getting off the porch where they become socially awkward/hate women or self improve but still arent battled tested and become walking licks to chameleons (the chicks who say what dudes wanna hear to lure em in then bait and switch).

I will say the dating world is so jacked up now that young brehs cant even get battled tested anymore cause in HS chicks is serving themselves up via social media to the highest bidder now.

That's on Gen Z and Gen Alpha. Imma raise my future son right. And whoever I come across that's young and needs mentoring

It is what it is. Women have it bad. Men have it bad. Dating is fukked. The world is fukked

All men these days have to do is have purpose and work towards self-fulfillment. That doesn't come from women. Or men either for women who seek validation

Imma write a book about the concept of self-fulfillment. Been planning it out since 2021

Stay tuned

 

[Ahadi]

For a business trip, coming off a disagreement and y’all are just FWB……..

Doesn’t sound odd that she’s didn’t. One of her other FWB could have taken care of that

I guess it’s a weird lane because it was a FWB, but it seemed like it was forming into something more serious…. Always inviting me out to places, paying for stuff, etc.



If only I had a mind reader or a sign from the universe.

 

[Apollo Creed]

That's on Gen Z and Gen Alpha. Imma raise my future son right. And whoever I come across that's young and needs mentoring

It is what it is. Women have it bad. Men have it bad. Dating is fukked. The world is fukked

All men these days have to do is have purpose and work towards self-fulfillment. That doesn't come from women. Or men either for women who seek validation

Imma write a book about the concept of self-fulfillment. Been planning it out since 2021

Stay tuned

Your future son will have to deal with the products of these people, it’s easier said than done.

The fact of the matter is we are entering new world and it’s best to toss the ideals of the past in the trash and define what the “new future” is going to be. Right now both men and women are kicking a can down the road lol thinking they gonna “out finesse” the other.

 

[Apollo Creed]

I guess it’s a weird lane because it was a FWB, but it seemed like it was forming into something more serious…. Always inviting me out to places, paying for stuff, etc.



If only I had a mind reader or a sign from the universe.

FWB should mever be more than FWB.

FWB feeling like its transforming into a relationship = its time to end it.

 

[The ADD]

I guess it’s a weird lane because it was a FWB, but it seemed like it was forming into something more serious…. Always inviting me out to places, paying for stuff, etc.



If only I had a mind reader or a sign from the universe.

That sounds like FWB to me

 

[MikelArteta]

 

[Brandsdale]

you can still WhatsApp her tho ah lie?

 

[MikelArteta]

you can still WhatsApp her tho ah lie?

Yeah but still

 

[WIA20XX]

I guess it’s a weird lane because it was a FWB, but it seemed like it was forming into something more serious…. Always inviting me out to places, paying for stuff, etc.



If only I had a mind reader or a sign from the universe.

FB = 3 Am, you up? come over. Do the do, and sleep in your own bed.

FWB - You wanna grub/check out a flick? Sex is implied.

Trying to be your girlfriend - she pays for things, makes things for you, texts, informing you of her comings and goings. -> Danger Zone.

 

[Panther]

Using this month to only entertain new women only. Im not even replying to anything old that pops up.

Just made plans with this Asian chick when she gets back into the city. Met her through a mutual friend (who is bad as fukk but she got a dude).

I should get on the apps, but being outside and meeting women organically has been working so im riding the wave while during the summer.

 

[Ahadi]

FB = 3 Am, you up? come over. Do the do, and sleep in your own bed.

FWB - You wanna grub/check out a flick? Sex is implied.

Trying to be your girlfriend - she pays for things, makes things for you, texts, informing you of her comings and goings. -> Danger Zone.

I chose to walk away. Told her I’m stepping back & good luck.

Spoiler: Message

Left me a paragraph about “Again, I am not ignoring you. I spent the last 2 days just being what I needed around the house. I feel like I haven’t been home in weeks. Was able to unpack and repack everything. Did loads of laundry. Washed my sheets. Etc. That being said, I don’t really know how to feel about needing space already. It’s only been a month, that seems like a problem that should come much later. A week with my girls and the baby and my dog will be healing for the soul and mind. I hope to come back refreshed.

I replied & she basically said “i enjoyed our time with you too, maybe I’ll talk to you soon”

Left it on read.

Luckily I still got a rotation of 2 left.



Never cut em off brehs.

 

[WIA20XX]

I chose to walk away. Told her I’m stepping back & good luck.

Spoiler: Message

Left me a paragraph about “Again, I am not ignoring you. I spent the last 2 days just being what I needed around the house. I feel like I haven’t been home in weeks. Was able to unpack and repack everything. Did loads of laundry. Washed my sheets. Etc. That being said, I don’t really know how to feel about needing space already. It’s only been a month, that seems like a problem that should come much later. A week with my girls and the baby and my dog will be healing for the soul and mind. I hope to come back refreshed.

Chicks don't agree with "rules of engagement" when it's not in their favor.

Like, when she want you, she want you.
When she's done with you, after bigging you up to everyone and God, you're literally forgotten.

One of my ex's posted an old school photo of herself...with me cut out of it...smh.

 

[re'up]

I am interested in the why "we" have to have such narrow lines/rules of engagement

would it reasonable to say that some of those rules are based in ancient/religious models of men/women? As, in the idea that a "FWB" cannot be treated in any way outside of the narrow mode.

And the alcohol aspect, (no one is sober at 3:00 AM) What does it say about people that they/we need use alcohol to open up the part that desires people? Or desires sex outside of a traditional relationship structure. Don't all these concepts seem like they are in the long shadow of extremely socially conservative thought?

 

[WIA20XX]

Don't all these concepts seem like they are in the long shadow of extremely socially conservative thought?

In my mind, humans have been mating for something like 300,000 years?
But we haven't really been living in settled societies for more than 10,000? (which changes the calculus on "choosing")
Romantic Love, Courting, Formal Marriage are all within the last 500 years.
And we've only had the pill for 50 years?

There's been a ton of social change, meanwhile the hardware has largely stayed the same.

On this post, we're at the very edge of a new way of thinking about sex for the sake of sex, and somewhat in the background in terms of relationships/marriage. We're not thinking about survival in a harsh world.

Those old things don't disappear. We're basically fighting biology and sociology at the same time.